I have been reading and just wanted to clarify some things ( I know her and Ross & also have worked in the same office in the past ! ) she did leave her office job, before she was pushed. She systematically bullied every person she worked with, people left and the company actually didn’t deal with her correctly. She wasn’t allowed to manage anyone as her behaviour was so terrible forwards them. Not sure why this was tolerated ! But we all had a theory ! Ross is a nice guy but one day he will wake up to her ! Not sure how long he can deal with her drama. The whole office was glad to see the back of her ! She has very few female friends if any left and she actually thought she is famous and people actually took the piss so much. She has never had any food issues it’s made up for attention. I actually do think she is mentally ill. Her mother is a total attention seeker also. Everything people speculate on here is true and she is so much worse in the flesh. The way she speaks and treats Ross is awful, she cries, manipulates and I can’t think of many positives tbh.
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So I'm not here to trash Lottie or question her diagnoses or anything but I feel I need to vent and I just didn't know where else to turn. Shes a very successful lady considering and you gotta admire her whole business acumen but is there really a place for all these influencers profiting off things that are true everyday struggles and life altering conditions for some people and painting this sunshine and roses picture of it all?
I have endometriosis and IBS and I'm still in the process of going through so many investigations, generally just near the end of my tether and these conditions are DEBILITATING. I don't have any endo on my bowel so the IBS alone has me floored every single day. I could eat one wrong thing and be glued to the toilet for 2 weeks straight, feeling nauseous, crampy, the list goes on, im sure some of you relate! I have to cancel plans, I have to abandon my degree work which I love so much and have wanted to do since being a child, cause I'm physically unable to focus due to the pain. And there are influencers like this person profiting off a "cute bloaty tum tum uwu", preaching about body acceptance whilst still being the owner of a conventionally attractive body in society standards, able to stick to plans, able to go for a jog every morning (and post about it) and meanwhile some of us are just sat here like "well this person is chronically ill and can do all this, why can't I??"
Im obviously aware that she may not be putting everything about her life online (though it sure seems that way with the sheer frequency of posts). I just think its hugely harmful to be showing this narrative with such a huge following and platform, brand deals, merch (aimed at people with these conditions with empty promises that it will change their life) essentially profiting off the guilt of chronically ill folks who are made to believe they just simply aren't doing enough to fix their IBS. Or on the other side of the coin, preaching to healthy folks that IBS really isn't "that bad" and "look at all these things i can do despite my illness". Obviously there's a place to be proud about what you achieve despite your struggles, but with such a large platform, there needs to be more responsibility over what you post, with a focus on the condition itself and raising awareness of it rather than profiting off it. It feels like IBS and bloating has become this trendy fashion accessory to push BS health fads.
I bought her diary a few months ago and all it did was flare up my disordered eating behaviours. I'm a little bit bitter but I'm also angry and feel cheated. With a condition like ibs and also endo, when there are so many issues already with doctors not taking you seriously, you get to a stage where you are willing to try anything at all to improve your quality of life, so please be kind.
I have endometriosis and IBS and I'm still in the process of going through so many investigations, generally just near the end of my tether and these conditions are DEBILITATING. I don't have any endo on my bowel so the IBS alone has me floored every single day. I could eat one wrong thing and be glued to the toilet for 2 weeks straight, feeling nauseous, crampy, the list goes on, im sure some of you relate! I have to cancel plans, I have to abandon my degree work which I love so much and have wanted to do since being a child, cause I'm physically unable to focus due to the pain. And there are influencers like this person profiting off a "cute bloaty tum tum uwu", preaching about body acceptance whilst still being the owner of a conventionally attractive body in society standards, able to stick to plans, able to go for a jog every morning (and post about it) and meanwhile some of us are just sat here like "well this person is chronically ill and can do all this, why can't I??"
Im obviously aware that she may not be putting everything about her life online (though it sure seems that way with the sheer frequency of posts). I just think its hugely harmful to be showing this narrative with such a huge following and platform, brand deals, merch (aimed at people with these conditions with empty promises that it will change their life) essentially profiting off the guilt of chronically ill folks who are made to believe they just simply aren't doing enough to fix their IBS. Or on the other side of the coin, preaching to healthy folks that IBS really isn't "that bad" and "look at all these things i can do despite my illness". Obviously there's a place to be proud about what you achieve despite your struggles, but with such a large platform, there needs to be more responsibility over what you post, with a focus on the condition itself and raising awareness of it rather than profiting off it. It feels like IBS and bloating has become this trendy fashion accessory to push BS health fads.
I bought her diary a few months ago and all it did was flare up my disordered eating behaviours. I'm a little bit bitter but I'm also angry and feel cheated. With a condition like ibs and also endo, when there are so many issues already with doctors not taking you seriously, you get to a stage where you are willing to try anything at all to improve your quality of life, so please be kind.
smirkingrevenge
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It also has such a selfish undertone. You can absolutely be too much. What she (and all thee toxic positivity cunts) forgets is that her rights end where her actions start harming anyone else in any way shape or form.
And she is harmful. She is harmful for the IBS community, to the gluten free community and to the body positivity community. Advocating that buying bigger clothes is the answer is as harmful as her self diagnosing with everything and trying to become and advocate for every illness and ailment she imagines she has. These people need to be stopped and shut down. I’m so over the toxic positivity and saying whatever you do it’s ok because it’s just you. No bitch, you can absolutely be too loud, too messy, too sloppy and it can absolutely impact other people. It you’re shit at your job you can absolutely be sacked. If you are insufferable in a relationship, you can be dumped. With this logic nothing ever is her fault, it’s always someone else. And that is in fact problematic… accountability and being held accountable are part of being a grown up and existing in a civilised society.
New thread done, not sure how to report this one so it gets locked?
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smirkingrevenge
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Because she takes the piss about every single issue that hits other people hard.
She took the piss with lockdowns, she made it out she left her job and how good she has it still yet she complains about money in a super covert way etc. It’s not the fact that she was furloughed or laid off, it’s the fact that she lies about everything and by doing so, she downplays the impact these issues have on people’s lives.
She is one of those influencers who jumps on bandwagons, lies about issues she has and therefore she sets unrealistic standards.
Like leave your 9-5 job, do absolutely nothing but still be able to pay your mortgage... she never mentions that they were a two income household without any dependents and she could afford to leave/lose her job without worrying about how they will afford food.
While other people lose their homes and worry about their future, Lottie sits around in her pants eating pasta and planning her “honeymoon”. It’s not a laughing matter, but it’s gross how she goes on about these things.
Thebluebean
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Genuine question: Do people still wear thongs? Honestly? I couldn't stand having a piece of dental floss stuck up my arse crack all day 
Thebluebean
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So needed this break did you Lottie?
I forgot how hard you’ve worked from home the last year, trying on different clothes for a living, buying and returning from ASOS continuously, prancing around riverside pretending to run.
For any key worker or anyone who has a job who reads that, what a kick in the teeth.
I forgot how hard you’ve worked from home the last year, trying on different clothes for a living, buying and returning from ASOS continuously, prancing around riverside pretending to run.
For any key worker or anyone who has a job who reads that, what a kick in the teeth.
smirkingrevenge
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I had to make sure this lives on for eternity. Didn’t she say the sweatshirts sold out? Cause that’s a big plastic bag full of her sweatshirts 
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Fuzzydunlop
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I'm gonna put this out there....Ross' head is way too big for his body. He reminds me of a Muppet
smirkingrevenge
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Ok this raised my blood pressure. Stupid cow is NOT diagnosed with either!
Stop. Milking. Problems. That. Seriously. Impact.
Other. People’s. Lives.
Attention seeking c*nt.
Stop. Milking. Problems. That. Seriously. Impact.
Other. People’s. Lives.
Attention seeking c*nt.
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Thebluebean
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SPOT ON.Anyone else think shes "playing" at this whole adhd thing just to earn herself another label?
How totally disrespectful of her.
Havent we ALL got busy lives and busy minds?
Im terrible, I can be doing 1 task and wander of mid way and find myself becoming involved with something else, before you know it, I've caused a mayhem of destruction ( I cant even call it organised chaos) and them I'm in a pickle and cant see a way out . .
I struggle to engage in a television programme ( dont even get me started with a film! )
Am I looking for a label?
No.
Why?
Because its just me . .
How I am, How I've ALWAYS been. ..
She pisses me off SOOO much . ..
Carry on with your "bloat"
Rant over.
Endometriosis didn’t happen, as far as I’m aware, IBS hasn’t been formally diagnosed, and now it’s ADHD.
I can’t help but feel as though this is another way of making money, bloating isn’t making enough money so now let’s try something else.
If she’s does get formally diagnosed then I hope she gets the support she needs but I feel as though her erratic behaviour has cranked up significantly recently which I don’t think is a coincidence.
eyespybs123
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Truly disgusting she had to make the news about Sarah all about her 
Kittykat45
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She has a cleaner? For a small 2 bed house that she sits around in all day long......wow
smirkingrevenge
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The night before she left she posted a story saying he remembered she texted the password to him. She also asked him to do it. And yeah he is a lot better cause he doesn’t put on an act.
Omfg Ross’ dad looking at the wall and the lamps with the most unimpressed face and saying “it will do”. I’m absolutely dead… and that wall is hideous. And the lamps don’t go with it at all.
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toastedwoofles
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That photo of her having a wee in the woods in her wedding dress on her stories is actually foul 
smirkingrevenge
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So busy being a business mogul, she forgot deadlines and her “business” as about to be shut down
