DramaHun
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New member, and was only going to be a lurker, but seeing this I just had to comment.I used to check her stories up until today! I feel completely inadequate and miserable thanks to her! I haven’t got a house, I haven’t got expensive furniture that I got gifted. I haven’t got expensive items in my house. All my crap is cheap because I can’t afford anything else and that even though I’m working my ass off in a hospital every bloody week! My relationship isn’t all butterflies like hers, I suffered severe depression after both my kids. I’m laying in bed at the moment questioning my whole life, thinking what have I done to not deserve any luck?? Then this bloody Grinch woman comes and shoves all her beautiful life and wealth in my face! You have no idea how shit I’m feeling because of her! Yep I’m close to tears! Fuck her and her fake life! I’m so done with this person
I'm sorry to hear you have suffered with depression. But please don't do this to yourself! She hasn't got a beautiful life or wealth. That's a facade. She has sold her life, her freedom, her baby, her privacy, her future happiness for what? A few pretty things? A bigger bedroom & lounge? She's a slave now. In a grey colourless house. Yawn! Trust me. You can be better off with lessI used to check her stories up until today! I feel completely inadequate and miserable thanks to her! I haven’t got a house, I haven’t got expensive furniture that I got gifted. I haven’t got expensive items in my house. All my crap is cheap because I can’t afford anything else and that even though I’m working my ass off in a hospital every bloody week! My relationship isn’t all butterflies like hers, I suffered severe depression after both my kids. I’m laying in bed at the moment questioning my whole life, thinking what have I done to not deserve any luck?? Then this bloody Grinch woman comes and shoves all her beautiful life and wealth in my face! You have no idea how shit I’m feeling because of her! Yep I’m close to tears! Fuck her and her fake life! I’m so done with this person
I think I can clear this up. The Grinch is obvs pissed that there isn't going to be any wax melts named after her. It seems that melts called Handsomes, Gretal and Bugboy just aren't going to work. They did look at a melt called We are all in it together, but the smell of bullshit being emited from it was overwhelming.Sophie,
We haven’t heard anything about Ava wax melts for so long. Were you sad to miss the party? There were some very disappointed instacleaners there without their queen.
Have you stopped promoting Ava or perhaps renegotiating your business relationship?
ATB
That is one of the most beautifully written and thoughtful posts I’ve read xNew member, and was only going to be a lurker, but seeing this I just had to comment.
I know you will know this, deep down, but please don't compare yourself to others, especially on social media. It can be so disheartening, and it can be very detrimental to someone's mental health, especially if that someone is already in an emotionally vulnerable place and it sounds like you are right now. I get it, I hate my job. I've been there for the past 4 years, I despise waking up in the morning to go there, and it's arguably triggered a mild depression/anxiety in me. I was signed off sick by my GP in November last year due to work stress because of poor management (I'm only 25). I've had 22 interviews in the past 14 months and been rejected from them all. I had an abnormal smear test in January, my ex cheated on me in March and for the past 9 months I've just felt shite in every which way. This is in no way me bragging about how my life's been 'so much harder' than yours, so please don't think it is! I'm just saying that sometimes social media, and Instagram especially can be used as a form of escapism, from your life, that's how I've been using it recently (especially all the proper house accounts, unlike Hinch), but it can really take it's toll on you if your not in a good emotional place in your life.
Instagram is a business platform now (coincides with when Facebook took over I reckon), long gone are the days of people Instagramming plates of food like in the early days. I look at all these Youtubers, Bloggers, Instagram accounts and I get jealous. I want a piece of the pie! I could have been one of these mega Youtube guru's earning millions, I was off that age when it all really took off. It's a shame that this is an aspiration for people now. Don't study and go to uni, just upload a makeup tutorial, go on Love Island, shag someone on National TV you'll be a millionaire in no time. It's quick money. It's not fair. I slogged away at uni, I had to save for 4 years whilst renting to get on the property ladder with no help from bank of mum and dad (I'm on the property ladder now though so that makes me more advantaged than others). I'm having to play thousands of my own money for work and repairs, furniture, decoration etc. I wish I could earn a £1k+ collab for one insta post, get gifted furniture for my house, but I can't, so it means I have to stay in a job that I hate just so I can afford everything this house is going to cost me. I do realise talking about having house makes it sound like a humble brag which is not what I'm trying to do at all, I'm just saying that as a single person going through all this on my own (and I don't even have kids, I can't imagine the extra stress that adds), I get jealous when I see these free gifts, collabs, PR stuff, from people who are already millionaires, and to be honest, I sometimes wish I was one of them.
All publicity is good publicity, even with these threads.. everybody buys into that business (Mrs Hinch being the business here), whether you admire her or can't stand her, she's still getting the clicks and the views, so the till is still ringing.
I mean I am a complete hypocrite because I've spent the last 3 days on Tattle being a big nosey bastard with all the gossip :') but please please try to no longer compare yourself and get upset. Maybe just try to categorise her? Try to treat her as a business and it may help you detach/disengage? I still follow her, view her stories if she's at the top of my feed, but I don't go actively looking for her. Also, not that I'm in any way defending Hinchy, you don't know how beautiful her life really is or whether her relationship is all butterflies.
Apologies if you find this long-winded reply (you didn't ask for my life story) like a chastisement, but focus on you. You have to slog it in work all week in what I imagine is a demanding role, but I bet you appreciate the second you step your foot over the door and get to relax in your home. So what if you have a load of cheap crap!?? You can't take it with you when you die so who gives a fuck. You've got more important things than fancy showhome and that's your children. It's hard, but please no longer compare yourself to that woman, her life seems boring as fuck!
I think you should write yourself little goals each day/week. They don't have to be big milestones, just things that normal WORKING people with families have to do e.g. 'managed to take the dry washing off the maiden and put away within a week' (rather than the 2 weeks I usually leave it for). Big hugs, thinking of you xx