MissTeddy
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A passing stewardess leant over and whispered “you got this mama”
- Notice
Katiearchiedan
Active member
T'was me. And I am now blocked. Probably for the best to be honest. My baby is 2 months younger than hers and her constant drivvle, ramblings, humble bragging, holidays, lack of awareness of how lucky she is has negatively impacted on my already delicate post partum mental health. I don't know why I got so riled. I am actually doing ok at the moment but I just am so sick of her constant perfection interspersed with the odd oh my God I might be getting PND. It is so so damaging. And then the more she just surrounds herself with all these arse lickers and blocks out any challenges. I can't believe she has a law degree because she is completely unable to formulate a coherent response to challenge. I just want people like her to be accountable and answerable for the potential damage they are doing. Anyway I fear I've gone in too deep and it's negative for me...a new mum, having lost my own mum in the last few years, trying to balance all my emotions and be a good mum.
Unbelievable
Chatty Member
Have been lurking for a while on a few threads on Tattle. Saw her latest smug arse story montage on instagrab which boiled my piss to the point that I could no longer bite my tongue. Wish these influencers would just sod off.
Like that twat needed a mini mums day break away with her mum, she's ALWAYS with her bloody mother ffs. These people don’t represent real life. Joules could've done an amazing campaign where they picked 5 sets of (non influencer) mum & daughters from a competition on their social media, with a nice little write up about why they were chosen etc., etc. I'm sure there are loads of deserving people who would be so humble and grateful, having some time out with someone they hold near and dear to them.
How can anyone relate to someone who has been mollycoddled her entire life, thus giving her sod all life experience. Mentally she's still that 15 yr old stubborn tweenager that Benpeck seduced/fell for and she will never grow beyond that. She's never worked (proper worked) a day in her mind numbingly boring, ever so predictable life. Sitting on your arse on your laptop trawling through the interweb looking for things to #afflink to make some cha-ching doesn't constitute work.
Like that twat needed a mini mums day break away with her mum, she's ALWAYS with her bloody mother ffs. These people don’t represent real life. Joules could've done an amazing campaign where they picked 5 sets of (non influencer) mum & daughters from a competition on their social media, with a nice little write up about why they were chosen etc., etc. I'm sure there are loads of deserving people who would be so humble and grateful, having some time out with someone they hold near and dear to them.
How can anyone relate to someone who has been mollycoddled her entire life, thus giving her sod all life experience. Mentally she's still that 15 yr old stubborn tweenager that Benpeck seduced/fell for and she will never grow beyond that. She's never worked (proper worked) a day in her mind numbingly boring, ever so predictable life. Sitting on your arse on your laptop trawling through the interweb looking for things to #afflink to make some cha-ching doesn't constitute work.
Gossipqueen30
Chatty Member
ABSOLUTELY!! You’ve hit the nail on the head. I would much rather have seen the lovely Kate from @overatkates invited instead of Grabby. Now there’s a truly inspirational mum! Always smiling, cares for her disabled little boy Frank without moaning, always seem grateful with her life despite what her little boy went through, and instead of moaning about #mamastruggles uses her spare time to raise awareness of testing for group b strep in pregnant mums. Now there’s what I’d call a superhero mum! Not someone who moans how tough motherhood is if her baby is going through a developmental leap, or god forbid if she doesn’t get to go to her pilates class on a morning! Can you see grabby dealing with several hospital appointments each week? Especially if they were when huckleberry told her Freya needed a nap! Good god she’d spontaneously combust!!
Hashtagblessed
Active member
#previouslygifted
Chatty Member
Are we being a bit unfair here? Can you imagine if Freya hadn’t had the nap and Grabby couldn’t have put together a blog post on technology? Where would be then?
All you people putting your babies into childcare, which takes the majority of your salary, just so you can keep a roof over your head - Are you really bossing it?
You’re probably just something unnecessary like teachers / nurses.
All you people putting your babies into childcare, which takes the majority of your salary, just so you can keep a roof over your head - Are you really bossing it?
You’re probably just something unnecessary like teachers / nurses.That’s me!
hereforthe_tea
Well-known member
Well if you are planning on following in your parents footsteps of selling you off at 13, I suppose you’ve got to start early...Freya has an NCT ‘boyfriend’. Ew
I HATE people who do this, don’t sexualise babies ffs
Ghosttalk4
Chatty Member
I'm starting to think that it's because she lives in her 1950s housewife bubble that she thinks these tasks are utterly revelutionay. Everyone stop and look, this woman is out WITHOUT her husband or mum escort and is feeding her baby. She basically a suffragette
Meanwhile, there are millions of women running at 100 miles an hour, juggling real jobs, battling the commute in time to pick kids up, or at home running around trying to squeeze in the food shop, cleaning, kids stuff, feeding their kids however without the time to think twice about how why or when. Many with no partners or family around. And not because we are of a lower class or less hard working than the grabby clan, but because that's how life goes.
It's great grabby, but honestly pottering around M&S in your in never ending spare time isn't exactly ground breaking stuff. You aren't helping woman around the world with your grubby step picture. And we aren't buying into 'you got this Mama' super mum front. The ones who are busting their ass for their family and really have 'got this' are far too busy to spend their spare seconds bragging about themselves online to make themselves feel better and others feel shit.
Step outsude your sheltered ideal every once in a while. See how people really live. It might encourage you to think a little differently and realise that people's struggles and achievements go FAR beyond what waitrose porridge toppings to serve at a brunch hosting
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Ghosttalk4
Chatty Member
Cry because you can't afford to live off your maternity pay and you need to go back to work to pay the bill, and leaving your new baby breaks your heart and you lose half you damn pay on childcare, but you're trying to do right by your family. Cry because by the time you've finished work your baby is over tired and needs putting to bed. That is a real damn struggle.
Cry becaue your baby is stopping your from taking enough instagram pictures. And cry because you can't squeeze all your petty, shallow, begging for free shit into your babies nap time so your parents will take your baby for free and probably do a load laundry too. She is an utter joke.
I’m loving it too! I’ve gained three new followers on Insta in the last hour. Soon it’ll be me swanning around arranging dahlias and making shit Costco brownies while wear alllllll the free clothes. But I’ll remember my roots, back here on Tattle.
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Ghosttalk4
Chatty Member
I agree with this. I'm all for mothering, how ever that may be for your family. Some stay at home, and that comes with its own joys and struggles. Some have to or want to go back to work, and that's bloody hard too.
I'm very much like you. I had to go back to work to pay the bills, I had no family on call, and had to pay a huge chunk of my wage putting my son in to nursery so I could pay the bills and it killed me.
But grabby. Grabby doesn't have a job. She's already bragged about how crazy wealthy her husband is and his giant pay packet. She doesn't actually do anything but already needs to offload her daughter so she can get more 'time on my laptop' doing nothing but begging for freebies.
These are not real struggles. This is NOT like many women wanting it all. This is a spoilt child wanting time to play with flowers and get her nails done and exercise and do as she pleases and make out its because she's a super boss mun.
I haven't been to the gym or had my nails done or read a book in a decade. Because I spend every waking moment trying to work to pay the bills or put my kids first.
I'm I don't know whether to laugh and rage.
Mitzymooface
VIP Member
I just spent time typing out a comment which I subsequently couldn’t post as they deleted the post while I was actually commenting. My suggestion was constructive, that they take the comments on board and maybe next time they do something like this they ask customers or followers to nominate people they think deserve some gifts and treats. I’m going to email the company CEO tomorrow to complain about this whole debarcle.
Oh the truth of her absence is so much worse...
Hey Joules, is she REALLY one of your Supermums? Well that makes a mockery of all the single full time working mums, the night shift mums, the dealing with chronic illness mums and so many more. What a wasted opportunity to do something good for those who really need it. I would actually have had respected for your brand. Now I shan't buy from you in future.
Hey Joules, is she REALLY one of your Supermums? Well that makes a mockery of all the single full time working mums, the night shift mums, the dealing with chronic illness mums and so many more. What a wasted opportunity to do something good for those who really need it. I would actually have had respected for your brand. Now I shan't buy from you in future.
Ghosttalk4
Chatty Member
A couple of great comments on Joules latest post
Who ever this was on the Joules Instagram
#previouslygifted
Chatty Member
Reality check. Has Grabby ever shared:
Going to the cinema
Going to the theatre
Going to an art gallery / museum
Enjoying an outdoor pursuit - sailing / skiing / surfing / go ape.
Goings to a sports match?
Going to a concert / comedy night.
Having a fun night in the pub with a bunch of mates.
Going out to a club.
Going to a festival.
Standing up for something / anything?
She has a nice house and she goes to nice places on holiday. She surrounds herself with nice *gifted things. But where is the JOY? Where are the experiences? The laughing with friends? The spontaneous?
As someone above said - when Instagram is no more - what will she have to look back on?
Going to the cinema
Going to the theatre
Going to an art gallery / museum
Enjoying an outdoor pursuit - sailing / skiing / surfing / go ape.
Goings to a sports match?
Going to a concert / comedy night.
Having a fun night in the pub with a bunch of mates.
Going out to a club.
Going to a festival.
Standing up for something / anything?
She has a nice house and she goes to nice places on holiday. She surrounds herself with nice *gifted things. But where is the JOY? Where are the experiences? The laughing with friends? The spontaneous?
As someone above said - when Instagram is no more - what will she have to look back on?