Yep it is my birthday weekend and we're going out for food and a night outAnyone have any date plans this weekend?
then spending the next day with my friends, minus my date ha ha
(rubbish joke I know).Happy birthday for the weekendYep it is my birthday weekend and we're going out for food and a night out
Thank you @Thank(space)you but credit goes to @NoseyNiamh really, I just nominated.
I have one tomorrow, I'm actually looking forward to it. I decided on an afternoon coffee date. I am trying to stay off alcohol for a while so i thought this was the best option. So far, he seems like a nice guy.Anyone have any date plans this weekend?
he told me he thinks about the kiss often whilst he’s been away! Ergh ok, I am keen for the second date I am putting the nerves away.
The 37 year old seems shady. He's being dishonest and feels as though he thinks he can pick you up and drop you whenever. You don't need men like him in your life and it's a blessing in disguise if you did not go on more than one date with him. I think you should block him on everything because if he comes back it could just dig up old emotions again.Hi Gang, thanks for the tag in the new thread @Clickbait
I never messaged back and he hasn’t contacted me since this on Tuesday. I just thought he’d contact. So I assume the date is offView attachment 835322
If I’m completely honest I’m not really in a good headspace now. Over the weekend when I was posting I was at a wedding on social media the bald 37 year old I mentioned in a few threads ago contacted me and I got 4 missed calls from him. He was Telling me how much he missed me and how lovely I looked. Saying he still liked me etc and He begged to meet up with me asking if he could book a hotel etc. I answered a call to speak to him because it had been over a month since we last had spoken especially as the last thing I said was he hurt my feelings. He was asking me how many dates I’d been on, if I still wear the hoodie of his he gave me etc
I asked him a few times if he was seeing someone his response every time was that it doesn’t matter, why does it matter. I didn’t feel like I got an answer and each time during the night / early hours of the morning he was pushing for me to FaceTime or send explicit pictures I said no. I said I couldn’t do this it’s not fair on me or if he’s seeing someone etc. He then said it would not be a good idea for us meeting and that he shouldn’t have messaged me.
Anyway long story short I decided to call him yesterday mainly to speak as I had a clear mind. I just felt really taken back by him contacting me after a month +. he never answered the phone nor call back but then blocked me on WhatsApp. I’m feeling hurt because I don’t know what I did wrong but more feel crappy as i got sucked back into this tit.
The poster was right when she said I can’t get past the first date I couldn’t even get a guy to text me again so I could go on one this Saturday
I think the 37yr old is playing with your feelings, please stop allowing him to. Cut off all contact and give yourself some time to recover.Hi Gang, thanks for the tag in the new thread @Clickbait
I never messaged back and he hasn’t contacted me since this on Tuesday. I just thought he’d contact. So I assume the date is offView attachment 835322
If I’m completely honest I’m not really in a good headspace now. Over the weekend when I was posting I was at a wedding on social media the bald 37 year old I mentioned in a few threads ago contacted me and I got 4 missed calls from him. He was Telling me how much he missed me and how lovely I looked. Saying he still liked me etc and He begged to meet up with me asking if he could book a hotel etc. I answered a call to speak to him because it had been over a month since we last had spoken especially as the last thing I said was he hurt my feelings. He was asking me how many dates I’d been on, if I still wear the hoodie of his he gave me etc
I asked him a few times if he was seeing someone his response every time was that it doesn’t matter, why does it matter. I didn’t feel like I got an answer and each time during the night / early hours of the morning he was pushing for me to FaceTime or send explicit pictures I said no. I said I couldn’t do this it’s not fair on me or if he’s seeing someone etc. He then said it would not be a good idea for us meeting and that he shouldn’t have messaged me.
Anyway long story short I decided to call him yesterday mainly to speak as I had a clear mind. I just felt really taken back by him contacting me after a month +. he never answered the phone nor call back but then blocked me on WhatsApp. I’m feeling hurt because I don’t know what I did wrong but more feel crappy as i got sucked back into this tit.
The poster was right when she said I can’t get past the first date I couldn’t even get a guy to text me again so I could go on one this Saturday
There's nothing wrong with you, point 1. And don't let yourself think there is nor worry about things you cannot control as that's how you'll drive yourself mad. He has his own issues clearly and was seeking some validation at the expense of another - does that sound like a decent person?Hi Gang, thanks for the tag in the new thread @Clickbait
I never messaged back and he hasn’t contacted me since this on Tuesday. I just thought he’d contact. So I assume the date is offView attachment 835322
If I’m completely honest I’m not really in a good headspace now. Over the weekend when I was posting I was at a wedding on social media the bald 37 year old I mentioned in a few threads ago contacted me and I got 4 missed calls from him. He was Telling me how much he missed me and how lovely I looked. Saying he still liked me etc and He begged to meet up with me asking if he could book a hotel etc. I answered a call to speak to him because it had been over a month since we last had spoken especially as the last thing I said was he hurt my feelings. He was asking me how many dates I’d been on, if I still wear the hoodie of his he gave me etc
I asked him a few times if he was seeing someone his response every time was that it doesn’t matter, why does it matter. I didn’t feel like I got an answer and each time during the night / early hours of the morning he was pushing for me to FaceTime or send explicit pictures I said no. I said I couldn’t do this it’s not fair on me or if he’s seeing someone etc. He then said it would not be a good idea for us meeting and that he shouldn’t have messaged me.
Anyway long story short I decided to call him yesterday mainly to speak as I had a clear mind. I just felt really taken back by him contacting me after a month +. he never answered the phone nor call back but then blocked me on WhatsApp. I’m feeling hurt because I don’t know what I did wrong but more feel crappy as i got sucked back into this tit.
The poster was right when she said I can’t get past the first date I couldn’t even get a guy to text me again so I could go on one this Saturday
The bald guyHi Gang, thanks for the tag in the new thread @Clickbait
I never messaged back and he hasn’t contacted me since this on Tuesday. I just thought he’d contact. So I assume the date is offView attachment 835322
If I’m completely honest I’m not really in a good headspace now. Over the weekend when I was posting I was at a wedding on social media the bald 37 year old I mentioned in a few threads ago contacted me and I got 4 missed calls from him. He was Telling me how much he missed me and how lovely I looked. Saying he still liked me etc and He begged to meet up with me asking if he could book a hotel etc. I answered a call to speak to him because it had been over a month since we last had spoken especially as the last thing I said was he hurt my feelings. He was asking me how many dates I’d been on, if I still wear the hoodie of his he gave me etc
I asked him a few times if he was seeing someone his response every time was that it doesn’t matter, why does it matter. I didn’t feel like I got an answer and each time during the night / early hours of the morning he was pushing for me to FaceTime or send explicit pictures I said no. I said I couldn’t do this it’s not fair on me or if he’s seeing someone etc. He then said it would not be a good idea for us meeting and that he shouldn’t have messaged me.
Anyway long story short I decided to call him yesterday mainly to speak as I had a clear mind. I just felt really taken back by him contacting me after a month +. he never answered the phone nor call back but then blocked me on WhatsApp. I’m feeling hurt because I don’t know what I did wrong but more feel crappy as i got sucked back into this tit.
The poster was right when she said I can’t get past the first date I couldn’t even get a guy to text me again so I could go on one this Saturday
I know its hard to draw a line under things but you need to cut contact with him.
Tell him to date a ballet dancer!
