Matt Walsh would mop the floor with Jonathan if they ever came face to face. I'm sorry as I know I've said this before, but I think Jonathan's biggest issue is his feeling of being inadequate, and he veils it by showing traits of narcissism. But deep down, he feels emasculated by being short, balding at a young age and having a high pitched voice. Having a go at being gay in his younger years (the manager, being a cage dancer, going to gay clubs to "feel safe") and not identifying as a man is his way of taking himself out of a game he thinks he's bound to loose in order to "save face". I really don't think he's gay or has any female traits. Women just find him creepy and don't want him and he has zero positive masculine personality traits.
I find it heartbreaking to see Eduardo's personality slowly being replaced by this stereotype he's clearly massively being exposed to on TikTok. He used to be such a sweet, loving and curious child. Despite the fact that Jonathan openly favoured Emilia, he remained positive and always tried his best to please him, luckily Anna was more drawn towards Eduardo, which balanced things out somewhat, but once the two As came along, he became an afterthought.
I'll never forget the look of complete and utter defeat when they were sat in a circle opening a package and Jonathan said his favourite child should be allowed to open it, then asking Emilia, Eduardo and Alessia who his favourite child was, and without hesitating, Emilia pointed at herself with a big grin while Eduardo's smile slipped away instantly, close to tears he looked down, also pointing his finger at his older sister.