Sarahs Day #2 Cultural Appropriation x P.E. Nation

[FoxxyCleopatra]

At 5:15 in the new reno blog Sarah talks about this little crawl space they're going to use for storage, and she says "This is Kurt's favourite room in the house"

literally all I could think of was the Milhouse meme.

 

[peridoe]

Whenever the letters PCOS leave her mouth I just get so mad. Thousands of DMs, please. You just read this forum and saw us discussing it. Hopefully you'll read this, too: YOU DON'T HAVE IT! We know you're lying! You've aleady admitted you lost your period due to being underweight, that would also be why your hormones were messed up because hello, hormones and periods are related. Mess one up, mess the rest up. Hell, your acne problems were probably all tied into it, too. Your unhealthy addiction to exercise and getting shredded within an inch of your life is what caused all of those problems. ALL OF THEM. Not PCOS. You turned to PCOS as the reason so you could justify your lifestyle. You KNOW you don't have it. You. Know.

If you are so adamant that you have PCOS (notice how you're back to saying HAVE instead of HAD), and that you have so, so many DMs about it, then PLEASE do a video discussing your journey. Describe in detail the steps you took to become diagnosed. Talk about the multiple trips to the doctors and the specialists and talk about the ultrasounds and the blood tests and tell us exactly which elements of PCOS you have that led doctors to diagnosing you so quickly. You can't, can you. A naturopath cannot diagnose you. Your stans cannot diagnose you. Google cannot diagnose you, and you telling a doctor you have it is also not a diagnosis.

Be grateful you don't have it. Be fucking grateful. You don't want to be insulin resistant. You don't want excessive hair growth on your body or your hair thinning. You don't want cysts on your ovaries. You especially don't want cysts that develop into complex cysts that will not only never go away unless you have surgery, but also cause you pain and bleeding at any time throughout your cycle. You don't want the risk of having these complex cysts rupture or grow too big that they twist your ovaries. Be grateful you won't have to decide whether or not to risk having surgery to remove them while knowing you may end up losing a fallopian tube as well because they can't remove one without the other. Be grateful you don't have these cysts on BOTH ovaries. Be grateful you don't have the risk that these complext cysts could turn cancerous one day. Be grateful you are ovulating normally and can have children naturally and without help. Be grateful you didn't miscarry because have PCOS increases the odds by three times as much. Be grateful your pregnancy wasn't high risk for pre-eclampsia and gestational diabetes, regardless of how fit and heatlhy you are. Be fucking grateful you are not infertile and that you can even have children at all.

PCOS is not a lifestyle choice. It's not something you can try on and put down whenever you want to suit your narrative. And it certainly isn't something that can ever go away or can be cured. You don't want this. Be grateful you don't have it. And before you start calling me a jealous hater, you're right, I am jealous and I hate that you're lying about this. I'm jealous that you have managed to have a beautiful healthy baby while spouting crap that you had fertility issues. I will never have that. The one time in the last ten years of trying for a baby that I got pregnant, the doctors told me it was a miracle. They also told me it probably wouldn't stick and they were right. Because that's what PCOS does.

So fuck you, you lying pos.

(Disclaimer: I know everyone's symptoms are different and some women don't have many at all. What I descibed above is just based on my experience).

 

[Noinstafame]

So Um, anyone else wish their clinical anxiety could be cured by going surfing and not being asked to do anything around the house? Cos I’d love that

 

[EtherealHaux]

Sarah: Fox loves Tongan music!!
Fox:

 

[FoxxyCleopatra]

Sarah's Day sent death threats after cultural appropriation saga where she wore hair in braids | NewsColony

Stevenson (pictured) spent three months working on the campaign and released the image to fans as a 'sneak peak' on Thursday An Instagram influencer

www.google.com

Just read this article, touched on her deleting the educational messages. Also on the "glitter amongst the glue and the sunflower amoungst the thorns"

"The mother to 14-month-old Fox explained she was exhausted after a full day of taking selfies for the launch."

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

 

[saltysday]

I just wanted to say, incase any of you girls comment on posts on insta or facebook and try to give any clarity around Sarahs behaviour and censorship, PLEASE make sure your accounts are on private. Theres a facebook group of girls I've been made aware of, and a couple of others who have stalked my profiles (that were already fairly secure) stalked through my old marketplace ads to find where I live, have threatened to contact multiple places I might work around my area, threatened to come to my house, to steal my dog. The irony in that Sarah calls us the 'haterz' but yet her Stans are actually this level insane is crazy. I know there's a past pattern of behaviour with Stans being insane but I just wanted to let you all know to double check your platforms xx

 

[Michelle1981]

Yeah you’ve nailed it, they really are like a couple of coworkers that live in the same house. I know it’s bad to judge a relationship when you’re not there seeing it all the time, but they do show a HUGE amount of their lives and it truely looks like a severely neglected relationship.

Also, Sarah has said multiple times that they lay in bed every night and talk about their goals and aspirations?! Like what, why?!
It’s fine to have goals and be career driven... but at the same time, be mindful and present. It just comes across like everything in their whole life is so meticulously planned and inauthentic.
*cough* Hawaii and the forced engagement for content *cough*

I’d hate to live my life like that. No spontaneity, no excitement, nothing to genuinely look forward to that isn’t for content. Big yikes.

Who tf wants to lay in bed and talk about goals lol, I lay in bed trying to keep my partners hands off my titties lol.

 

[Blimbloo]

Guys, Kurt’s Instagram profile no longer says he is an ambassador for Mazda! Oh my god

 

[japaneseradish]

I thought it was her self diagnosed, apparently magically cured, PCOS that was going to make it hard to conceive?

lolol yes and I will scream this from the rooftops every single time it comes up: I went back a long time ago (when I was realllllly starting to become skeptical about her claims etc), and I sifted through all her old footage (which at the time I was subscribing to in real time), and I found TWO videos where she begins to mention the term "PCOS". In the first video she discusses her "hormone test results" from her naturopath, and she holds up all the paperwork and reads off all her levels - what levels were high, low, etc. Now, before she reads all the results she discusses having a "saliva test" as a form of hormone testing. Then she reads all her levels and says she is going to have another naturopath appointment now that she has all these "Chinese herbs" to take based on the results. NEXT video - "so a lot of you guys were mentioning in the comments below that it sounds like PCOS so I mentioned that to my naturopath and he agrees". I kid you not. That was the extent of it. Then years later when she went in for her CIN 3 issues, she told her doctor she has a diagnosis of PCOS.

Insane. My sister has PCOS and doesn't present as a "typical case" at all but had to have a lot of testing. I also suffer from ovarian cysts (have had them on and off since I was 14), but I do NOT have PCOS. You have to meet requirements (I believe 2 out of 3: androgen hormonal levels, tons of cysts, and/or irregular periods [which she now admitted was due to overtraining, NOT from PCOS]), and the fact that her hormones were decided from a saliva test administered by a naturopath, not due to any form of bloodwork from a GP, gyno, or endocrinologist ???? It makes me go mad.

 

[Jadelono0604]

Yess!!!!

 

[2xblended]

Funny thing though, she mentioned tofu being one of her main protein sources in her shopping stories today. And she does keep sharing stories with her eating tofu. This, in spite of having a self-diagnosed soy allergy.
It's like she's forgotten she spent years pretending to be allergic to soy. It's hard to keep track when everything you say is made up.

 

[bonni03]

I couldn't watch her whole vlog (yawn)... but my key takeaways are that she filmed randomly over a week and then called it a day in the life? Also that Fox so obviously prefers Kurt... we all knew it, laugh it off however you want Sarah.

Another vanity planet sponsorship? Sis if you're changing up your skincare routine to suit sponsors, I don't believe a thing you say.
I would say that maybe her activewear margin aint that great afterall, but we all know that's not true. Influencers seriously just become greedier and greedier as they get 'bigger'. She didn't need that sponsorship, she never uses that product and would know it is a crock of shit - but yet she said yes to it - GREEDY. So far from real and raw (also, I agree with the poster above... it sounds like her Porno title... not that Sarah would be anything but vanilla or do anything but treat sex as a chore/bait for Kurt).

I also noticed the subtle shade on her stories this morning about having Kurt's dad over for dinner. I'm sure he left at a very appropriate time, yet they still stayed up talking until 1am. Reading between the lines, maybe Kurt's dad was there to support Kurt and they needed to debrief after about how to make his health conditions a monetised clickbait title they can capitalise from. Regardless, I send my condolences to Kurt's dad for having to eat Sarah's cooking

 

[bonni03]

I agree, she needs help. She can be SO much more - like she wants us to believe; a boss girl, a fiance, a mother. As others touched on, she has more than enough income to travel, develop hobbies, explore. Yet the only part of herself she gives any dedication is her appearance, her body image, her training and her restricted eating. What you water is what you will grow - and all she has been growing these past few years is her dysmorphia and exercise obsession (oh and of course her bank account while she capitalises on that). She really is shallow as anything, self-centred and an attention seeker - all about validation of course. The girl has ZERO substance. Even more evident when she is with 'normal plebs' - the girl don't know how to act. No wonder she can't interact or connect properly with Kurt's family. This girl can't go out for a restaurant dinner with friends, an impromptu lunch, to the movies, to travelling in a van, camp, watch the sport at a pub, go to a cooking class, experience culture through food festivals and the like. Her only HIGH and happiness is from her abs and after she works out. What a fucking miserable life.

I also strongly believe Kurt has anxiety. I believe his mental health has suffered over the last week, as of course it would, with all the backlash from the campaign, the BLM movement and their poor reactions, as well as the homophobic picture and increasing forum/IG exposure of their negativity. I know others disagree, but I do feel for Kurt. I do not think he is a narcissist like Sarah. He has only been conditioned by Sarah. I mean, I was the worst version of myself when I was with my toxic AF ex. He has 'married' into this life, and while I know it is a choice, he now is probably dealing with stuff he never envisioned for himself. Even Sarah's stans alone would be exhausting and anxiety riddling enough to deal with. All at the cost of staying with someone you love and living a cushy, instagrammable lifestyle.
I know nothing justifies the homophobic slurs or 'jokes', but unfortunately that seems typical of Australian males who went to private all-boys schools. They are so obsessed with not being gay that they will turn it into a joke or insult to compensate. It's fucking grose and shows such weakness.

Omg, sorry for the rant. I have barely been active on here as I go through lulls where Sarah's existence exhausts me too much to even comment. But I have been triggered back into my normal self by her promoting 'abs = happiness' on two different instagrams. And also capitalising on the #PCOSproblems hashtag.. Ahh, so now PCOS conveniently causes the bloating. Or is it stress? or Soy? Or Thai? Or gluten? or dairy? or artificial sweetners? Or binging but 'not a binge'? Or not taking body bloom? Or your period? Someone please answer, I need to know how to get abs like Sarah. Oh hang on, I'm a fucking adult and know there is more to life.

 

[jllns90]

I'm probably going to repeat a lot of what has been said but this topic is close to my heart.

Kurt and Sarah, seriously, listen to us. It is anxiety. If not worse, a developing depression.

1) Just because one does not 'feel' anxious or stressed or unhappy does not mean that they don't have anxiety. I had dizzy spells for years (with nausea). I went to so many doctors and thought the same thing - "but i don't feel anxious". I liked going out, being active etc, never actually felt anxiety as such. I was comfortable with stress, crowded places, anything that could trigger anxiety. But what you need to understand is that anxiety is an actual chemical imbalance in your brain. You might feel fine. Or at least you think you feel fine. The second I acknowledged I have anxiety, most of the symptoms went away but I started to feel anxiety itself. Not sure which is worse but I feel 'actual' anxiety less frequently than the other symptoms. And of course you cannot cure something you don't think you have.

2) The 'routine' sounded like it was mostly to relieve stress not anxiety. Anxiety takes years to cure (in most cases), sometimes it never goes away, just gets better. Two weeks of meditating and surfing and your fiancee not nagging at you is not going to do anything. Stress can be a cause for anxiety but most often it is not. Anxiety and stress are two different things. Just because going for surfs didn't work, doesn't mean it's not anxiety. If it was that easy to cure anxiety, nobody would have it lol.

3) Anxiety is complicated. You can't cure it with powders and less stress. It takes a lot of work on yourself and sometimes medication. To be honest, as his symptoms sound quite severe, starting with anxiety medication would even be sensible. Just because you think western doctors are "mean" and taking a paracetamol is "evil", doesn't mean they don't work. If you care 'soo much', put your own beliefs aside and do what your fiancee needs.

4) Anxiety does not mean you're weak. I feel like they're both the type of people who see mental illnesses as being weak and not trying enough. That is not how it works. Again - a chemical imbalance in the brain. I've been through some shit in my life and I consider myself a strong person. But I still got anxiety. No idea how it happened, when it happened, why it happened. It just did and I have accepted it. Kurt needs to accept it before it gets worse. Anxiety controls your life and whatever my personal opinion is of Kurt and Sarah, I wouldn't wish anxiety on anyone.

 

[2xblended]

I'm late to this again, but it is anxiety. And she said so many doctors said that at the beginning but she's sure it's definitely not because surfing didn't work? Come on.
Sarah, Google "dissociation"! He has it. That feeling drunk and not being able to hold a conversation thing- dissociation!
He has anxiety.
Not being able to take a deep breath. Anxiety.
Waking up feeling off. Anxiety.
Says he's feeling like a burden. ANXIETY.

He's been to a GP and cardiologist, had blood work and had a 24 hour heart monitor. He's been to a naturopath and acupuncturist. If nothing is clinically wrong physically, then it is his mental health manifesting in physical symptoms.
Now, you're turning to your DM responses from your 12-16 y.o. followers. We all know that is you asking for advice from us, because you follow every word on here. Look at all the posts on here trying to help you:
The correct next step is a therapist. He has anxiety.
If nothing else, he has anxiety around the fact that he has not been diagnosed with anything specific in the last 2 years, so a therapist would help him cope with that feeling of exasperation until you get the diagnosis you want.
But really, it is just textbook anxiety from what you have shared.

You say you care, then show it. Stop showing up at his work "to be supportive" when you actually want him to act as your photographer.
Stop saying you played "both parental roles" and had to pick up the slack for him because he was poorly.
Stop with the passive aggressive "I couldn't even ask him to do the washing up" comments, like your life was so inconvenienced.
If you genuinely cared, you wouldn't be after him to complete your workout room in the new house NOW NOW NOW. That's not someone who is worried about their partner and trying to remove stressors, that is someone who is worried about their partner's ill health interfering with her selfish plans.

Time for a change Sarah. And unlike the cultural appropriation issue that you can conveniently ignore because it does not affect you, this is something you need to address because he may not be able to marry you if his anxiety worsens.

 

[2xblended]

So, erm, this will be an unpopular opinion, but here goes...
I find it... convenient... that she opened up about Kurt's issues at this time. Yes, they've touched on it a couple of times before, but she's never talked about it this openly and asked for people to DM her with their thoughts.
In the 2 years she says he's had problems, she has only mentioned it twice previously- the day he had the heart monitor on and the day she was in her car saying she's working on a 'cure' for him. That's it, never a mention or even an indication that they were changing their routine to accommodate for how he was feeling, though she claims now to have done so.

The guy has been putting in some pretty hard labour at the new house for months now, along with working on campaigns, and exercising consistently with his friend and getting in boxing sessions. None of this is in keeping with her depiction of him having heart issues, feeling like he can't get out of bed, or feeling like he isn't pulling his weight. He's pretty much carrying on as normal and has not been in the debilitated state she is implying.

So, it could well be that he is feeling worse this week and that's why they're sharing this story, or it could be another typical Sezzy move; namely, she couldn't prevent the outrage either here or on the subreddit around her cultural appropriation and the silencing of PoC on her page (and boy did she try with her obvious undercover posts on the subreddit), so she deflected the matter by creating a new issue for everyone to focus on: Kurt's possible illness/anxiety.
It certainly has helped divert attention away from the obvious racism and homophobia they displayed, and now everyone is worried about them instead of angry at them.

The resulting increased engagement that comes out of stans messaging them to say they "hope Kurt's okay" will also be reassuring to sponsors who were considering dropping them as ambassadors, because as long as they can show they have consistently high engagement and they have an influx of positive, loving messages from their followers (rather than an outcry about her rotten campaign and subsequent choices), then nobody would consider terminating their lucrative business partnership with her.

Been bottling that one up but I had to say it. I feel her PR tactics are clear when you remember that she's a 'brand', not a 'real and raw human' as she'd like to portray. She has proven over the years that everything she has done has been about maximizing her profits, and everything personal she has shared in the last few years has had an ulterior motive.
In fact, the one time she chose not to share something personal was specifically because it couldn't be monetized- her sister's engagement! She made absolutely no mention of it, not even to congratulate Em, because her sister didn't give her permission and she couldn't monetize a vlog around the topic.
Sarah eventually posted a single story (not even a proper permanent post on her grid) because people asked her about it when they saw the announcement on Em's insta page, so she made a passing reference.

So, yeah. IMO, this talk of Kurt is all crisis PR in action and, as I said days ago, she will get away with the cultural appropriation scandal...she's literally getting away with it as we speak.

 

[IchheisseBelle]

Sorry, came back to add one more thing. She says it's scary the ingredients that are in our beauty products and that using natural deodorant helped balance her hormones, but she had no problem being sponsored by Bondi Sands and slathering fake tan all over her body because of course she was getting paid. She has no issue injecting filler into her lips, getting her hair highlighted, eyebrows tinted, nails painted and possibly Botox. What a hypocrite. And to imply that natural deodorant could balance hormones. She is off her rocker. The amount of things she has claimed "cured" her is becoming ridiculous.

 

[Bananabread20]

So she hasn't storied today.. wonder what injectable she's gotten

 

[emememily]

 

[Gg999]

She’s so ignorant!! I can’t believe she said ‘it’s deeper than that’, dismissing anxiety like it’s a superficial health problem. She is cooked!