If you can afford to spend £20 on brownies multiple times, £100 on a birthday dress. You do not need to be buying Christmas outfits for your daughters in a charity shop. There are people that really need those sorts of things that cannot afford them, but still deserve them. She could spend £10 on both getting them a nice outfit for Christmas Day each. But no, brownies are more important and she’s making things less accessible for those who really need it. Women/Men who have fled domestic abuse with their children and don’t have a lot of money, not people who sit on their fat arse, not working (when she could have, you don’t go on Mat leave as soon as you get up the duff, she made no effort to get a new job after being made redundant she just tried harder to push the influencer thing which is still failing massively). If you’ve got £10 to spend on Starbucks (average drink £5 x 2) but you can’t spend that on your own children’s clothing, you need to give your head a wobble