30+ people at a baby's birthday is still a big party for a barely sentient potato that is baby.
I don't know why they feel the need to fudge every number they come across.
Why not get a slightly larger cake for the grownups(find out what cake types they like) and keep the kid cupcakes. Make O a special little 1 tier, or an extra big cupcake. Why not have light feeling food, especially for a morning party? Frozen lemonade etc. in cool cups and keep the cotton candy/fancy popcorn or something that the kids can take home as a favor etc., stuff that's good to eat for when it's hot outside? Talk to your guests beforehand, find out what they like, and build it from there?
You know, more like
Nicole
.
It doesn't have to be extravagant.
The last thing I'd want is pizza or a hotdog and chips well before noon.
But what do I know, I
hate hosting parties and don't have a talent for it.
I'm an introvert. So, because I love you very much- I can give you 20 minutes of high social and then I'm topped up with people-time, thank you