Denise Pelo #2

[itsmetoddkraines]

It actually makes me so sad and frustrated !! Why is none of this being address by people!! The bad misleading information and her know all attitude!! I had a miscarriage on my own in hospital a few weeks ago my husband wasn’t aloud in to support me because of the likes of denise and danni the mammy out living there best lives mixing with everyone, everywhere and keeping cases up and restrictions in place!! But once it hits her life she is all over social media expecting sympathy and attention!! She didn’t give a fuck when it didn’t effect her personally now she is racking up the followers who will be drawn into her false information and bullshit!! Please lit a candle no one lit a candle for me when I was on my own losing my baby!! She is incredibly self centred and insensitive!! Girl read a few books and now think she is the all know guru of everything always talking about staying in her lane yet thinks she is the next coming of Jesus and the spiritual guru the world so desperately needs right now!! Her ego is frightening!! Better off Sticking to hair rather than giving advice about stuff she knows nothing about!! Obviously I hope all is ok for her and baby but it’s so disrespectful and hurtful to see her carry on the way she is right now!! I never in my life posted about another person and feel bad for even doing it but this is unreal and so wrong!!

 

[Niamh97]

Are all 6 year olds as annoying as Beth? Her “Hey guys” is enough to remind me to take the pill everytime I hear it I am a bitch. Fucking crucify me

 

[Veenah]

I'm glad the baby is here and safe. This whole thing really isn't sitting well with me. It's being sold to us as Brave Denise breaking the stigma about covid in pregnancy and labour, but her not attempting to protect herself and all and then the stories during induction while doing her hair and face smacks to me of minimising the situation and making it seem like it's not that big a deal if you get covid in late pregnancy. I just don't think it's a great message.

I also recently miscarried in hospital by myself after IVF so maybe I'm being sensitive but none of this seems right to me.

 

[GetaRealJob]

Ah jesus... do it herself?! Give her a bloody break!

Shes just given birth... hand expressing is a skill. Its not particularly easy to do.. especially if she's engorged etc etc etc. She was/is obv at risk of mastitis. The woman also has covid and a newborn... christ give her a break! A kind and skilled midwife helped her avoid requiring antibiotics & a possible hospital admission by ensuring both breaks were fully emptied & avoiding mastitis.
Obviously shes still developing the skill of breast feeding and ensuring shes fully empty. Her newborn is learning.

My time to bow outta this thread. Some of the things she gets criticised for are absolutely ridiculous.

Talk about anything BUT her need for post natal care and attention. Which ensures his newborn is cared for. Thats just below the belt.

 

[J.BFletcher]

Step too far. The baby is breathing just fine. His chest is rising. Nothing wrong with him. At risk of sounding like I’m moderating but… it really isn’t ok to be discussing a baby’s health on here and scaremongering other parents especially when you are not experts on this and I know you don’t have to be an expert but you’re wrong about the breathing. We all know that a lot of these instagrammers are reading on here and I know everyone has an opinion on certain ways people conduct themselves and I will be the first to say I give out as much as anyone else but it isn’t fair to be saying things like this.

 

[Socialmediabite]

Great all is well...

But....

I hope we leave all this manifest shite in 2021. It's toxic. It implies we have full control over what happens in life. We don't.

 

[Thumper]

Its kinda made my day if it's true that she fecked up with her painfully drawn out gender reveal with the wristband thing. He also totally looks like a boy.

What a fucked up sense of priority that it's not the fact that baby is here safely despite concerns over his movement and placental function that gets the fanfare. There is an absolute lack of gratitude or awareness of her absolute luck.

Instead it's all this ridiculous build up to whether the poor naked child has a penis or not.

As someone who has experienced both infertility and stillbirth I found the whole thing so triggering, the casual mention of reduced movement and placental failure, the constant shots of traces and heartbeats and then the absolute sense of entitlement that he was here and the pantomime over his gender, as if it's important.

Honestly she's an absolute dickhead. Everyone wanted him here safely Denise but no-one gives a shit about his gender. I bet there will be another big suspense on his name.

 

[Thumper]

You can still catch covid even if vaccinated, it doesn’t stop from you catching it or spreading it. So vaccinated or not it wouldn’t have changed the outcome.

That's not quite true though. Absolutely you can still catch it but you're significantly less likely to. It very probably would have changed the outcome.

I think the thing re vaccines is that everyone makes the best decision for them based on what they perceive the risks and benefits to be. We can go back and forth all day defending the standpoint that we ultimately took, but all it does is make other people feel bad and defensive of their decision.

Denise didn't take the vaccine which we all agree was reasonable but ultimately left her at higher risk for contracting, getting sick from and spreading covid. She then failed to mitigate that extra risk by cocooning, instead moving between multiple salons, going out for meals in large groups with no social distancing and god only knows what else. It's the combination of all of those things that people are upset about.

 

[JillZarin]

Not a smart arse question, genuinely, has Denise ever said to those following her,if you manifest or believe hard enough, wish and want it enough, then you will have your baby. ?

I don't believe she ever has.... I'm fairness to her like. I really don't think she's ever said those words.
She has said she used manifestation and does alot of work on herself and how her mind thinks, she controls her thoughts. but I don't believe she has outright said if you believe and wish enough it will happen. Nor that she ever said your mind can overcome your physical infertility.

Perhaps its peoples interpretation of what she said about law of attraction and manifesting. Peoples own insecurities were brought up listening to it.

It is not my own insecurities that she brings up. I don't know of you have been through fertility treatment but if you have you will know that you second guess every single aspect of what you do in your life before, during and after. What cosmetics you use, what cleaning products, what you eat, whether you took your injection or pills 2 minutes too early or late, should you have bent down to pick up that pen, whether that twinge is your Godforsaken period coming again, if your womb lining is 0.05mm too little or too much, if the phonecall you will get in the morning will tell you that none of your embryos made it to day 5 blastocysts, if the credit union are going to turn down yet another loan for "home improvement", if you don't chat to work colleagues today because you're so afraid you are going to start crying, if you hear another pregnancy announcement your heart is going to break into a million pieces - again. Denise did 9 IVF cycles and was blessed to have her daughter and really acknowledged that, to then go on and have a natural pregnancy and to state in various ways at various times that is was as a result of journalling, positive thinking and manifesting is just so disingenuous it actually beggars belief. I'm not insecure, I'm incredulous that she thinks it is ok to spout this horseshit having gone through numerous fertility treatments herself!! If she just said it was luck - grand but the bullshit of this manifestation bollocks!!!

 

[JillZarin]

Ugh all the 'gratefulness' is just a cover to show off.
I'm so grateful to get back to my walks (LOOK AT MY BODY)
I'm so blessed to spend time in my mobile home (LOOK AT MY SECOND COT AND ALL THE STUFF I HAVE HERE)
Beth loves to talk to you all on Instagram and show off her outfits, I'm just the luckiest (L0OK AT ALL THE DESIGNER CLOTHES I HAVE FOR MY DAUGHTER)
I'm so blessed to have an amazing team behind me (LOOK AT ME AND MY BUSINESS BRAIN AND ALL THE PEOPLE I CAN AFFORD TO PAY, I MUST BE RICH)
Biggest show off ever!

 

[Consuela Banana Hammock]

Thread suggestion-

Manifesting McGregor vibes, postnatal bullshit gives us hives

 

[heretoshare]

I thought I replied but didn’t - first time poster. I’ve done 12 rounds of ivf and had 4 miscarriages and we’re starting another round as we want to be parents so badly. All the psychological books and manifesting and thinking as if I’m pregnant will not make this work. I did. It lose my babies because I didn’t want them enough. I messaged Denise twice now about the manifesting talk and how it is toxic. I asked her to use her platform to share that not everyone has the ending the dream of and that there is no blame for this and no reason. She told me I am the o lay other negative comment she got to that lady. She said loads of women called their child Beth as an ode to her and her support. She’s a glory hunter. I remember watching the ivf documentary and she was so rude the nurse was talking to her and she was doing Snapchat so so rude.

 

[Fatface]

Does she not feel guilty about them having to do this?

 

[Jellybb]

She should be ashamed of herself. She had the chance to get vaccinated and chose not to. Covid should not be coming into maternity hospitals at this stage

A very unfair statement….. It’s not really as simple as that tbh…. I am pregnant too and I have chosen to wait until my baby is born…. It’s too new and there isn’t a way to know will it have an effect on a baby yet.

 

[Thumper]

A very unfair statement….. It’s not really as simple as that tbh…. I am pregnant too and I have chosen to wait until my baby is born…. It’s too new and there isn’t a way to know will it have an effect on a baby yet.

Ah it's such a tough one. I don't think anyone should be judged for taking or not taking the vaccine. I am pregnant too and did take it but I'm definitely nervous about it. For me, having previously had a stillbirth, the very real and known risk of placental issues with covid outweighed all of the potential future risks of the vaccine. I had thought to hold off and just hope that it wouldn't catch up with me since it hasn't yet, but the new varient just feels too risky. I also felt that there is also a huge unknown in terms of how a mother contracting covid in pregnancy might affect the health of the baby long term, even if born safely.

Realistically no-one wants to be taking a new vaccine while pregnant, just as no-one wants to be contracting a virus with unknown consequences. It's just the shitty choices of a global pandemic. I spoke to a lot of trusted medical professionals and made my decision on that. It's about the balance of risk.

I think the real issue with Denise is not taking the vaccine and then also not taking any precautions to protect herself.

 

[brandambassador]

Guys - non essential travel is allowed. Most of us having played by the rules all along. I don’t judge anyone travelling now that’s it’s allowed. Your thoughts or opinions on travel & safety are yours to keep, not to force on others. I’m no fan of Denise, but let’s not assist giving tattle a bad name by moaning about people doing things that are allowed now. Just because you wouldn’t, doesn’t mean someone else shouldn’t. I’m travelling to chase up embryos. It would have been classed essential but I didn’t feel safe up to now . Please -

 

[JillZarin]

"Drawing a line under my Covid labour now"

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"Don't ask me about it again, it will never again be referred to and I will never acknowledge how my behaviour may have contributed to increasing the risk posed to those who cared for me and my baby during my stay in hospital.

Blessings and manifestations to you all. Namaste "

 

[Sneakers20]

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Snap! My baby is 13 weeks and I’m far heavier after having her. I was more concerned with soaking in the new baby then leaving her for a walk. Like yeah fair play you look great but your picture perfect house/hair/body aren’t realistic for most people! It really bugs me because she struggled to have that beautiful baby but is more concerned with her appearance and how many freebies she can get than soak in skin to skin and have him comfortable (not dressed up for the gram!)

Girls my baby is 13 yrs old and I still haven't lost the baby weight never ever compare yourselves to these fakers on insta

 

[HiddenValley]

Can't believe she has one of those "your germs can hurt me" on the baby's car seat when she herself gave birth to him with Covid. Would ye fcuk off

 

[gofo]

Hi ladies, I’m a first time poster here as my friend just brought my attention to this page. I have been through anything and everything when it comes to trying to have a baby and I can promise you that manifesting something does not come into play. Every round of IVF and before, I couldn’t have wanted, wished and prayed for a positive outcome more and on my 6th round of fertility treatment, I finally fell pregnant with twins. To be honest it was the round I was probably least sure would work. Please don’t even bother yourselves with these silly comments from this person. You know how much you want your baby and that’s all that matters. Place your trust in your doctors and be as good to yourself as possible along the way. I hope that each and every one of you get the babies you deserve.