Mum.est2014
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RVK Loves #4 - criticism causes me depression, anything free is my latest obsession.
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frustrated
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RVK Loves #4 - Oh dreamy freebies! What ASA rules????? Gimme gimme gimme, especially from Joules
Her latest post. Are you kidding me. Half a day with the grandparents so she can 'work'?! I'd love if my work could be fitted into half a day. I'm back to actual work at the end of April and it KILLS me that I'm having to put my daughter into nursery for four full days a week but I have no choice. She hasn't got a clue on how lucky she is to be surrounded by family that can help or that her 'job' is flexible enough that she can do whatever the hell she likes. Sorry it's a sensitive subject at the moment for me and it just angers me when influencers moan about trying to have it all when really its pretty simple for them compared to the rest of us in the real world.
Ghosttalk4
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I feel like I've reach my limit with how much of this woman's drivel and shit I can see. She clearly won't ever change bccause she's too self-centered and ridiculous, and because her parents and husband just seem to let her carry on. Someone needs to point of how bloody complacent and pathetic she is being.
She's like a toddler trying to play grown ups and it's really uncomfortable to watch.
Everyone has their own struggles, I don't doubt that. But her entire life is repteadely taking the month off for extended long haul holidays, zero money worries, zero child care worries, zero work, her husband and parents seem to throw enough cash at her to support her braggy and ungracious lifestyle, and she complains at the mama life struggles
When you aren't travelling the world, you're sat at home in your huge renovated house pissing around with flowers and instagram links.
I don't wish bad on anyone. But I'd bloody love to see this joke of a lifestyle pulled from underneath her so she can experience what real family life is like. Fancy working a supermarket late shift grabby for minimum wage, hardly seeing your husband and baby just to pay the bills. Saving up for 2 years for a little holiday and then the boiler breaks.
She's like a toddler trying to play grown ups and it's really uncomfortable to watch.
Everyone has their own struggles, I don't doubt that. But her entire life is repteadely taking the month off for extended long haul holidays, zero money worries, zero child care worries, zero work, her husband and parents seem to throw enough cash at her to support her braggy and ungracious lifestyle, and she complains at the mama life struggles
When you aren't travelling the world, you're sat at home in your huge renovated house pissing around with flowers and instagram links.
I don't wish bad on anyone. But I'd bloody love to see this joke of a lifestyle pulled from underneath her so she can experience what real family life is like. Fancy working a supermarket late shift grabby for minimum wage, hardly seeing your husband and baby just to pay the bills. Saving up for 2 years for a little holiday and then the boiler breaks.
Where to start?? I can’t even properly formulate sentences to describe how nauseatingly horrendous it is to see an incredibly privileged, wealthy, middle class mother and daughter being sent on a needless, excessive jolly. Smug, condescending, patronising bullshit from joules and Rebecca, shame on all of them. I bought my little girl a lovely Joules coat out of my hard earned money and it makes me want to tear it into a thousand pieces because why should I scrimp and save for things when this BEGGING NOBODY gets it and more for free?! The world’s gone mad.
Ghosttalk4
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Classic case of everything's far too easy, so she has zero appreciation. A million quid house fell in her lap in her early twenties. She didn't have to scrimp and save, bust a gut to get on the properly ladder.
Everytime she throws a wobbler about the weather they jets off for weeks on end to once in a life time destinations, so often that they are boring and she stays in watching Netflix.
Nothing has any value because it's all too easy for her, so she's never satisfied.
I would argue that I value my 'normal' life an infinate amount more, because I have to work my ass off for it. All she can do is brag about other people's achievements and what her husband earns.
We're actually getting a weeks holiday this year. Nothing crazy, but the entire family are already SOOOOO excited and it's still months away. I've never seen her get that much enjoyment out any of her trips to the bloody Maldives
for me the biggest house and the best holidays are pointless of you aren't even getting the true enjoyment out of what you have because you take it all for granted. Totally entitled. I know who I'd rather be 
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You know what we have here?
A baby being baby:
A truly awful scenario where they stop laying still on artfully arranged rugs for photo shoots and NOT commando stylee crawling over to repeatedly fling themselves with gay abandon head first into your newly fitted hideous for the environment stove.
Hey Grabelzebub I wish someone would just take you gently by the tippex nailed hand and drag you into the real world. Please stop pretending what you do is a "job" or that you are "working" or your outings are "press tips"
Whoever it is telling you you've got this needs to stop enabling your nonsense.
A baby being baby:
A truly awful scenario where they stop laying still on artfully arranged rugs for photo shoots and NOT commando stylee crawling over to repeatedly fling themselves with gay abandon head first into your newly fitted hideous for the environment stove.
Hey Grabelzebub I wish someone would just take you gently by the tippex nailed hand and drag you into the real world. Please stop pretending what you do is a "job" or that you are "working" or your outings are "press tips"
Whoever it is telling you you've got this needs to stop enabling your nonsense.
AbsoluteSpecimens
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hookers, blow and loads of online poker.
WhittlingIhopMonkey
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Just came on to say this. She is an actual fucking disgrace.
She cried cos she cant 'work' with a crawling baby so will have to leave her baby with a grandparent for free for 3 hours a week? IS SHE FOR FUCKING REAL?
Then in the 1st comment underneath that fucking post she talks about ALSO 'needing' time to exercise every week!
My kids were in childcare 5 days a week from 8-6 and at the height of it my childcare costs were double my mortgage.
I'm sorry, but shes a c**t. An absolute c**t.
MissTeddy
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Oh and the irony of her and her mum both posting about how amazing it was to have some quality time together - they live literally 2 minutes from each other, see each other almost everyday, neither of them have jobs - ALL their time is quality time, how much more time do they need.
I'm bloody furious with Joules - and all these brands - that validate her lifestyle and content.
The only thing making me feel better is how bloody awful she looks in those black boots - standing with her trotters 5ft apart from each other naturally - she has giant, ugly feet - and that makes me feel better
I'm bloody furious with Joules - and all these brands - that validate her lifestyle and content.
The only thing making me feel better is how bloody awful she looks in those black boots - standing with her trotters 5ft apart from each other naturally - she has giant, ugly feet - and that makes me feel better
Duchesspink
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If she stomped those huge feet, there would be a bloody tsunami off the east coast
MissTeddy
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imagine thinking that driving your luxury car down the A1 into London for an event is actually proper work !!
I would love to see how she would cope with a full day at work, an arse-hole boss, deadlines, commute, nursery drop off and pick up. She has absolutely no resilience. Which is fine - but you don't get to play with the adults - please don't call it maternity leave, don't call it juggling and definitely don't call it 'childcare'.
I would love to see how she would cope with a full day at work, an arse-hole boss, deadlines, commute, nursery drop off and pick up. She has absolutely no resilience. Which is fine - but you don't get to play with the adults - please don't call it maternity leave, don't call it juggling and definitely don't call it 'childcare'.
She's really made me mad with this latest bout of anxiety. I'm really not one to play a oneupmanship on who is suffering the most, but this has tipped me over the edge. She has no clue. I cradled my daughter in an ambulance whilst we were blue lighted from one hospital to another. I watched for hours as half a dozen doctors and nurses tried and failed to put in a cannula and waited in a corridor listening to her scream in fear as they undertook an invasive medical procedure. I am now dealing with a baby who is traumatised by those events. Fuck off with your struggle over a sodding sickness bug.
Absolutely this. Not to mention the millions of women living in poverty, refugee camps, no access to running water, worried about feeding their children etc she really is a over privileged and self indulgent little twerp.I'm starting to think that it's because she lives in her 1950s housewife bubble that she thinks these tasks are utterly revelutionay. Everyone stop and look, this woman is out WITHOUT her husband or mum escort and is feeding her baby. She basically a suffragette
Meanwhile, there are millions of women running at 100 miles an hour, juggling real jobs, battling the commute in time to pick kids up, or at home running around trying to squeeze in the food shop, cleaning, kids stuff, feeding their kids however without the time to think twice about how why or when. Many with no partners or family around. And not because we are of a lower class or less hard working than the grabby clan, but because that's how life goes.
It's great grabby, but honestly pottering around M&S in your in never ending spare time isn't exactly ground breaking stuff. You aren't helping woman around the world with your grubby step picture. And we aren't buying into 'you got this Mama' super mum front. The ones who are busting their ass for their family and really have 'got this' are far too busy to spend their spare seconds bragging about themselves online to make themselves feel better and others feel shit.
Step outsude your sheltered ideal every once in a while. See how people really live. It might encourage you to think a little differently and realise that people's struggles and achievements go FAR beyond what waitrose porridge toppings to serve at a brunch hosting
I actually think this weather thing is a really control issue for her. In dreamy Grabbyland only sunny days are acceptable so I genuinely think she has a tantrum of sorts when the weather is bad and she can’t do anything about it. Her constant being cooped up chat? I mean come the fuck on you live in a huge spacious house with one child and your parents are a 5 min walk away. It’s hardly a one bed council flat in a high rise with no outdoor space is it. She’s nauseating.
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#previouslygifted
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Waking babies = normal. Sleep through babies = normal. Sitting on the entrance stairs of M and S to breastfeed when there is a cafe and baby room upstairs = not normal!!
WhittlingIhopMonkey
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She also posted that she was GOING ON MATERNITY LEAVE , now shes trying to pretend she never got any cos she instagrammed since then?
Cunt. Or as rebecca would say:
Cuuuunnnnnnnnnttttt?
Agatha Quizty
Active member
She is a disgrace, I'm embarrased to live in the same county as her. I worked in a nursery and you could see different types of mum's. It's in an affluent area and most of the mum could have afforded to stay at home but they're career driven and wanted to go back. The other parents need the money and would love to be in Rebecca's shoes and be at home. It's a heart breaking time and you'll be pulled in a million directions. I take my hat off to all you mum's who work hard either in a profession or who decide to stay at home. I will say this though, the toddlers and babies always loved being at nursery.