So they argue about who gets to sit in the front seat of the car. Hugo swears at Bruno but after pleading from Mum does not 'make a scene.' He then calmly gets in the back seat, waits till half way through the journey, then strikes Bruno hard on the back of the head with his phone.
That is NOT a neuro diverse reaction in the spur of the moment. That is a calculated and premeditated act of aggression, and a nasty one at that.
Stop making excuses for your son and use the fucking money you spunk on beach houses, and £400 blenders, to get him some proper help. Also- what's the betting there will be no consequence for his nasty actions!!? She hasn't got the balls to address it with him, so buys Bruno a Pain au Chocolate to pacify him instead. Honestly....I've heard it all
He displays very worrying behaviours and will end up seriously hurting someone. Meanwhile you stick your head in the sand making excuses for him.