I’d wager that every single parent in that communion class have their own worries and woes, they just don’t broadcast them to hundreds of thousands and deal with them in private. Rachel can never see outside herself. She has three healthy children, a nice home and plenty of money coming in. She actually has it better than most. Sure every second family has someone with cancer, a partner who has cheated, a child who is sick, a family struggling with money, a family member with a drug habit - the list goes on. We all have our crosses to bear.
Lots of typical two parent families can put up a front but be crumbling behind the scenes. She might not have Daniel anymore but she has plenty of help waiting at the sidelines. Fathers in law, brothers and uncles waiting in the wings to help her and an army of “de lads” and girlfriends willing to give up their Friday nights to comfort her with wine and a Chinese. She has lost Daniel but her life is so rich in other ways. She really should appreciate that and quit the mourn porn.