My god It was in no way a reference or judgement about anything whatsoever to do with adoption, people who have been adopted or have adopted. It has been taken out of context and blown out of proportion. There was no offence intended, I have already apologised and frankly, jumping on this in a thread which by it's very nature picks someone apart, is a bit rich. It was a reference to the fact that I had always thought my brother and I were so different, we don't look related. Nothing more. Stop trying to find hostility where there is none.You know what? At first I was like “oh shes overreacting to a joke” but you have made good points and effectively called out something that is hurtful. I am unsure of my ability to have children and have always considered adoption, but I never considered how hurtful a joke like this would be.
edit to say thank you
Anyway, as you were