Omg, this seems to be the story of her life.
She says something. We repeat it, or comment on it. She says, 'how dare they say this/comment on this - it should be off limits'.
Repeat, with rage.
I'm feeling fed up - with us feeling like we have to defend ourselves.
I've been thinking about what I wrote above, and this is literally what has happened with information/opinions that are publicly issued since time immemorial.
It used to be newspapers and radio, which people would discuss in their drawing rooms, salons and clubs (very upper class examples there).
Lest we forget, Sali still comes into our houses through the mediums of newspapers and radio, and now there is social media as well, reaching people via their computer or phone, which they may read and discuss with those they live with, with their friends in whats app groups, or online - reaching people they either know in person or do not.
This is such a normal thing to do!!!!! It is not fair to be stigmatised for this and called low lives!!
We would have nothing to discuss if she didn't release things publicly. And yes, posting on social media is public when your account isn't limited.
The only advance here (apart from the technological medium) is that we have found each other - on this 'dragging site' - without knowing each other in 'real life' or other people's full identities. This wouldn't have been possible before recent times - a commenter remarked that the equivalent would have been to post a notice in the local newsagent e.g. 'anyone want to discuss Sali Hughes - possible nefarious practices - 07890 123456', and the likelihood is that there wouldn't be enough people in that small geographical area to form a discussion group on the topic like we have here.
That is what I think of us as, by the way, a 'critical
discussion group with a particular interest'. 'Critical' could be misinterpreted, of course, and it does have two relevant meanings, but I chose it for its meaning 'expressing or involving an analysis of the merits and faults of a work of literature, music, or art'. The second meaning - 'expressing adverse or disapproving comments or judgements' - follows as a result of our analysis of the faults of a 'pretty honest' journalist.
We are a discussion group so far as we respond to the issues of the day - any recent press output, social media offerings, but also we discuss related topics, such as skincare, makeup, fashion and 'tweakments', as well as feminism, ageing, books and tv. People also sometimes talk about things in their personal lives like illness, children and family estrangement.
Again, this is a totally normal dynamic to be involved in, and even a wholesome place to spend time. As people have said, they don't know anyone in the course of their lives otherwise who are sufficiently interested to discuss Sali, so they have found this site, and that doesn't make us weird. It could be compared to a hobbyist who breeds finches and goes onto a particular website to discuss this - their friends and family would not want to talk about finches any more than necessary and have no expertise, so they seek out a group of like-minded individuals to discuss developments in finch keeping and the evil agrochemical catalogue companies who keep raising the cost of finch food and medicine. They form a small community and get to know each other well enough that they send congratulations to each other on life events, and 'thinking of you' when one of them is suffering.
By the way, I do consider this site and the people here part of my 'real life'.
Perhaps an abrupt ending to my post, but I think that is all I wanted to say for now.