It’s this ‘don’t have a go at me as I’m just here’ attitude that baffles me! There’s two points there; one is the ‘don’t have a go at me’ and indicates she knows when she’s posting it that people are going to pick up on it and be horrified that she’s letting a dog walk all over her baby, and two; the ‘I’m just here’, as if her lightening fast reflexes will prevent something bad from happening!
The sad fact is if ‘I’m here’ means ‘if something bad happened I’d stop it’ in essence dictates that the bad thing would already have happened and she’d be dealing with the aftermath. It’s fire fighting and not preventing and whilst I can’t say all parents, I’d reckon most, wouldn’t want to take the risk in the first place, rather than just minimise the damage.
I don’t know how much plainer we can make it; she’s putting her kids in danger, why can’t she see that?!
It’s ridiculous and quite frankly arrogant to think ‘it won’t happen to me’ as sadly I think she’ll find this world is full of people who thought it wouldn’t happen to them.
None of us want to be right here, none of us, regardless of what we feel about Stacey, want those children to come to harm and so being so intent on being snide and bitchy towards us is maybe clouding the issue for her. Hate us yes, have sly digs fine, fill your boots Stacey we’re big girls and boys now and we’ll probably find it hysterical, but for fucks sake just look at the perilous situations you’re putting your kids in and rectify them. At the end of the day it’s your responsibility and it should matter to you, so if you’re doing it all the more just to spite us then don’t, it’s a very dangerous game and it’s not one you should be playing.
Hand on heart I hope nothing happens and those children stay safe and come to no harm but if they do, Stacey needs to know it’s her and Joe’s responsibility. We en masse are concerned for the safety of her children and if she can’t see that for what it is and get over that it’s coming from us to address the issues well, then she’s even more stupid than I thought.