papaotis
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Rarely is a divorce "nice". People become unhappy and they leave a marriage, sometimes they find someone else. Yes it is hurtful, and nobody denies that alice has the right to feel hurt. The end of a relationship is difficult especially if you have kids. People also lash out and say hurtful things when they are hurting, yes, of course. BUT...the things she said to him, to his mother, to his girlfriend? Getting her brother to weigh in? It's so far over the line you can't even see the line any more. Sure, vent to your friends, to your family, call his gf every name under the sun when you have drinks with your friends, go for gold - just don't do it in public and leave a paper trail and expect no repercussions. Her reaction has been vitriolic and absolutely terrifying. She also has her children to consider; is this an example of acceptable behaviour to your kids? Is it OK to react that way and then brush it off with "oh, I was just upset"? Absolutely not! Nobody is saying she should just shut up and be silenced - by all means fight it out in court. But you have to approach the situation like an adult. Ioans 'crime' is to fall out of love with her and fall in love with someone else. That's it. How else can he respond rationally to the absolute hatred she has spewed? She cannot be reasoned with...hence why he had to stop her contacting him.He publically humiliated Alice by putting his affair with a younger woman out there for all to see. As in 99% of all affairs the wife is assigned the role of tightly buttoning her lips and being silent.
Why?
Well, he’s got all the cash hasn’t he? He can make her homeless at the snap of his fingers. Pull the kids out the home where they are happy, and their schools.
But Alice didn’t lie down and take it did she?
She opened her gob and voiced her hurt, pain and betrayal. The husband is angry because she didn’t roll over. And she’s refusal to be silent and exercise her right to free speech has embarked his new much younger woman.
What a cliched this guy is. And not a very good actor either.
If you follow Alice on Instagram as I do you will find her to be a ball of fun, her kids are happy confident girls and she has taken a body blow.
Why aren’t we allowed to get good and mad when we are done wrong by?
People pleasing, “be quiet” the little woman at home, is t going to work her, and why should it.
Keep at them Alice, remind this woman she broke up a family.
And remember this Bianca…..If he does that for you, he will do that to you.”
You don't own someone, they are not your property and you cannot control them. But you can control yourself...except she doesn't appear to be able to do this. I would be mortified to see my mother, my friend, my sister behave in the way alice has done. Her kids have to live with it. Her videos and insta are not fun or cute or standing up for women. They are unhinged and bordering on psychopathic.