Fathering Autism #102 Asa tries to be whimsical, but really he's just an imbecile

[RocketQueen]

wanted to share this with you all. It gives me hope for my grandson, and makes me sad for Abbie.
Long post, so dip out now if not interested, but I need to get it off my chest.

I have four grandkids, but this is about two of them.
"A' is 4.
"L" is 2 as of last week.

L belongs to one daughter, A to my other daughter- both boys. They are very close cousins. Yesterday evening all of my grands came for (yes! lol) ice cream and a swim because it was the last time I can see them for just over 3 weeks. Starting today I am back in a Covid "bubble" and will have a rapid test before surgery. I have to stay in my bubble 2 weeks post-op, because getting Covid with a large neck incision and brace (coughing! cant move neck) would be very bad. ( Although L and daughter live with me now- long story, but I put L on my insurance to make sure he has the best care I can give him)

You may remember we were having L evaluated in July. He is non-verbal, and indeed on the spectrum. He started Early Intervention four weeks ago. He goes 2 hrs a day, 3 times a week. He loves it. He gets so excited when we drop him off, and the things hes learned already have blown my mind. Just a small example but a big deal: L never properly played with toys. He loved cars and trucks, but all he did was line them up by size. Or color. Or pick them up and spin the wheels. Now, he crashes them around, and makes "vroom" sounds LOL. He's also learned to point to himself and then the object or person he wants. Huge!! So proud of him!!

Anyway, I have a small mini fridge in my garage near the pool with popsicles and drinks for the kiddos. Nope- nothing as swanky as Asa's, lol, just my sons old dorm fridge inside my garage, but I digress... I saw L telling A, in his limited way, that he wanted a drink. I was going call A over to explain what L meant, when I saw A nod yes, and off they went into the garage. A minute later they came out with juice boxes. L is a bit picky. He only drinks apple juice. No colored drinks at all. Sure enough, he had apple juice and A had punch.

I called A over, and asked him- how did you know that L was thirsty and what he wanted to drink?
A, who just turned 4 mind you, said: Huh? ( lol)
Me- he cant talk, A, but you knew what he was saying. How?
A- shrugged me off and said: He talks a lot. Dont you hear him?

Guys- make fun of me, whatever, lol, but I started to cry right there. A four yr old has been communicating with L on his level without issue or effort, and when I think back, he always has. L always gravitated to A. Now I know why. A was "listening" to him. We've spent so long worrying about actual speech, we havent really listened to him. Its like- crushed my heart, and I've thought of nothing since. Of course our goal is for him to begin speaking. But if not, I will make sure that he and everyone around him learns how to "speak" and "hear" him and learn and every damn sign or modified sign we can. Point is, Abbie is 16. Not 2. How can they not give a shit about her communication?! My Gbaby is only TWO and I am crushed to think we havent always "heard" him. I mean crushed. And the Massives, well they just dont care. Its weighed heavily on me all morning.
My heart is broke for her.

Thats all. Just wanted to share. It really is different watching these assholes when someone you love is on the spectrum. I dont know how some of you have done it for so long. They make me sick.

Now back to snark!

 

[Noir Fan]

Thank you all for the great help on my reunion haircut. Here is the result. I will have to mask up at the reunion anyway, so it’s kind of true to life without outing myself. Lol! Not to mention the mask hides some of the many wrinkles.

 

[Sadoldhen]

And an unbelievable number of responses expressing interest.

Just went and had a look at the responses, and two of them are young 20’s girls from New Zealand, one who knows my nephew! So I just sent her a little pm to let her know that it is a pyramid scheme, and that the postage costs alone would make the product way out of reach of most people. I also told her, she is better off buyinga better product here, than wasting her money on that crap!

 

[Hotographer512]

And there it is. His “truck broke down” and he can’t afford to fix it. F’ing grifter.

He is still using that broke college kid line.
What a little punk ass bitch.

 

[HeyGuyth]

Ass is such a prick. Poor Maverick wants to poop on a flat service but Ass the control freak wants him to poop on the grass. He should be more concerned that his 16 year old daughter is still pooping her pullups at 16 years old. Fucking Masshole.

 

[Maidengirl]

 

[Maidengirl]

 

[Whimsical]

Im slow on the jump these days, but for some reason the idea of P falling and rolling around in a bush just hit me, and I cant stop laughing.
And there was a witness! You know he went home and just died telling others about her rolling around like a turtle on its back.
Redwoods sticking out, T-Rex arms flailing, huffing and puffing!!

And for what? Why did she fall? Ice cream. She wanted to eat ice cream in bed.
Does Publix not sell ice cream? Does it always have to be "Dreamette! Dreamette! Dreamette!"

 

[Dori82]

These two are a psychologist wet dream. They very very clearly have HUGE mental health issues most probably resulting from a child with an autism diagnosis and never been able to mentally deal with it, which lead to a food obsession to surpress emotions. They will never lose weight until they have therapy for the reason why they have a food problem. They eat crap coz it temporarily gives them a high, just like alcohol. So until they get councilling and help there is absolutely no hope. The sad thing is they have used food to try and control Abbie because thats all they know. X

 

[WowMeowMeowWow]

A wall of painted frames filled with nothingness. If that is not a truthful depiction of what Pig represents,then I do not know what is.

I despise all the various hues of blue this dummy has incorporated into one room. Nothing matches…grrrrrrr…Huge pet peeve for Me oW.

We got this mirror at Kirklands. We could not wait to get it hung just so we could put this monstrosity of a vase full of fake ass flowers right in front of it.

As much as I dislike the colors chosen for this room, it does not compare to my hatred for the furniture placement. The circle shelf deal on one wall. The offset bar on the other..ugh. Nothing is quite centered. It would drive me damn crazy. Moobie would be sipping his large glass of My wife gets slimmer the more I drink on the rocks out at the ugly ass Tiki bar before I EVER moved some cookie monster blue piece of furniture that does not fit into a room just so he could get trashed in the sitting room as opposed to anywhere else in the Moldy Sty. HELL NO!

This room is the equivalent to the XXXXXXX Tho Exthited shirt on Amazon. Cheap, ugly and lacking any type of planning much less creativity. Throw it together and cross your fingers it makes for good content. Pathetic ass bitch.
OH! And there is this…LMAO!

 

[HeyGuyth]

These buffoons are so desperate to increase their views that they resort to clickbait grief porn and pretend to care with their enlarged obese hearts. Asa dramatically wiping away tears, such a soyboy. These idiots are so tacky and low, no morals or class. They will do ANYTHING to make a quick buck. Pair of lying grifting losers who will do ANYTHING to avoid working a real job.

 

[PugliaLiving]

I love the dialogue between Asshat and Big P

Asshat: I am emotional cause Abbie has a friend to just come pick her up and take her places
Big P: Yeah
Asshat: Ya know, she's not respite or a caregiver but a real friend
Big P: Yeah
Asshat: That's cool
Big P: Right

Big P could give a shit as long as someone else is taking Abbie out of the house AND Big P refused to add anything of substance to the conversation because she's on her phone and doesn't give two shits about what Asshat is saying and wishing he would shut the fuck up and leave her alone.

 

[Whimsical]

Hey guys!! I'm SO behind I really hate when real life gets in the way of Tattling!! Nothing bad, just a lot going on that requires my full attention!

WOW, do I have a lot of vlogs, reading, and tons of snarky comments to catch up on. I've missed a lot in the past few days!

To help keep you all entertained I present to you a photo of Whimsical, circa 1976. I was standing by a big cock and apparently doing my best "Scratching Summer" imitation, long before I knew it was even a thing I would make fun of decades later!!

This photo was taken towards the end of summer break and I was a few weeks away from starting middle school, which here is 6th grade, so I was 11 years old. The shorter gal standing next to me was a friend who came with our family to the amusement park that day.

I hope all my Tattle friends have an awesome Friday and I will hopefully be able to pop in and get caught up this weekend!!!

 

[What the ....]

It's three thirty in the am, I gotta work at seven. A thunderstorm woke my ass up....this ain't gonna be pretty!!!

Forget the creepy humpers,
they seem harmless compared to Crotch Digger
...just sayin'

Abbie looks hot and miserable.

Oh poor Big P, is Abbie ruining your Stuff your Fat Face Fest?

But don't worry y'all, Big P got it all figured out. No way in hell that heifer is gonna leave that place with out her gunt and hooves full of food.

Abbie, say goodbye....
Then they laugh at her
Bunch of fake ass bitches.

Oh, this is just fucking great...feed her popcorn so she stays swinging like a fucking dog doing tricks. All for content huh ASSHOLE

At the park there was a little girl in the camera view for awhile while dumb ass was vlogging.

Oh hell no, if that were my child I would have inserted my foot in his nasty ass while he was apologizing to me for being rude and inconsiderate.

Or, I would have yelled pervert loud and clear until he ran to his golf cart with his nuts in his stomach.

He does look the part...just sayin'

Well, I’m up now. Got a few hours to kill and I’m in a better mood! Lol!
Presenting the:
Hambeast mating ritual.

The male Hambeast struts his stuff in front of the female Hambeast.

Standing perfectly still, the male ham puffs his enormous gut and mammoth man boobs for the female to inspect.

The Hambeast then flexes his doughy drumsticks hoping to woo the perfect mate with the plump picnic hams.

But, the female hambeast does not look entertained.

But this doesn’t discourage Mr. Ham, no, he picks up the pace. Hooves on mountain hips and moobs bouncing with abandon,

the Hambeast finally gets a small glimmer of hope as the fugly female hambeast smiles.

And, with one final display of his flat ass and the promise of pickled okra, goat cheese, and crack chicken, success!

Touchdown!

 

[RocketQueen]

Asa wanted a man cave to drink whiskey.
Why not move out to Summers shack?
I know! I know!
Because he cant be that far away from his Autism Princess- lord knows what she'd do to Big P if Asa was out there!
And......
If he's out there, P would have to watch her. Get up and follow her as she goes room to room, etc.
Too much work for her.
So drink by your pink curtains Asa. Maybe your balls can go on the shelf above your head!

 

[saragrace1234]

Assa likes to throw out bones every now and then:
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Okay I'm a little confused here, Isaiah had a car that was less than 5 years old from Mommy Dearest. He decided he wanted grandpa's truck because he thought it was cool even though it was crazy old like 12 plus years. Apparently his car was sold to Kylie, and Isaiah took the Toyota to school.
They want Isaiah's car to be registered in Florida because the insurance is a lot lower. I don't believe that Isaiah makes enough money to even make a monthly payment for the car. I don't understand why Assa has to come up with these crazy stories.

If Isaiah can afford a car why is he begging for stars on Facebook so he can buy coffee?

 

[RocketQueen]

Another day in paradise.
*P text for help, since Abbie wouldnt get out of the car. What is Asa wasnt home?!

*And after all that, Asa says they may still reward her with a ride for communicating well. Tantrum's shouldnt be rewarded. Sorry, not sorry.

*Abbie walking around in the 2016 winter backward pjs before it is even dark. That cant be good.

*P's "infamous" (LOL Asa is so stupid) cauli rice. Yep. No one ever thought to make that before! Seriously- no one thinks to ruin the health benefits of cauli rice by adding massives amounts of sugar and salt ladden soy and teriayki to it. Just use real rice and stop pretending!!

*And if Maverick is suddenly have bathroom issues, take him to the vet you fucking morons!! That poor old dog is probably so stressed by the constant change and chaos he has to live with.

I cannot stand these people!!!

Omg.
They ARE contacting that County in Georgia's Police Department!! They mentioned the training officer specifically.
I told yall in a previous post this would happen.
He's also mentions making contact with Jacksonville PD!!
I hope they look up his criminal records before they align themselves with this bullshit for content scam.
He's an idiot. Tying to scam the police.

I WISH I could comment on YT. I mean seriously.
They cant get their own 16 yr old out of the car, but they want to train police officers?!
The delusion is strong isnt it?!

 

[JunoandMaya]

I wrote this before I saw those new pics of Summer with Abbie. Ummmmm…Now, I don’t know what to think!!!!

I agree with our kiddos "talking" in their own way, even without any words. I always say that my son says more with his eyes than most people do with words.

Now, I will share a picture of last night. One of his chores that we have been working on is loading the dishwasher. He has now got to the point where I simply hand him an item and he knows where to put it. Odd items sometimes need a verbal or gestural prompt, but he does fairly well on his own. We use words such as "Up top" or "on the bottom", he follows my point, and all the other subtle directives you may use. He gets the soap from "Under" the sink, and puts it in the compartment and shuts it. He also helps feed the dogs. Practicing things like pouring the food and setting the bowls down for each pup. He may not play with them like a typical person would do, but feeding provides positive interaction between them.

 

[RocketQueen]

Maybe a little toking involved as well

I got my first bottle of tincture today.
I spent the afternoon on the couch, listening to classic rock.
First day I have been pain free in months.

 

[RocketQueen]

I was also thinking- this kid had a pretty vibrant personality. If he made anyone laugh, listen, or drew any kind of attention away from Asa, that would be enough for Asa to put a target on his back.

And Hot is 100% correct. JAX news needs to hear this. These assholes call the news for every damn thing they do.
Even Isaiahs "Covid Prom." How about this?
They assumed this kid was on the spectrum. Enough that P sent a text to his mother. Yet Asa harassed, belittled, and fired him.
Where were the "accommodations"? The extra care and training? If he were special needs, is that how they treat people???

Also wanted to add- they are fucking cheapskates. Hire a staff for $12 an hr to finish outfitting their store instead of paying a real crew, and not bothering to tell them first. Such fucking scammers. Wouldnt want to take anything out of Big P's food budget, now would we?

**Back to add: And if I were a reporter I would certainly bring a hoyer and nail P's fat ass to the wall. "If this is a woman owned business- you are the owner and your GM also owns shares, why is your husband handling personnel? Is he on the payroll? Does he have a Human Resources or management title? Can you show proof of that in your original plan and proposal? What kind of message are you sending women, that your husband is performing your job?" And- "why are your employees expected to add value to your husbands life?"