Finally caught up with this thread, oh boy that was a read wasn't it?
I don't even know where to begin, so let's start with the marriage / settling down at later age.
In general he isn't in particular wrong that women often marry someone older, I recently read an article about it and I think it said that about 65-70% of all women who marry a man, marry one that is older, though the majority of them was (I think) between 1.5-5 years older.
But what angers me is his whole reason behind it. That man can wait and women tik-tok gotta give birth because they are there to serve the man and to have children. It was just so incredibly gross and very old fashioned? Are we living pre-WW2?
And not settling down until you are financially stable is just so incredibly sad to me as well? Is money really all that matters?
Though maybe if you look like Bradley and are a Bradley you need to bring more to the table because he's clearly lacking in all other areas? lmao
He's so immature, in his head he's still 20. I think THAT is the problem.
It's so old fashioned, man has to provide and woman has to stay at home waiting for the man to get home to give her children? He will ALWAYS find a way to reduce women females. He just wants someone to serve him and admire him and something to hold over them (like financial stability and a home). Gross.
I also hate how he looks down on people who are heavier or sick. Not just physically but also mentally. His views on depression and anti-depressants just make me so incredibly angry. I have been suffering with depression for many years now, it goes from mild to very severe. I have tried many meds but sadly enough nothing works for me. Thankfully I have always had amazing support from family and a therpist who never gave up on me (seriously without her I probably wouldn't be here anymore).
But both my brother and one of my best friends would FOR SURE not be here anymore without anti-depressants. Does he really think it's so easy to just exercise it away? Like fuck do you think if it's that simple they wouldn't do it? If the magic cure to all would to simply change your environment, clean up your diet and just exercise a lot, why are there STILL sick people? Nasty pos.
It's the same with the disabled, the way he looks down on them is just so incredibly nasty and gross. Just like people who are heavier. Who the fuck cares, we all have our issues and our problems, doesn't mean we are a bunch of lazy people uncapable of taking care of ourselves?
He's so narrow-minded and self-centered. And for someone who has had quite a lot of clients and who does a lot of online work, he's insanely sheltered?
I hope he never has children, truly. If his child were to fall ill, get disabled or get mental health problems he will not be able to cope. He will just get angry at the poor thing, telling them it's their own fault for being lazy and not working hard enough to overcome it..
I'm getting so worked up about things like this.