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it looks like she is being birthed from a big bald vulva!
Whatishappening123
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Guys I did it, because Iosing my dad through suicide was the worst thing I ever went through. I had to say something and stand up for something so close to my heart. Here comes the blocking.
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BettyCrocker
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Christ. Imagine having to have sober sex with lee Meldrum. I think I’d have to go celibate aswell as tee total....why Doesn’t she just put her new white trackies on, sorry, loung we’re,stick on some fish fingers and set up the monopoly ? Since that’s her faaaaavoutor dreeeeemeeeee bestest date night ? Not even a bottle of wine since she’s tee total now don’t you know
In a world where you can be anything, be kind....but tomorrow please continue to be gullible, impressionable and exploitable. Because we, the social media influencers, need you to strive to live your #bestlife by spending your hard earned cash on this tat I'm being paid to sell to you which I recieved for free. So I too can live my #bestlife with my feet up, sat on my new couch in my new big house while my cleaner scrubs the skirting boards. If my facade makes you feel inadequate, lonely or gets you into debt then just be quiet, don't protest. I haven't got time to search pintrest for meaningless quotes today. I've got brand work to do.
I'm a world we're you can be anything... Don't be a fucking hypocrite.
I'm a world we're you can be anything... Don't be a fucking hypocrite.
Higuyzzzzz
Active member
There all saying now that they want to regulate people who sign up to Instagram which is fair enough to stop “trolling”. Tell you what they need to do as well though and that’s regulate the influencers who use it to make money. Make sure they don’t use their kids to make money, pay and declare all to HMRC, are transparent when selling their shit, don’t let them use affiliate links for stuff they haven’t even bought or that they have on a “wish list” and that they are held accountable for ALL their mistakes whether that be racist comments (Lee and Rebecca Meldrum), ending up in PornHub (Rebecca Lamb), being snippy with followers (Kerry Conway) or pimping your kids out wearing skimpy little outfits and fake tanning kids (Ash Reid) or having your kids end up on a peadophiles network of pictures (Brummy Mummy). So yeah let’s regulate members of the Instagram community both those who want to spectate and those who use it to MAKE MONEY!! Oh and speaking of mental health issues if you influencers are saying your mental health is suffering now because of your chosen careers then think on as to how your kids mental health will be when they grow up to realise you lot pimped them out into an online world they didn’t choose!
CallingDoctorJones
Active member
Her post makes me feel physically sick. My brother took his own life. It is the worst thing my family has ever been through. Years on we are still uncovering ‘reasons’, things that we just didn’t know, that cumulated in him making that awful choice. I can assure Rebecca, and any other influencer that wants to use this tragic event to drum up sympathy for themselves, that it went far, far deeper than some nasty comments on line.
The fact that she is using a young woman’s suicide for content is deplorable. As someone who has been there, Rebecca I can assure you, your post is providing no comfort to Caroline’s family. Comparing what has happened to her to the backlash you faced for being an out & our racist is at best ignorant and worst pure evil.
The fact that she is using a young woman’s suicide for content is deplorable. As someone who has been there, Rebecca I can assure you, your post is providing no comfort to Caroline’s family. Comparing what has happened to her to the backlash you faced for being an out & our racist is at best ignorant and worst pure evil.
BettyCrocker
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Well yes, be kind.
FFS sake Reb & Lee....go boil your head. Jump on anything to try and bring you more views and interaction.
Start practicing what you preach would at least be a start.
Is it kind to create fake Instagram profiles and use them to try to intimidate people?
Is it kind to stalk people on Facebook and send them direct messages to try to intimidate them?
Is it kind to doxx someone and encourage thousands of people to hurl abuse at them?
Is it kind to belittle the tragic murder of a man who once lived in your home?
Is it kind to sell the birth of your child for £15K to a shitty PR company and then complain about that same child on a daily basis?
is it kind to continually invade the privacy of your children and sell them online when YOU KNOW the kinds of depraved people who will be watching?
yeah...... be kind.
BettyCrocker
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She finds it hard with Poppy because the unfortunate reality is that she never genuinely wanted Poppy. The pregnancy was 100% a business decision that they made to secure revenue and to ensure they had social media content for the duration of the pregnancy and the first year or so of Poppy’s life. They used and exploited every single aspect of the pregnancy for content, they sold her birth for a reported £15K and then they continued to sell every detail of the kids life when she was a newborn.
now the ship has sailed, Poppy doesn’t bring in money anymore so Rebecca has lost interest and very clearly cannot even be bothered to pretend she cares.
It really is a sad state of affairs and my heart breaks for Poppy, the poor kid seems like a little gem and Rebecca doesn’t deserve her.
now the ship has sailed, Poppy doesn’t bring in money anymore so Rebecca has lost interest and very clearly cannot even be bothered to pretend she cares.
It really is a sad state of affairs and my heart breaks for Poppy, the poor kid seems like a little gem and Rebecca doesn’t deserve her.
Silverheel
Chatty Member
She actually just stated she fell out of love with playing with Poppy. I cringed so hard my mouth hurts.
We all know being mums has it's hard moments, but come the hell on? You fell out of love with playing with your normal 2 year old because she threw tantrums? How fucking selfish and self centered is this woman?
We all know being mums has it's hard moments, but come the hell on? You fell out of love with playing with your normal 2 year old because she threw tantrums? How fucking selfish and self centered is this woman?
BettyCrocker
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For the love of god.
Caroline flack was a deeply troubled, mentally unwell woman. She was an alleged drug user. She was an alleged perpetrator of domestic violence and was due to go on trail for this in a few weeks. She took her own life because of a combination of these things. She was mentally unwell. It’s tragic and awful and extremely sad for her family & friends. It’s a terrible thing to happen. To use this situation for content and engagement on Instagram, a few hours after this tragic lady passed away is abhorrent. I wish “influencers” would stop using the tragedy of others for their own gain.
Caroline flack was a deeply troubled, mentally unwell woman. She was an alleged drug user. She was an alleged perpetrator of domestic violence and was due to go on trail for this in a few weeks. She took her own life because of a combination of these things. She was mentally unwell. It’s tragic and awful and extremely sad for her family & friends. It’s a terrible thing to happen. To use this situation for content and engagement on Instagram, a few hours after this tragic lady passed away is abhorrent. I wish “influencers” would stop using the tragedy of others for their own gain.
BettyCrocker
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Still here lads.Think Betty has left?
been reading along all weekend.
I just don’t really have the words to say how disgusted I am with the Meldrums and all of these bloody “influencers” using the tragic Suicide of someone they didn’t know, had never met, have absolutely no personal involvement with, and have nothing in common with to push their own agenda. It’s so blatant that it’s just horrifying.
Im just sickened by it really.
I_Like_Tractors
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Ooh I know I know!
One of them is on another planet and has no idea about normal human existence and the other one is ET
Did CF suicide 'shake' me ? No. I was saddened that someone felt that this was the only way they could see an end to their internal pain, very much as I was saddened by Robin Williams suicide following his diagnosis of Lewy Body Disease.
I was much more shaken and did shed tears over the death of Liam Smith the teenager you mentioned above. He was only 16 and nearly everyone I know in this area had at some point shared his missing poster on facebook. The few weeks after he went missing every dog walk we went on, every time we drove round the Crathes / Banchory / Strachan area you looked for some signs that someone could be camped out etc.
Without giving away my sons identity, one of his team mates committed suicide on their 18th birthday, just weeks before they were all due to travel to Australia & New Zealand to compete and my son was with them just the day before they took their own life. This persons friends including my son all were questioning themselves as to whether there was something they could have done to prevent it happening. Very complex issues unravelled after their death and actually no one was unkind to this person, there were injury related issues / sports funding issues / a high achiever who put incredible pressure on themselves to succeed etc. Far far more complex than 'being kind'
What does shake me is the increasing number of young people who take their own lives, those that go to school with our children, those whose families we know through community or business.
My apologies for the horrendously long article attached which was posted yesterday on my facebook page by a friend who is a Senior CAMHS Nurse. This is what shakes me. This is what should shake both Meldrums, one day soon the three girls will be teenagers. Her girls may grow up to be shaken to the core by the suicide of a friend , a class mate , a young work colleague. 1 in five children have mental heath problems - they cannot smugly assume that their children will not be in any of these statistics. Instead of being shaken by the death of a celebrity who for some bizarre reason Rebecca feels she has some connection with and the sanctimonious spewing of 'Be Kind' they both need to look closer to home and realise the content they have created and their online behaviour has the potential to become a mental health monster for their three girls.
A SILENT TRAGEDY
There is a silent tragedy that is unfolding today in our homes, and concerns our most precious jewels: our children. Our children are in a devastating emotional state! In the last 15 years, researchers have given us increasingly alarming statistics on a sharp and steady increase in childhood mental illness that is now reaching epidemic proportions:
Statistics do not lie:
• 1 in 5 children have mental health problems
• A 43% increase in ADHD has been noted
• A 37% increase in adolescent depression has been noted
• There has been a 200% increase in the suicide rate in children aged 10 to 14
What is happening and what are we doing wrong?
Today's children are being over-stimulated and over-gifted with material objects, but they are deprived of the fundamentals of a healthy childhood, such as:
• Emotionally available parents
• Clearly defined limits
• Responsibilities
• Balanced nutrition and adequate sleep
• Movement in general but especially OUTDOORS
• Creative play, social interaction, unstructured game opportunities and boredom spaces
Instead, in recent years, children have been filled with:
• Digitally distracted parents
• Indulgent and permissive parents who let children "rule the world" and whoever sets the rules
• A sense of right, of deserving everything without earning it or being responsible for obtaining it
• Inadequate sleep and unbalanced nutrition
• A sedentary lifestyle
• Endless stimulation, technological nannies, instant gratification and absence of boring moments
What to do?
If we want our children to be happy and healthy individuals, we have to wake up and get back to basics. It is still possible! Many families see immediate improvements after weeks of implementing the following recommendations:
• Set limits and remember that you are the captain of the ship. Your children will feel more confident knowing that you have control of the helm.
• Offer children a balanced lifestyle full of what children NEED, not just what they WANT. Don't be afraid to say "no" to your children if what they want is not what they need.
• Provide nutritious food and limit junk food.
• Spend at least one hour a day outdoors doing activities such as: cycling, walking, fishing, bird / insect watching
• Enjoy a daily family dinner without smartphones or distracting technology.
• Play board games as a family or if children are very small for board games, get carried away by their interests and allow them to rule in the game
• Involve your children in some homework or household chores according to their age (folding clothes, ordering toys, hanging clothes, unpacking food, setting the table, feeding the dog etc.)
• Implement a consistent sleep routine to ensure your child gets enough sleep. The schedules will be even more important for school-age children.
• Teach responsibility and independence. Do not overprotect them against all frustration or mistakes. Misunderstanding will help them build resilience and learn to overcome life's challenges,
• Do not carry your children's backpack, do not carry their backpacks, do not carry the homework they forgot, do not peel bananas or peel oranges if they can do it on their own (4-5 years). Instead of giving them the fish, teach them to fish.
• Teach them to wait and delay gratification.
• Provide opportunities for "boredom", since boredom is the moment when creativity awakens. Do not feel responsible for always keeping children entertained.
• Do not use technology as a cure for boredom, nor offer it at the first second of inactivity.
• Avoid using technology during meals, in cars, restaurants, shopping centers. Use these moments as opportunities to socialize by training the brains to know how to work when they are in mode: "boredom"
• Help them create a "bottle of boredom" with activity ideas for when they are bored.
• Be emotionally available to connect with children and teach them self-regulation and social skills:
• Turn off the phones at night when children have to go to bed to avoid digital distraction.
• Become a regulator or emotional trainer for your children. Teach them to recognize and manage their own frustrations and anger.
• Teach them to greet, to take turns, to share without running out of anything, to say thank you and please, to acknowledge the error and apologize (do not force them), be a model of all those values you instill.
• Connect emotionally - smile, hug, kiss, tickle, read, dance, jump, play or crawl with them.
Article written by — Victoria Prooday
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Dogmuck
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Honestly though, when I’m feeling heartbroken and weird by the sudden and tragic death of a celebrity I always reach for the dog biscuits. Only a few years back, that Christmas when George Michael died, I could not face a Turkey dinner, I just went straight for the dog biscuits, they saw me through, a real comfort...and man my hair was so glossy afterwards!
Blondieoverthirty
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Someone commented this & its so true