Deryn
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MadBetty said: "It's very clear that Ioan gave her so many opportunities to change her harmful behavior and she refused. She literally chose SM and an endless need for attention from strangers over saving her marriage."
Yes! And I find it astounding that a woman who has enough brain power to speak French and Italian so beautifully chooses to spend the majority of her time on SM. JFC, isn't she bored??? And regarding her claims of being bedridden much of the time: What kind of life do those kids have? Their only normalcy is when hanging out with friends and their families.
Alice--get off your damn arse and get a proper job!! (And no, you cannot make a living off Cameo, so stop acting like you're providing for your kids with that.) I work with people who are wheelchair-bound, have limited use of all four limbs, and whose medical issues cause major fatigue and goodness knows what else, and they are vibrant, productive professionals, so stop acting like you can't get a real job!!
What I find sickening is that she continued to (and continues to) choose oversharing on SM (1) when he begged her to stop, (2) and when it ruined her marriage, (3) and even now when she has the TRO, (4) and still now when it is ruining all of their chances for a functional post-divorce family dynamic for the kids.
Shame on you, Alice, for doing this to your kids! Of course having your husband leave you and find someone else is terribly painful (though, again, as you noted on SM, he begged you repeatedly to stop oversharing, and as MadBetty pointed out, you chose SM over saving your marriage) but it is YOUR DUTY as a parent to support your children in having a good relationship with their father, but you are choosing PA. You want to hurt him and BW, but you are HURTING YOUR CHILDREN!!! Shame on you!!!
Shame, shame, shame on you, Alice!!!
Yes! And I find it astounding that a woman who has enough brain power to speak French and Italian so beautifully chooses to spend the majority of her time on SM. JFC, isn't she bored??? And regarding her claims of being bedridden much of the time: What kind of life do those kids have? Their only normalcy is when hanging out with friends and their families.
Alice--get off your damn arse and get a proper job!! (And no, you cannot make a living off Cameo, so stop acting like you're providing for your kids with that.) I work with people who are wheelchair-bound, have limited use of all four limbs, and whose medical issues cause major fatigue and goodness knows what else, and they are vibrant, productive professionals, so stop acting like you can't get a real job!!
What I find sickening is that she continued to (and continues to) choose oversharing on SM (1) when he begged her to stop, (2) and when it ruined her marriage, (3) and even now when she has the TRO, (4) and still now when it is ruining all of their chances for a functional post-divorce family dynamic for the kids.
Shame on you, Alice, for doing this to your kids! Of course having your husband leave you and find someone else is terribly painful (though, again, as you noted on SM, he begged you repeatedly to stop oversharing, and as MadBetty pointed out, you chose SM over saving your marriage) but it is YOUR DUTY as a parent to support your children in having a good relationship with their father, but you are choosing PA. You want to hurt him and BW, but you are HURTING YOUR CHILDREN!!! Shame on you!!!
Shame, shame, shame on you, Alice!!!
Alice, maybe Emma would enjoy this once in a while too..?
Something I did in my earlier days when I was experiencing a strong urge, was to stop and physically write down on a piece of paper 5 reasons for not drinking. Any urges after this, I’d whip the bit of paper out and read it, hold it, take it in. If I got urges while I was out with friends, I’d ask for an empty wine glass and put my piece of paper in it, with the written words facing me (for me this was really symbolic). It helped me so much at the time and 7 years of sobriety later, I still carry this piece of paper in my purse and read it every now and again to remind myself of how far I’ve come.
