Like others on here, I've been reading all past comments and found myself joining up just to comment on here.
This link was sent to me by a friend who's daughter, like mine, went to the same school as Mia and found Mia's YT channel through her IG. Mia appeared to be head strong in her views about the pregnancy and in preparation for her daughters arrival. Since Little MM, now MO has been born, my daughter now occasionally comes to show me Mia's postings with complete disbelief and embarrassment. Her content has been all over the place, totally unstructured, not thought through properly and jaw dropping and damaging to others. Mia makes the decisions what to post and therefore has to face any the consequences of her actions, whether it be opinions or criticisms. Just because Mia has removed the actual videos from her channel, it doesn't mean the videos haven't gone for good. The message I received was a screen recording, a download of Mia's shocking and disgraceful baby names. And yes, was mainly because of Mia's comment about the girl she mentioned as the 'bitch' at school, well, the Mum's that this has been circulated to can't believe what was being said by the little girl we once knew our daughter's played with. We knew Mia's Mum and can't understand why she would allow her daughter to make and put out the content that she is. Some questioned on here whether Mia's Dad knew about her allegations of abuse, well, thanks to Mia and her need to be in the limelight, he just might get to see it for himself. After all, people talk, it's a small world and some things can't be hidden. Links can be sent and posted to anyone and anywhere, this fact has seemly been overlooked. Including the truth, the truth will eventually come out and the more Mia continues to act like she does, make excuses for her behaviour, she will slip up, like she is kinda doing already, she's already contradicting herself far too often for any situation to be truthful. After all, words can be lies but videos, actions and energies can't!
Oh boy, Mia certainly needs a mother's guidance n quick...she's still very young and because of this, she's that extra gullible, naive and narrow minded into thinking she knows best, just like most other young teenagers out there, only Mia is making a public display of it. It's public, it's out there for the world to see, it is never ever going to go away and one day, it will be the most regretful thing Mia has ever made the decision to do and those regrets could be forced onto MO too.
Is Mia trying to say that the reason she is like she is, is because of her parents break up? I'm not saying that when her parents did slip up wasn't hard for her and her sister, it was, it was equally upsetting for both parents too. I'm not going into any details that I knew from that time, it would be wrong of me, but I believe this had an affect on Mia and her current state of insecurities, lack of self confidence and self esteem. Mia always needed the attention and reassurance where Beth was younger and wasn't fully able to understand the situation. Mia's Mum worked away from home alot, sometimes weeks, again this is probably where started Mia craving attention. She missed her mother.
Mia's love for nails comes from her mother. Her Mum would do Nails at school fetes, so it isn't surprising that Mia has picked up the talent for doing Nails. This is one thing that Mia has progressed in and is proud of. Nothing wrong with that, but there needs to be priorities in place, Mia has a very young dependent that needs heaps of undivided attention, so please, more focus on MO than the nails. Also MO counts on her mother to protect her, she doesn't need her mother and Auntie to call her names, to swear at her, to throw items of cloth over her and to be ignored. Being a mother is an unconditional selfless job, Mia really needs to review the postings where these incidents occur and evaluate her and her sisters actions, put a stop to them before they become the norm!
Something else that could turn round and severely damage Mia, is if someone grouped all the bits of videos where both Mia and Beth's are acting careless, inappropriate, disrespectful and demonstrating shocking behaviour towards MO, including name calling, into one edited video?? Wouldn't make good viewing.
There's so much concern that could be said about Mia on the things she's posted. Her judgement is clouded by trying to make a success of being a top YTer, she lacks personality, individuality and is trying too hard to be something she isn't and this has put her in this current situation. She only has herself to blame. Sadly enough.
She has created too many social media platforms too soon, often repeating the same thing over and over again. Please, drop a couple, concentrate on just one media platform, put effort into it and make it good, make it your own, just you and you alone. Please respect that MO needs privacy too. She is a minor and some of the things that have been posted, like showing MO in the bath n naked isn't appropriate. There are folk out there who will exploit this in a wrong kind of viewing!!
Mia's attitude and behaviour is mirrored to the audience she is. following her. Mia's proactiveness for teenage pregnancy ring alarm bells. She needs to get a grip and turn this around in helping to prevent teenage pregnancy. There will be much more praise for her if she did. Influence the young girls the reverse of what she is currently doing. The innocence of childhood needs to be just that.
In one of Mia's latest videos, Mia speaks about the usual unfair attention that she doesn't deserve. Own it, you produced it. Mia, you need to realise that if you give it, you must be able to take it. You can NOT then hide behind mental health issues. This is super shocking and if you were suffering from server depression, then you wouldn't be able to be so self conscious about your looks and the need for your addiction to Twighlight! Then going on to say that she has seen tictoks on crystals and 'witchy' things and has decided to follow suit. Oh boy, I dread to think what will come next, another batch of misleading copycat postings.
Crystal healing is something that takes many years to practice and understand. But most importantly, you need to be of pure mind, pure thoughts and pure intent. Sadly, Mia isn't demonstrating these qualities. Maybe Mia will take a break from social media, do some research on the subject, find her inner self, and concentrate on MO. Take her MO to mother n toddler groups, let her interact and socialise with others her age, situate her with baby massage, sing sing sessions etc and return with some much more positive postings and a positive outlook.
As a practicing wiccan for several years, the craft is all about intent, nothing more. It takes months to years to fully understand. Before Mia starts this journey, she needs to absolutely revaluate herself, her mind and lose the non blameless attitude that she holds on to. Good and positive intent will bring good fortune. Bad and negative intent with bring this 3 fold to the caster. I just hope Mia researches, researches and researches again before making videos on the subject. But having said that, if Mia devotes her time to researching, then she will be even more neglectful towards MO's needs, more than she is already doing.
Mia obviously does read these comments because the latest video she did, has anyone noticed, Mia made a huge point of mentioning she needed to put make up, actually mentioned the sponsoring company and gave more shots of MO on the water mat. Of course, Mia then drew attention to her needs more.
Come on Mia, take on board what people are saying and starting getting a grip on reality before it's too late, especially for MO. You have a duty of care as her mother to do the best you can for her, right now, you're letting her down.
