Things that make me cringe involving Mia:
1. Her tiktoks are always attention seeking. They’re either about her traumatic birth, her not having mum friends, her liking certain guys and getting her followers to feel sorry for her because they’re way out of her league or shaking her arse to songs about sleeping around, doing drugs and drinking and one night stands.
For a start there’s about 80% of mums who go through some type of trauma when giving birth, she isn’t the only one and some people have had it a lot worse resulting in loss, either them losing their baby or them passing away themselves where the father is left with the baby who now doesn’t have a mum.
One minute she says she has no mum friends and goes on to say how lonely she is but thanks to her YouTube “career” she’s made a bunch of mum friends who she has now booked a holiday with. Some people have absolutely no one, they don’t have a family who supports them, they don’t have a sibling close in age who helps babysit, they don’t have friends to do these exciting things with.. some people are completely alone. I don’t think she’s grateful at all to what and who she has.
She always posts about liking these guys who are “famous” who she has no chance with and gets her followers to harass them. First it was Harry from sidemen, then it was ethan from sidemen and now it’s Jude. All these “dream dads” for Mabel that Mia would love to have are well known for drinking and drugs. If you look at one video on Harry’s youtube everyone is telling him to stop doing drugs and get back posting videos. I couldn’t think of anyone worse around my daughter. She moans she goes for the “idiot guys” and the ones that treat her like shit but she is literally asking for it. She needs to get offline, stop stalking these guys who are no good for Mabel and go out to find someone genuinely nice and caring... but then again they won’t be her type and they won’t be good for her click bait on YouTube.
I don’t go on tiktok but I occasionally click on mia’s tiktoks if they’re mentioned here. Mia can dance shaking her arse to slutty songs all she wants as long as she doesn’t complain she’s attracting the wrong type of guys. I think it’s pretty obvious from her YouTube videos that she doesn’t care less about her followers there so why would she over on tiktok?! She promotes negative things to her young followers constantly... I see 12 and 14 year olds saying they’ve been with their boyfriend for 3 weeks and are considering a baby because they think Mabel is adorable. These young girls haven’t got a clue when it comes to the struggles with a small human being.
2. How she talks about how amazing her life is and how well planned out she has it when she’s literally falling apart.
When anyone posts things like “you should concentrate on Mabel” or “you should be more worried about college” she always replies with the same boring shit “I’ve just got a car, I’m moving out soon, planning for baby number 2 and I’ve got my dream job with my amazing life”. Like someone said above, she never comments to the positive or nice comments, she will only respond to hate, she’s defensive but has no valid points at all. A few days later you’ll see a YouTube video up with her crying in the thumbnail and a clickbait title, for extra attention she may also post something on Instagram and Snapchat. She says how her life is falling apart, how she isn’t happy and how all the negative things happen to her. She has a pretty amazing life, I think anyone would dream of getting the chances she’s been given (like with YouTube and living at home with a baby paying absolutely nothing). She won’t accept that she needs help and has problems and she’s too stubborn to do anything for herself, let alone for her daughter.
3. Her attitude (this is the reason I haven’t watched her last (10?) Videos)
She always talks with such an arsey attitude, with her eyes rolling and obviously Mia thinks she always knows best. The people that genuinely care about Mabel and give mia advice get shut down and pretty much attacked by her followers when all they do is give her advice. I’ve never once seen her get hate and seen anyone say that Mabel should be taken away yet she mentions it constantly. She has so much self-pity. She needs to drop her guard, admit her mistakes, pick herself up and try again. She’s at that stage now where if she doesn’t change quick enough she will end up losing everything (youtube wise). I think mia could have so much potential and could be doing really well for herself but because of her age and stubbornness it’s destroying her. If she isn’t happy with everything she has now... will she ever be happy?
I could go on forever but I’ve already written so much, I’m sure I’ll make another one soon
. I just think she’s embarrassing herself at the moment and she gets defensive when people try helping.
*i know covid disrupted a lot but she’s managed to visit plenty of cities and shopping centres..
I’m surprised mia likes someone that doesn’t dress in only brown and sage green, he won’t look good on her instagram or in her bedroom.
actually makes me fuming how can they sit there and say that vaginal births are uncomplicated and traumatic ones are rare? I'm sorry to put it bluntly, my son tore me a new arsehole, I could feel every single stitch despite the anaesthetic, I too almost died from 2.6L blood loss, my heart rate was so high the doctors were worried about cardiac arrest, put under general anaesthetic in the end because my stitches were literally ripping at the seams, had a line put into my artery, stayed in hospital for a week afterwards with other complications with iron and blood pressure - but no, wasn't traumatic because it was vaginal. You can tell this person has never even seen a birth before let alone had a child. Traumatic births are actually probably more common than nice gentle ones, it's just were not allowed to talk about them in case we 'scare' new mums. It's a horrible experience to go through but it's not going to help anyone by making it one of your 3 personality traits. Get over it or get therapy.
Half of it isn’t strong enough they give you an amount for a reason (especially how much she’s had in the past she’s probably immune tbh).. I don’t know a single baby who actively enjoys calpol, you have to force them to drink it if it’s going to make them feel better! I’m not sure she understands that a temperature can be dangerous? Also, I’m tired of her saying Mabel is always ill and not taking her to a doctor.
