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@ATV2021 @NoseyNiamh Did you do the challenge? I just posted mine
I feel so excited knowing my soul mate is coming
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I like to move on to WhatsApp after one day of messages (if I am enjoying the chat) plus you always have the block option if they start to annoy you.Yip reallyI think it’s the way he’s phrased it that sounds presumptuous, he should have asked for mine and then I could chose whether to give it or not! This shifts the dynamic for me.
I generally don’t want my WhatsApp being blown up by guys I haven’t met or don’t have a set date with though![]()
I have some serious issues. As soon as a man starts acting like that, I'm out of thereDog walk with D was amazing. I was telling him about my woes at work (I told my boss to fuck off last week in a moment of extreme stress). He kept giving my big hugs and rubbing my back saying ‘everything’s gonna be ok’![]()
What was he apologising for ?The school dad who's eye I caught, came and apologised to me today. Told me he's trapped in a loveless marriage. Sure thats what they all say![]()
Has he made it clear that it's a date as in he's interested in a relationship? Or is he being neighbourly ?I absolutely agree… What would such a message look like?
You could block him or find something that occupies your mind more or call a friend whenever you feel the urge to contact him?Sorry to ruin everyones fab dating stories- keep it up! I am living through all of you.
I'm so sorry though to derail and bring everyone down but i need to rant.
I'm posted on her last week about my ex and I'm pissed off at myself. He viewed my story (we don't follow each other) and I'm now back to the analyzing "What does it mean? Does this mean he's unhappy in his new relationship?!", feeling shit, missing him, "I can't do better. He didn't want me. He chose someone else but I still want him!" "when will message?!" version of myself. FFS!! Just when I was finally accepting it was over and enjoying my life and hardly thinking about him, he does one thing and suddenly, BOOM!! Here are we!! I want to reach out to him but at the same time, I don't because i don't want to give him the satisfaction of it all. How do I stop feeling and thinking about it?!
arghhhh!!!
Haha it seems they do!Do guys still message on FB? It seems like such a 2008 move haha.
I agree that is be sneaky. If the guy did message her first and he is interested in her, you can't help that, but she should have been upfront instead of waiting for someone to prompt her to finally tell you. It's a bit shady and I wouldn't call this person a "friend" if she is willing to flirt with him in front of you knowing it hurts you. Not cool.
Thank you! I'm trying my best but I take things to heartShes projecting onto you basically because she feels guilt and knows she's in the wrong. Her blocking you is a positive thing. I'd honestly ignore her and just live your best goddam life ever. Dont let her/him phase you (or act like it doesn't - fake it till you make it!) And you'll soon realise you had a lucky escape from both![]()
Be prepared to become addictedOne thing I have on my list to do now is to buy more perfume! I only have one and I want to get a little collection going to make myself feel good. You have a nice list there!
Sorry I am being very nosey, but why do you have a phone for him?
How does your neighbour have your number? Are you friendly anyway?No, that was someone else
@ATV2021 If he was a stranger I would have no problem owning it.
Can I send this:
Hey! Thanks for the invite. I’m gearing up to visit with my grandpa soon who is frail. I can’t risk catching anything and passing it on.
Do I need to add anything else? Btw It’s all true not looking for sympathy but it occurred to me that that’s a legitimate out
Ohh, I don't know yet, we are probably going to meet for a bite to eat.You deserve better than being kept on tenterhooks for a message. It's so anxiety-inducing! Even if he is interesting. The guy I was seeing earlier in the year was like this, and now looking back, even though we had some really fun dates I spent more time being bothered about not getting much chat in between, and that's the overriding memory.
What will you do on Thursday date?
Damn I forgot all about itSo ladies - who went to Persia Lawson's first live tonight?
How well have you actually known him up till then?Ladies, I need your help. My neighbor left me a note asking me out next Thursday for what sounds like a nice date of cocktails and live music. I’m not interested in him. Please help me write a text that doesn’t hurt his feelings! I’m awkward af
Majority of them are, I had someone who was around me about 4 years ago. Only a couple of years older then me, I didn't trust him and it was nothing serious but I worked out he only wanted me when he was single so I cut ties. Well last weekend I got the whole I'm a changed man can I take you out on a proper date, told him no chance cause I know his liesSo true. I’ve got a good job, own house etc. They all seem like they’re at a totally different life stage to me.
I wish I could find it funI'm almost 40, it gets worse
Dating is fun though. I loved it when I first dipped my toe in.
Any pattern to it?Ok I have a sneaky suspicion that the absolute ijeet I went on a date with this weekend actually has a partner. It’s the super super intense and then very very quiet. It’s not fair on anyone.
Me and the guy are 30, she is 25.Can I ask what age group you and him are in?
Why aren't you bothered about it ?I may have a date this week. I'm not hugely arsed which I'm not sure if that's a good or bad thing? Like seriously beyond not bothered.... if it doesn't happen I won't even give it another thought not arsed. Maybe this is the universe saying nah not yet![]()
Totally agree, I find it so gross but also I get that there is a market for that kind of thing and so whatever floats someone’s boat!Yeah, you shouldn’t stay because he’s the first one who has shown you any interest, because there will be someone else. Although it can be years between finding someone you find attractive and have genuine excitement about and it’s more misleading BS and platitudes to claim otherwise.
You imagine that everyone would want to get off the apps, but for a lot of men who aren’t looking for commitment or don’t know what they want, the apps represent a way to get attention, possible sexting (and photos/videos) and sex at their fingertips. They want to sign up to more!
True but I’m average looking and he looks like a modelHe might think you’re a catfish and want to see you IRL / not waste time chatting