... And even when she made known these things,the know it all basically balked at what she was doing.
He doesn’t like anyone telling him what to do,not any time,any where. If this all disappears soon,he will be a nobody again. Abbie was his ticket to being his own boss,setting all his own rules,etc. and he took full advantage of the situation and of her.
Yes, Asa always controlling, lying, manipulating, building himself up, pushing others down, ego maniac....a textbook narcissist.
Let's look at a few Maassisms:
-Abbie's yelling stim is ongoing, Asa: We need to find a way to get it under control, let's send her to her room to do it.
- Also Asa: "Telling someone not to stim is like telling them not to breath- stimming shouldn't be controlled" (Playlist trip in Cali with the Wee's)
- Vlogs: Abbie tries to steal food at Thanksgiving -Asa swats her hand and tells her no. Abbie has been sent to her room as punishment in atleast 2 vlogs in the new house ( see "Arguing with Autistic daughter," there is also one she is in thumbnail on the stairs wearing Batman shirt)
- New narrative Asa"we don't punish/discipline our daughter....life is too short"
- Asa: "Abbie is never really aggressive"
- Vlogs : Abbie violently attacking Mom pulling her hair, throwing canned goods in car at driver while driving, kicks Mom while driving, slapped Mom in the face, gnaws her own arm in frustration until bruised and skin broken, wrestles brother and instigates fighting with him(play or otherwise).
Asa why not out yourself as a narcissist like you outed Isaiah's anxiety issues. By the way, do you ever get his consent for what you leave in the vlogs about him? Why do I doubt it
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@Sam-I-Am
I am still catching up on the previous thread. I want to comment about your post about Abbie talking or babbling at a young age.
They did a video about the first signs that she had Autism and they have talked about her diagnosis and how they responded to it, which was mostly talk about grief and anger. I feel like if she had spoken or made any baby sounds they should have mentioned it, but I don't recall seeing that they did.
Thank you for sharing your amazing experience with your amazing children. You are a hero with a strong resilient soul. I wish you all the best in life