**long post incoming **This is a general comment about all these influencers who have made money out of selling their story and now are in panic mode as followers dwindle off. Julie Twins and me, Shannon Joyce and Rachel just to name a few have all made a "living" out of everyday circumstances that 99% of others wouldn't even know where to begin. My next door neighbour died at the age of 37 to breast cancer left two girls behind 2 and 5 , their dad had no choice but to survive, pay the mortgage etc and get on with life as best he could. As do 99% of those who loose someone. We all have or know someone who have been dealt the bad hand whether sickness,death relationship breakdowns etc and have had to survive. Share your story if you must, share the ups and downs ,but monetising on it all does not sit right with me. These ones glamourising misery is not only disrespectful to their families , partners etc but it's given the generation up and coming a false sense of security of creating a living using misfortune etc. Shannon, Julie and Rachel.all set out to tell and share their stories but realistically 2-3 years later who are they helping now? Themselves thats who..helping themselves to peoples good will and trust by selling a lifestyle that's not attainable to the majority of people watching. Now you can see the panic set it when the story no longer carries the same emotional engagement so all the steps are.coming out to prevent the decline. None of these women have anything worthy of making role models out of them. All could have used their pages to inspire those effected by death, cancer , separation but all they've done is embarrass themselves, overshare their children and create negativity around their social media accounts by being selfish and greedy.