Anyone caught up on her Q&A? What I gathered from her answers:
- the husband left her and she 100% didn’t want to split.
- she’s said there was no big scandal or affair, also that it was a multitude of reasons. Which makes me wonder what they were and why her husband went through with the wedding if they were existing problems which were clearly a deal breaker for him?
- she doesn’t regret spending so much on her wedding. She’s said she spent thousands but her dad paid the “main chunk”, if the thousands she contributed wasnt the main chunk then what was? £20k? £30k??? So what was the wedding total cost: £40k+ ? What an unbelievable waste of money, even if it had lasted.
- she met the new bf cause he slid into her DM’s??? Sorry to judge but that is no fairytale, Jesus. Also she had loads of boys in her DMs when she became single apparently - def sharing that detail for her ex.
As previous posters have said; there’s no right or wrong timescale for moving on but she has painted a picture that she met the new bf organically, it just happened, she wasn’t expecting it etc etc. But if he slid into the DMs that has been a conscious effort on her part to reply and to continue speaking to him, knowing his intention for speaking to her? if a guy I’d never met slid into my DMs I wouldn’t think he wanted to be friends, put it that way. She didn’t know the guy, so if she honestly wasn’t looking for anything romantic at all (Which is what she’s trying to make out) why would she need to reply ?? She doesn’t owe him anything, he’s a stranger.
I just think to message a total stranger back and forth, there has been some interest or intention on her part to meet someone else. Which if you think of the time scale is very soon for her to be wanting another partner.
she was with her husband for 15 years, she has never been on her own or comfortable being single. Now she has jumped head first into another serious relationship, plastered all over social media without having time to gain her independence and fully heal from her marriage ending. Also it’s just my opinion but the social media stuff is 100% for other people; whether it’s her ex, his family, mutual friends. Genuinely happy people don’t need to plaster their bf all over Instagram and stories for likes.
sorry for the essay!