I doubt this is true. An MP would not have the power to sort out a passport or take on working for someone who wasn't their constituent. Caitlin Moran's tweet was absurd (and in my opinion reckless) but Jess Phillips (who I'm very much not a fan of) would not be able to get anything moving at the Passport Office for a non-constituent.Don't forget Jess Philips sorted out the passport for Sali's relative - Caitlin Moran tweeted to say something along the lines of 'can anyone help my friend who needs a passport renewed in a hurry?', Jess jumped to it. Great use of an MP's time.
I think there was two "you guys are sad and jealous" new posters that were shown the door. Just checked and Sali is the #10 thread in the last 24 hours when she's not usually in the top 40 - anyone can check this out looking at the trending threads. Nothing like freaky Friday, I think lots are over the influencer that called wolf.@Yel, I'm interested whether there has been any influx of views on this thread since Sali's programme?
While your right an MP doesn't have that power, I don't doubt that some think they do and would go out of their way to help a blue ticker that they like. Even if all their help was just an email to someone at the home office that achieved nothing.I doubt this is true. An MP would not have the power to sort out a passport or take on working for someone who wasn't their constituent. Caitlin Moran's tweet was absurd (and in my opinion reckless) but Jess Phillips (who I'm very much not a fan of) would not be able to get anything moving at the Passport Office for a non-constituent.
I know what happened on Twitter- I saw it unfold at the time. It's a big leap from Phillips asking for the person's details to her sorting out a passport. That would put her position at risk. And be nigh on impossible in one day. It was a Thursday evening Cautlin was tweeting and passport non- holder was travelling on Saturday. Caitlin's original tweet offered "untold riches" or similar to anyone that could sort it out. That was incredibly stupid, naive and inducing an employee of The Passport Office to act in a corrupt manner and risk their job by subverting the system.Well think what you want but it happened. Caitlin deleted of course but Jess didn't.
Yes. Jess Phillips said later she was offering to pass the details the person's MP via DM. Obviously a non blue tick wouldn't be able to get an MP's attention like Caitlin did. But the suggestion that Jess Phillips "sorted out the passport..." is potentially libellous. It would be resigning matter if she did - and she wouldn't be able to because the Passport Office couldn't expediate a passport application in less than 24 hours because of an MP enquiring on behalf of someone outside their constituency.I think there was two "you guys are sad and jealous" new posters that were shown the door. Just checked and Sali is the #10 thread in the last 24 hours when she's not usually in the top 40 - anyone can check this out looking at the trending threads. Nothing like freaky Friday, I think lots are over the influencer that called wolf.
While your right an MP doesn't have that power, I don't doubt that some think they do and would go out of their way to help a blue ticker that they like. Even if all their help was just an email to someone at the home office that achieved nothing.
I always rated Jess Phillips. I'm disappointed to read this.Don't forget Jess Philips sorted out the passport for Sali's relative - Caitlin Moran tweeted to say something along the lines of 'can anyone help my friend who needs a passport renewed in a hurry?', Jess jumped to it. Great use of an MP's time.
She contributed to the pile-on and bullying of Diane Abbott for no apparent reason, even after it was made known that she receives more abuse than any other female MP.I always rated Jess Phillips. I'm disappointed to read this.
SH kept going on about pile ons in her doc and on Radio 5 earlier. I wonder what Owen Jones would think? (And Esther Coren too of course.) SH kept saying Owen Jones was aetting his followers on *her* when she initiated it by quote tweeting him. The term gaslighting could be used to describe such behaviour. (SH chipped in after Sarah Ditum started another another pile on of Jones over a comment he made about cleaners and her insistence that he said everyone's got more time to clean during lockdown, which he hadn't. Even though SH had said in her column the previous Sat that we all had more time. Is that gaslighting?)She contributed to the pile-on and bullying of Diane Abbott for no apparent reason, even after it was made known that she receives more abuse than any other female MP.
For anyone who might want to know about SH and Tattle, @Yel suggests they look at two things: the list of most-liked posts across all the SH threads and the SH Wiki. I think these two together give a really good overview - the Wiki gives the history (which is still relevant) and the most-liked posts give an idea of the type of concern discussed. I'm not sure that a third piece, covering the same ground but describing things a bit differently, is needed.Hi, I've tried to put together peoples issues over her behavior in one article with receipts.
What do you think? Am I missing anything?
I often leave tabs open too for hours while I do other things - I've definitely racked up some timeI'm more of a lurker than a poster (but I am guilty of leaving multiple tabs open while I'm working on the other laptop/leaving the sewer, so may be partly held to account for the 16+ hours spent by users here).
I have gone down the rabbit hole of looking at the influencers on this site - this woman’s bio is like someone doing a comedy about InfluencersI can't sleep and have just gone on Sali's Instagram, which I very rarely do as I don't use Instagram and I normally see things she posts through people reposting here.
Anyway, I noticed that she has 'Insanitygroup.com' in her bio, which felt like a social media management agency, so I looked and it is very much an agency that deals with influencers.
Sali is featured on two pages: 'Digital Talent' (influencers) and 'Broadcast'.
Their digital talent roster really didn't impress me. I was expecting to recognise more people. I read and post on quite a few threads here, and I didn't recognise anyone they represented until I got to 'L' in the alphabet - an ex Made In Chelsea cast member. In my opinion, Sali sticks out like a sore thumb and I am vaguely astonished that she has consented to be featured in this category - I would very much have thought that she would have thought the company was beneath her. Link here: https://www.insanitygroup.com/digital/
Their 'broadcast' roster seems more her speed - I recognised a few radio presenters (including Jo Whiley), a few tv presenters, a fashion journalist, Roman and Martin Kemp, Nicola Adams, along with someone who used to be in Girls Aloud, someone who used to be on TOWIE, the ex Made in Chelsea person and her brother. https://www.insanitygroup.com/broadcast/
I wonder if signing with them/expanding into their 'Digital Talent' division has been a recent move?
Leaving a 'heart' reaction didn't seem quite enough, I think this post is excellent. Every day feels like it comes with a micro challenge; my housemate not bothering with housework until told to so, my boss making sexualised and sexist remarks, the women I work with being described as scary rather than assertive, the expectation that 'women support women' and we're witches if we don't, planning for Christmas being left to the women in my family because heaven forbid the menfolk do anything other than whinge about having turkey, and I feel quite energised by what you've written.I also want to add that as women we are taught by society that we must care for others: our partners, children, family, friends and even others who we do not know well or have never met.
This burden is laid at our door and caring traits are prized in 'good' women in a way that is not true of the male experience.
I think that women internalise this with the effect that we feel 'bad' for 'not being nice' to other people, especially other women, even when we have no real obligation to 'look after' these people's welfare.
I think that Sali looks at this site through this lens - that we have an obligation to 'be nice' to her - and that, likewise, past guilty commenters feel bad for 'talking badly' about Sali and 'upsetting' her [for the record, I do believe that Becky is real].
Part of empowering women so that we can live lives with equal chances is allowing us to have more control over those we choose to care for. This may involve not automatically being the allotted carer to an old parent, or not assuming the majority of household chores when both partners work the same hours; it might also involve not always being the go to parent for parental 'admin' or emotional support (Ruth Bader Ginsberg's remark on her son's school only calling her when they needed to consult a parent springs to mind).
Lastly, and most pertinently, this may involve not being responsible for all of the internet's feelings, including those of people you don't necessarily like or who have not been good for your own wellbeing.
Women are allowed to unshackle themselves from this obligation to care for and 'be nice' to everyone disproportionately, which may have no healthy boundaries, and can have the effect of depleting and exhausting us so that we have nothing left to give to the people in our own lives who are most important to us, as well as ourselves.
Attempting to guilt women into having feelings that they have 'let people down' by ever expressing negative or critical comments is policing our inner lives in a way that is not conducive to progress.
Did she actually?She contributed to the pile-on and bullying of Diane Abbott for no apparent reason, even after it was made known that she receives more abuse than any other female MP.
Yes. She takes pride in it.Did she actually?
Well I take back what I said then.