Thank you to
@Quasimodo,
@Southpaw33,
@Maleficent50,
@TawdryT and
@Mopsy75 for your kind words.
And to everyone else who read my post - sorry for the mini-rant of all the stuff I'm dealing with.
I know a lot of you know my backstory too w/ my abusive ex, etc.
RE: the spy
Reminder: this was their first post, and another a few days later.
This was yesterday:
So we've gone from "just moving in" and "definitely thinking" they live down the street and being uncertain about Jenn's name ...
...to being in-the-know about HOA interworkings, stuff that's gone on for years, knowing about FB posts for nanny Jess, besties with the next-door neighbor, knowledge of Jenn continually complaining about the board, calling their property the "trashy" house of the neighborhood, familiar with ongoing beefs seemingly everyone in the neighborhood has with them about what? who knows...
THIS is why some of us (including folks like me who have been on here for 3+ years who are more analytically minded by nature) are inherently skeptic about tea-related things, and that's a GOOD thing.
(like
@Southpaw33 referenced, some of us remember a certain
#huffanddoback IYKYK who also was apparently gallivanting around their neighborhood with tea)
Most legit tea givers are open to clarifying things (see: Dustin and Sean on the DIS thread as great examples).
If the questions are reasonable - and non-doxxing - and I believe everything everyone's asked about thus far (including myself, and I fully acknowledge I can be a broken record at times) has been more than reasonable, then why the attitude? And then up-and-leave, dangling a to-be-continued-like departure when some push back?
Legit tea-givers are be happy to fill-in-the-blanks, confirm things, explain their tea more (even if it's limited), etc. and not attack anyone who may not immediately understand how the disjointed pieces fit together, when coupled with what we're seeing on home vlogs in relatively real-time.
(and don't worry, moving forward I pinky-promise I will no longer interact with said tea-giver so as not to derail the thread in any way)
That being said, did anyone catch what this stated "ongoing HOA "investigation" on the Trackers is supposed to be about? that they got their "final warning" for?