You know what? At first I was like “oh shes overreacting to a joke” but you have made good points and effectively called out something that is hurtful. I am unsure of my ability to have children and have always considered adoption, but I never considered how hurtful a joke like this would be.
My god
It was in no way a reference or judgement about anything whatsoever to do with adoption, people who have been adopted or have adopted. It has been taken out of context and blown out of proportion. There was no offence intended, I have already apologised and frankly, jumping on this in a thread which by it's very nature picks someone apart, is a bit rich. It was a reference to the fact that I had always thought my brother and I were so different, we don't look related. Nothing more. Stop trying to find hostility where there is none.
Hi there, I was thanking someone for calling out something I have been using as a joke all of my life, I wasn’t picking anyone apart. As you wereMy god
Anyway, as you were
I agree with the food thing. With WLS and having PCOS, it'll also be about the types of food she's eats rather then just amount. Her food is always full of stodge and carbs and although we don't see the actual amount she gets through, the meals could be healthier and be less carb heavy which would help her PCOS symptoms.I think it’s purely for engagement she posts these wls Questions. She’s not gonna answer them. She wants engagement to get her profile more active. End of day what she gonna answer with any way,
“Haven’t lost much weight since I love eating all the wrong foods, lost a little but IVe also trained my new stomach to Not really ‘dump’ and learnt how to eat all the food I shouldn’t”
you never see her share any kind of salads. It’s a burger with a mini salad. Or it’s a ‘tiny’ bite of a doughnut,cookie, cheese board....
The Donald crap is literally horrid. It’s like Evans when they used to only sell rent like materiel to hide the larger women in. Horrible. Definitely not selling me anything looking at that, equally as bad as the stuff Jess was sent,
Never heard her mention IR...she just has a very unhealthy relationship with food and no concept of portion size or control. She continues to abuse her body by eating foods that are the reason she has now had 2 major WLS in 10 years. Until she address's that nothing will ever change hence the fact she has not achieved anywhere near the amount of weight loss she should have by now !
Wls will only work so much. If she’s IR like myself as I suffer badly with being insulin resistance in the terms if I over eat carbs whether I’m in calorie deficit I gain. And I know it’s different for everyone and I’m not meaning it to sound like you can’t eat carbs ever. BUT even things you might not realise are so high in carbs. And it’s all she mainly eats.
wonder if that came up between her and her surgeons as it would be a vital key ingoing forward from the beginning of having wls especially her first visits for check ups etc.
somtimes it really annoys me people have disposable cash that can sort their physical weight ( Iknow mentally they don’t always improve) but I ,woe is me, struggles to lose weight eating healthier and better becuase of pcos. No amount of weight training cardio and each day watching my intake of carbs and sugars helps. Sometimes I think duck it I just Need the money for wls arghhhh!!
Sorry for the rant
Completely agree. At the pace she has lost, I don’t think anyone would have guessed she has WLS in July. She could have lost the same amount (maybe more?) in the same space by reducing calories and exercising more.
I’m just presuming she’s IR with previous comment from another tattler mentioning about her having pcos.
Thank you, I appreciate your post.
And as far as I’m concerned Tattle is for EVERYONE, regardless of any of their characteristics. I wasn’t breaking any of the forum rules as far as I’m aware. I don’t believe it’s up to you to tell anyone who’s welcome here and who isn’t.if someone’s offended by someone joking that their sibling might be adopted I don’t think Tattle the right place for you
I used to tell my sister she was adopted to wind her up all the time
You did break the law, FUN POLICE
Oh bore off I was joking
Are we still going with this?? Can we try and stick to the thread, its already gone a completely unrelated way with the adoption comments and now this.
I agree with most of what you wrote however, unfortunately or fortunately, it's the basics that people do what to know, how much she has lost etc etc...she is more than capable of putting a trigger warning before mentioning emotive stuff so people have the choice to swipe on by etc..
Yeah I can't be certain she had insulin resistance but it is very prominent in those who suffer with PCOS, especially those who find it hard to lose weight. She has definitely discussed having PCOS before. She could be doing a lot more to help herself, even after the WLS.
