I struggle to personally see how she’s trying? All I see her do is delete all comments and ignore any criticism? There are many many things shes done that could be dangerous and damaging to Mabel (literally what 99% of this thread is!) and she refuses to acknowledge or do better. I agree Mabel is fed, clean etc, but there’s more to being a good mum than that imo. Mia still puts her own hobbies & own needs WAY before Mabel’s and I don’t think that’s ok! Obviously social is a reach & they wouldn’t be interested anyway like everyone’s said, but she’s hardly trying to be a good mum either! And of course this seems to be due to PND, so I don’t think it would be a bad thing for someone to give her some support. But I guess that’s just me
edit: I literally warned her about the dangers of not using boiled water to kill the bacteria in formula, told her what’s in formula & what it can cause etc, and she just blocked me and continued to use cold water & use the same bottle through the night. Again, not social services level but hardly gives me faith that she cares that much