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sorry!This has made me so depressed. I was hoping you'd say he was in his early 20s.
I give up
sorry!This has made me so depressed. I was hoping you'd say he was in his early 20s.
I give up
Good addiction though right? I have a list started and I’ll try buy myself one for special occasionsBe prepared to become addicted
Please forgive me if I'm wrong (I've just had a scroll back to double check but still can't be sure!) but this was the guy that got really possessive and was pulling you away from other people that night, is that right?He was in touch after I got home and we’ve been texting as normal? No mention of a second date, but he definitely didn’t drink as much last night, just a couple of glasses of wine.. However on Saturday he had had a lottttt to drink. We went ice skating and then had a drink and it was a good laugh, but he was very… different? Just cooler?
Yeah he’s been in touch! But no mention of a second date so I don’t really know what he is thinking at all the date was nice, we had fun and stuff to talk about, but he was much more reserved and controlled over his drinking? He’s either not feeling it anymore and being nice by texting me last night and today or is totally embarrassed
Not multiple dates because I feel like sometimes if you're having a laugh out for drinks or something it doesn't have a set finish time so it'd be awkward to cut it short and meet someone elseHas anyone ever had multiple dates on the same day? I am not sure I could cope lol
How did you meet and how come he asked you out?I honestly have no idea. Maybe because I'm genuinely not looking for someone really. If it's arranged then I'll go but I guess it means my expectations low because I know I'll be fine regardless.
I'm all grown up!
I know It was a particularly stupid method of perving. It amazes me how they can turn every topic into sexErrr.... he was being a perv!!!
I think you’re probably right. I so want to be open to a different type of man but I’m also very cautious. Oh well.It sounds like you two want different things and you have doubts and a gut feeling... why not say good-bye to him now and move on?
I’ve got BPD too due to some abuse in my childhood. I also wonder if I have ADHD too….it would explain my previous erratic behaviour, which I’m desperately trying to not repeat.Apologies if my previous advice/posts have not been received well. I have BPD & OCD so I completely understand wrt bad mental health.
Some of the recent advice I've received that's really resonated with me, is that dating is meant to be fun. It's not meant to be stressful and panicked. And we are far too quick to blame ourselves when we don't get a message back or a date was rubbish. I guess in a long winded way, I'm trying to say we shouldn't take it too seriously or let it dictate our mood or self worth
Anyway, happy clappy preaching over lol, off of to clean my bathroom