Leila Stead #3 aka Goldejewels aka Social Golde aka We Are Le Mama

[BasicBoganBaes]

I just stumbled across this stellar of a thread when I was trying to figure out what Leila’s story is.

I have met her 3 times and each time I couldn’t follow her story (different businesses, different bf’s, random stories etc.)

I then saw that Crystal had moved into her place (I know Crystal pretty well) and it made me want to get to the bottom of it. To say this has been eye opening is an understatement.

Here’s a couple of things I can confirm:
She seemed fairly nice on the surface, I had no idea that she was so cray - I just felt like some things didn’t add up.
she looks nothing like she does on insta IRL
She’s a nasty piece of work behind peoples backs - one time when I was out with a group including her, she and Kelle stood in a corner bitching about everyone and making fun of them
She brags about her business success but then complains about how broke she is because she’s a single mum and had a lot of medical bills from her mum
She oscillates between being a life coach, business coach, influencer, photographer and jewellery designer. When I asked her about it she said that she is multi passionate and has a lot of talents that the world needs.
At one event it was a moderate sized group and people will taking turns buying rounds, when it was her turn she got an urgent call to have to do something for her mum and left (in her car after having at least 5 drinks).
She was also complaining about a BF at one event how she didn’t really like him and he didn’t help with Ever and he was really possessive but she didn’t want to leave him because ge was helping ger financially.

now for Crystal - I don’t know how they know each other. I know them both but for different reasons and haven’t ever seen them together before.

there were lots of questions about why she doesn’t have custody of her boys. Ihonestly can’t remember all the details but I do remember that she was jailed briefly for attacking one of the Dads (the Byron one I think) she then wanted that to be written off as mental illness so she admitted herself to a mental institution (no judgement just recounting what she told me).

she never felt ready to be a mum, she hated kids, she didn’t want eaither of the boys - she wasn’tcut out for parenting. She wanted to travel and live life.

her version of what went down with Design Twins was that she went overseas and the husband embezzled all of the money and she had no idea it happened. His version is different that she mismanaged the business and lost all the money and blamed him.

she builds all of these relationships with semi famous people by telling them lies, she does free work for them to bolster her authority to then charge unsuspecting people ridiculous prices for poor design (and only recommend the same basic stuff to all of them which coincidentally is stuff she has a trade account on so makes Up to 50% on each item sold). Same strategy Kelle used to build her businesses.

she’s all over the place with men, where she wants to live what She’s doing with her business etc.

just in the last few months she has “rescued” 3dogs and cried that she couldn’t keep them (because the pound found their owners) before buying the one she has now and making her poor kid drive for 4 hours after school (when he was clearly tired) to go to a work appointment which was actually picking up the dog (from the back of someone’s car).

she also opened a store, which became a design studio which became a collaborative hub for women???

she manifested her dream house, which was aroom in someone’s house that she agreed to do a renovation design for free.

she bought a boat and was learning to sail, she found God, man I can’t even keep up with it all.

she is forever changing everything and very unstable.

Ihave firsthand accounts of her neglecting her boys - leaving them alone for hours on end while she’s “busy”.

im sure there’s more
I’m forgetting but this is a good beginning.

if you have any questions feel free to ask.

I don’t know Leila super well (have only met her 3 times)but know Crystal fairly well (at one point considered her a friend), I’m also connected to some others in this thread through theMLM gang because I almost got sucked in.

 

[DunningKrugerEffect]

Allow me to paraphrase Tarah's stories tonight.

I'm just touching base, I've had a busy day because I used a camera that isn't a phone in selfie mode for an hour or so this morning. I'm knackered. I also got enquiries about birth photography too, that was pretty exhausting. I feel like my audience deserves a breathy chat punctuated with exaggerated swallows that always end with gross tongue clicks/lip smacks.
I'll let you in on something! (I will never explain this framing) There's an anonymous "business client" who has a business that had a HUGE "event"! I am the driving force and inspiration for this client to get her business going. When I met her she was utterly lost, but I showed her the way and she's now "blossomed and bloomed" into a VERY successful bizniz woman. She's so lucky she paid me to tell her what to do. What's this business? Who is this person? What are the details so you can all see the results of my coaching? Don't ask irrelevant questions. "I just could not be more prouder of her and seeing her evolution of woman".
My coaching includes enduring truths such as "When it comes to figuring out your worth when it is an exchange of monetary value, right? So it's an energy exchange, abundance, you know, monetary value...". Please pay me to teach you more concepts like this because I'm obviously on a level where you wish you were at. I don't have to work if I don't feel like it. I'm THAT good. I'm pioneering the way for single mothers who don't get child support to not send their kids to childcare. Clear indication of ultimate bizniz success.
In conclusion... What was the point of this? I think I wanted to tell you all that I'm transitioning, I'm transforming, I'm streamlining my life so that I'm not always grinding so hard every day! Maybe I'm having a midlife crisis. Maybe my whole adult life has been a crisis?

Thank you and goodnight. Actually, you're welcome and goodnight.

 

[DaisyNZ]

Apologies in advance for typos. I just took a ride into posts from 2017 and wow

Thought I’d make some notes for anyone that didn’t follow Liela then like myself to recap.


June 2017

Liela set up GoFundMe to publish book. Was taken down quickly when followers suggested pre-sale.
Discussion around Liela setting up a group called the Mamma Collective. Must have had a similar name to another group already created.
Backlash, fallout from Mummy bloggers in Perth and ranty post from Liela.


Announced that Ever was not photogenic
Liela found seven pages of Gomi blog and had big rant about bullies (now there are over 600 pages on her thread alone)
Appears to have shared a graphic birthing video.
Mentions of a beige birthday for Ever and Liela making it all about her. No photos of Ever on birthday, just Liela partying with friends (?!) as she went out in the evening.
Still June but now Liela is being stalked by her exes new GF!
Mysterious post appears on Gomi blog which seems to be from Evers fathers new GF but most believe it’s actually Liela! Post disappears sadly so was unable to read myself.
Liela posts new GF’s account for followers to report and block.

Start of July! Sister chimes in. Very upset at the comments being made. Calls everyone jealous (lol) and mean girls.
Sister references post from ‘Ever’s Fathers new girlfriend’ as only seen that day by Liela however timeline doesn’t add up as it was deleted several days earlier as was against Gomi guidelines. Hmmmmm.
Comments about a lot of drinking which is odd when Liela is allergic to alcohol as per above post regarding lockdown musings.
Liela updates Instagram to say she is a ‘stylist’.
On a live speculates that new GF is on drugs.
Mentions of mediation.
Leila buys Ever a $700 necklace.

LOL someone suggests the book Liela is writing should be named ‘Struggles with the comma’
(I also apologise for my grammar and spelling on this post).

She is half way through writing her book (did this book ever happen?)
New business called Ever the Label. Seems to have taken the idea from a friend Sian however Liela is selling items from last years Target and saying they are ‘vintage’.
July 19th 2017 - Liela is stressed and is going offline for a week, long post about when she will respond to emergency support messages, no mention of who to contact instead like a mental health support line of course
Birthing video has been removed.
July 20th 2017 - she’s back online! Digital detox lasted one day
Ever the Label has been changed to Ever the After. No website, just an Instagram account charging $20 shipping and no T’s and C’s. Much professional.

July 23rd 2017 - one blogger is sick to death of Leila saying ‘pieces’ which has given me a giggle as it’s 2022 and nothing has changed!

July 26th 2017 - Mentioned in live she will not talk about Ex anymore so don’t ask questions everyone!

July 28th 2017 - new live slagging off Ex and his new GF.

July 31st - Gave Ever pain stop for her teething which is not recommended for kids under 2 (Ever has just turned 1).

That’s two months in the life of 2017 Liela and I’m only 33 pages in of 614. What a wild ride!

Mind blowing how little has changed since then.

 

[J0J0]

No no no, I stupidly thought Tarah would wait a hot minute before introducing her daughter to yet another man Now she’s making him her ‘dad’. Ever already HAS a dad. Stop romanticising the nuclear family, it’s disgusting.

 

[Freya10]

Oh boy to have stumbled upon this I thought I'd do a quick google search and this is the first thing that comes up. I know her from the wild went to school with her she was exactly as you would imagine. If you looked in her direction she'd try and fight you she eventually got bashed which I think she's tried to get sympathy for her story was she was sticking up for a disabled kid pretty sure it would of been her doing the bullying it's where she gets her hate for our first nations people so I find it odd during the BLM movement she was very anti and now she talks about the indigenous with such empathy please bitch we know that's not in your DNA. From my experience with mental illness I'm pretty certain she has border line personality disorder she fits every criteria it's very similar to narcissistic personality but a bit more chaotic and very unhinged. I'm just so glad I'm not alone in thinking she's the biggest liar I still live close to her and I know no one likes her around here also her rent is $630 a week I was on the hunt at the same time she posted the real estate pics how she affords it can only be fraud

 

[Justbeige]

I 'done' a recap but it hasn't posted. Does admin have to check it before it's posted? Because it was golde!



I just posted above. I think it's on another thread. But if anyone wants to add anything else go for it.

 

[DaisyNZ]

2021


2nd Jan 2021 - After leaving a message saying breaking up via social media was ‘so Leila’ Brad has been blocked! From Christmas photos with Santa to a social media break up. A sad turn of events for Watto.

Sister has also deleted all photos of the ‘love of her life’ from her feed.

Mama Watto leaves a heart emoji on Liela’s post.

3rd Jan 2021 - account seems to have disappeared with no posts showing? A follower comments on her other page saying ‘where is your other account’ and Liela replies ‘I’ve decided that’s not for me anymore’. Only one follower has asked.

9th Jan 2021 - throws Q&A on her photography page while answering own questions and throwing shade at photographers who do newborn sessions. She’s going to start mentoring!

10th Jan 2021 - Goodbye to this space post is made. Liela is leaving Instagram! Posts with Brad have been deleted. Speculation Brad has asked her to step back from Instagram and posting so much.

New bio on photography page ‘an intrigue of imperfect moments through letters and lense’ for a photographer she cannot spell her equipment pieces very well.

Renames her account.

Changes spelling of lense.

Ever the After account is back up and running after she claimed account was hacked and that was the reason she couldn’t access DMs to sort out refunds for ‘pieces’ never received or damaged! How amazing!

13th Jan 2021 - now has three accounts. Fully booked for birth photography for the year even though people giving birth in October won’t have conceived yet.

22nd Jan 2021 - manifesting has paid off! She’s moving by the sea!

27th Jan 2021 - sister confirms she was dumped before Christmas but now back together and stronger than ever!

Liela says ‘how sad my daughter is growing up in a world where filters and fillers are normal’ to a screen while using a filter and a face full of filler.
She hasn’t had fillers since LAST YEAR! She now only uses Gua sha.

30th Jan 2021 - makes podcast about ‘why I walked away from a life online’ but has been on Instagram and Tiktok all day.

Followers call her out for her apparent use of fillers and Botox.

1st February 2021 - it’s filter free February! Posts new profile picture with filter then quickly changes when called out.

Liela reposts five women and a sister who have jumped on the bandwagon! Blasts a commenter who doesn’t believe she doesn’t have fillers. Tells her she’s low vibration.

2nd February 2021 - posts that she’s no longer single. Has taken down seaside photo and no longer mentioning moving into her ‘expensive home’.

Is back with Brad. Word vomit on ‘loving gently’.

7th February 2021 - changing Evers school when she moves so Ever will have been at school one month before she has to change.

15th February 2021 - not with Brad anymore. Is clairvoyant. Has Q&A and clearly wrote the questions herself.

21st February 2021 - moves to new place and Mum has moved to hospice.

24th February 2021 - proud that Ever isn’t attached to her. Doesn’t seem to understand that’s a trauma response.

Social media break is clearly well and truly over. Back to posting personal content.

2nd March 2021 - straight back into filters.

Follower count is dropping.
Calls herself the most authentic person on Instagram.
Says she wants to date someone who ‘isn’t threatened by this community’.

7th March 2021 - appears to be out with a man with Ever in tow.

10th March 2021 - holds live about the PC brigade in regards to her recent post about transgender.

Writes another love letter to Ever ‘see him for who he is now not who he wants to be’. Much projection and little thought that Ever may be gay when older?

20th March 2021 - a new business is here! Posters are guessing jewellery by the trinklets she is wearing. One user searches AliExpress and found the necklace pendant she’s wearing for 37c for 20.

21st March 2021 - calls Melissa from MAFS a doormat and laughs about her.
Deletes comment from follower asking if she designs her jewellery.
Posts preview of jewellery on her personal page but not the jewellery Instagram page?

Posters have found all the ‘designs’ on AliExpress with links.

29th March 2021 - more anti Vax rants.
Older half sister commenting in support.
Concerned about blood clots but has boob job, Botox and fillers galore.

31st March 2021 - has lost a large amount of followers.
Gives Ever a vaccine of two cloves of garlic each night. Posters remember how Liela would dose Ever with pain stop to force her to sleep as a one year old.

Abusing anyone who comments with a different view to her however says she wants to ‘open up the conversation with integrity’

Garlic cloves must work well as she is sick again.
Talking about how Ryan’s Rule again.
Blames sugar for cancer but as followers point out Ever’s lunchbox is full of sugar. Angry responses to these comments.

Says modern medicine nearly killed her mother.
Snarks to a follower that she has a university degree.
Says she’s a qualified doula even though in Australia there is no certification for this.

Calls a business owner stupid for querying which freedoms Liela is losing and the business owner responds with saying it’s stupid to bring so many men into Evers life.

One poster contacts the business owner who received dozens of messages of support and two orders from the above comment.

Says her inbox is blowing up about her jewellery but only 8 comments on post.

6th April 2021 - called an elderly lady a c in front of her daughter at Coles.

Is angry at anyone asking where her research is from.

Launches more pieces which are quickly found on AiExpress.
She announces the ‘pieces are locally sourced’.
Deletes comments that ask if the pieces are made in Australia.

14th April 2021 - one poster is wondering what happened to the photography as Le Mama is no longer a registered business as of March 2021 and Liela was fully booked for all of 2021 with birth shoots?

First time she has been spotted at a park with Ever.

Says her fake pearl ring has healing properties. One user finds this on Ali Express for $3.60

Comments are deleted that mention her ‘pieces’ are from Ali Express.

17th April 2021 - visited a supplier in Byron but didn’t post them?

Flower ring is $4.02 on AliExpress.

17th April 2021 - she has a stalker again! Is contacting the police in regards to defamation! Was on the phone to her lawyer on Saturday night!

Has live about accountability and that her stalker has crazy eyes. Has not confirmed the process for her jewellery.

Is waiting for the trolls IT equipment to be subpoenaed…okaaaaay that’s not how that works.

But it’s okay! She’s ‘actually so protected by witches it’s not even funny!’


18th April 2021 - New live and comparing herself to Charlotte Dawson.

20th April 2021 - new hexagon moonstone cubic zirconia ring is on AliExpress. But Liela just ‘curated’ it?

Someone asked her in the live if she would show the behind the scenes and she said yes but the tools are bright yellow and gross. Each piece takes about twenty minutes to make!

Says she had an all day shoot and then later that she was there 11am - 1.30pm. 80 people in live.

New Botox lumps in face but she just uses gua sha and drinking more water!

Posts that she wishes Ever was born into a family.

April 21st 2021 - ever having huge tantrum in background of live and Liela says to ‘ignore her’.

New bracelet is on Alibaba for 1cent (yes one cent)

Gearing up for Liela’s full moon blessing soft moon launch.

April 27th 2021 - has dislocated knee again? (Remember the dislocated hip?) but later at the beach so must be okay!

Deleted latest sweary reel.

Next day is at the gym! Dislocated knee is fine again!

1st May 2021 - posts about climbing the corporate ladder, running into new destinations once the plane door opened…
Asking herself questions in the Q and A again.

2nd May 2021 - goes on a rant about suggestions she has sourced ‘pieces’ from China. Refutes these claims! Accuses everyone of tearing her down and the high quality pieces she puts her name on! Then uses the same stock image from AliExpress for her piece ‘flower ring’.

Why is everyone picking on her when larger companies import jewellery all the time? (So, admitting she imports jewellery and it’s not Australian made like she first said?)
Two weeks ago she designed ‘all the pieces’ and the new narrative is ‘importer and curator’.

The e is Golde is an ode to Ever.

5 stores will have her ‘pieces as wholesale!’ Making jewellery in bed. Pulled little crystal pendant out of small plastic bag.

Posts quote about love ‘I missed the boat somewhere between late nights and long work days’

Posts bridal earrings that cost .55c - $1.51 on AliExpress.

No Ever in Mothers Day stories. May be at Dads similar to other years.


14th May 2021 - long post about how she’s curated her life so she can be at events at school while filming the kids at school (against school policy to protect any children with protection orders etc)

Writes many questions to her own Q&A box including how she was seen out ‘looking smitten’.

One poster asks Liela if she asks herself questions and was blocked immediately.

20th May 2021 - started on the website and the launch is in six days!

Kellie Howard posts photos and Liela looks very different from the images she posts herself.

26th May 2021 - Golde launch party day! Under an Aries Full Moon! During live focused on talking about her ‘haters’ more than the support from friends and family.

Blue blocking glasses are on website for $79 with exact pair on AliExpress for $3.

Yikes, one poster confirms that it’s an eclipse moon and one should never charge crystals or do rituals under an eclipse moon. Super moon energy is chaotic and invites in the negative so sounds almost perfect for Liela though! Chaotic is her middle name!

Launch includes 8-10 of her friends having dinner with her jewellery on A4 cardboard. 32 people joined the launch live via Instagram.

Hot tip! Screenshot any of her ‘pieces’ and download the Ali express app. Via the camera logo on the app upload the screenshot and you’ll see the SAME piece without the 800% mark up!

‘So many of you have asked if I’m seeing someone……’

Has spelt incense as incence on website.

2nd June 2021 - new live with 20 viewers! She is going to tell everyone how to start their own business!

She is SO TIRED from packaging orders.

Babybird necklace is on AliExpress for $8, Golde website $79.

9th June 2021 - now has a social media assistant to run her page as she’s so busy! Her name is Georgia! She packs late into the night and gets up at 5am for the orders that come through overnight.

Someone in the live asks if the book she’s reading is as cheap as Alibaba jewellery. Lol.

11th June 2021 - first sale! After two weeks!

15th June 2021 - Evers birthday and it’s all about Liela. She’s parented solo for five years with no child support! The fun day included a photo shoot on the beach and a coles mud cake without candles. Liela also got a facial, blow dry and eyelashes done in the AM before the photo shoot.

Long word vomit about how much she loves Ever then quickly leaves her to go out partying with friends.

Note that Dad was at ‘party’ and Ever seemed to want to be close to him throughout.


16th June 2021 - mother who won giveaway for a photo shoot has asked about her prize. Comment quickly deleted.

Sister is now posting twenty odd stories a day droning into the camera about nothing much.

29th June 2021 - plandemic instagram lives. People have been ‘sucking the tit of the government’ but not you of course Liela, never you with Centrelink payments.
Talked about ‘sheeple’.
Says she is not white.
Liela now specialises in teaching autistic children.
Deleting comments asking for info about her ‘research’.
Half sister and Liela arguing with followers in the posts (whole family is cooked).
Now speaking about indigenous health matters.
Has lost 200 followers in the last hour.
Liela says the doctors looking after her Mum were so incompetent she had to do their job for them.
Deletes all comments on post.

30th June 2021 - now Liela is getting death threats! No evidence of them however for someone who loves to share screen shots.

1st July 2021 - social media break time! Right on cue.

Several users have been blocked for liking other people’s comments. Liela likes to live in an echo chamber it seems!

‘Georgia’ posted saying people were asking where ‘our’ boss lady’s yoga mat is from! Strangely there is no Georgia following Golde and vice versa. Also the workforce has expanded!

7th July 2021 - getting racism hate mail but again, no evidence of this? Leaves names and pictures in messages questioning her information and then one nasty one crops to remove all info? Clearly from oneself.

15th July 2021 - Ever has a business now!

Liela asks people to argue with her, pretending she is capable of an intelligent ‘debate’.

She is a few thousand followers down.

A user screenshot the vaccine surveys - 90% were pro vaccine. Liela quickly deleted the polls.

19th July 2021 - has live telling followers to ‘wake up’ has live with half sister about great reset.

21st July 2021 - another lap around the sun for Liela. 23 comments from 37k followers! Shared posts from older sister but no one else seemed to post.

Two days later there are 100 comments on Liela’s latest post calling out her hypocrisy, bad parenting, Alibaba jewellery….

Gomi thread was locked for two weeks.

13th August 2021 - Liela is now a business coach!
Adds Advocate and truth seeker to bio.
Liela won’t date someone vaccinated.
Ever is being home schooled.

15th August 2021 - they’re moving to NSW. When asked about Evers Dad became very aggressive and said the arrangements stay the same.

20th August 2021 - now theleilarae. Has moved house and speaking as though she bought it but is a rental. Talks about being in a quiet country area but every photo shows houses in very close proximity.

21st August 2021 - takes Ever to protest who looks scared. During a live says that she has received an email asking to promote the vaccine and ‘all influencers have’ when asked to show it, ends the live.

24th August 2021 - encourages followers to make large reservations at restaurants and then cancel them at the last minute because of the vaccine passports. Yells at Ever in live.

25th August 2021 - another day, another live. Tells Ever off because she hasn’t gone to watch TV. Then complains about how hard parenting in lockdown is. Compares quarantine facilities to concentration camps.

Liela has changed her username 27 times since 2017.

29th August 2021 - one Gomi poster was reading through the Single Mum Diaries Facebook group and noticed a comment where Liela said she had a bad reaction to a vaccine before. How interesting we haven’t heard of this throughout 2020/2021?

Many users have blocked her now due to the constant sharing of information with zero credible sources.

31st August 2021 - New post about being left pregnant (who knew?)

Has started a ‘masterclass’ where Liela will coach women to be just like her! Inspirational! The manifesting course is $888! Angel numbers!

3rd September 2021 - posts that the weight of the world is making her tummy sick and then in stories says she has a tummy bug. Okay.

4th September 2021 - goes out drinking.

6th September 2021 - has live with two anti vax ‘influencers’ but seems intimidated by them and doesn’t say much other than ‘there are two sides to science’.

Films herself meditating while holding the phone up with her hand. So zen.

Says that Golde is going so well she doesn’t even need to do marketing for it! $10k months apparently!

16th September 2021 - posts a video of a grieving mother and open coffin followed by a close up of her breasts.

Despite saying Ever wasn’t going to school and then was going to be ‘unschooled’ now Ever is off to school!

Changes her bio to remove ‘freedom fighter’.

21st September 2021 - new live which no one can decipher sadly as Liela appears to be intoxicated.

Drops Ever to her sisters before the borders to Queensland close for 7 days

28th September 2021 - has spend two days of the school holidays with Ever.
Makes account private.

11th October 2021 - has angry live about freedom day qnd pronouns in bio.

Apparently a woman in Smiggle had a go at her?

5th November 2021 - Liela’s Mum has an adverse reaction to the vaccine.

8th November 2021 - starts a GoFundMe.

11th November 2021 - tattle page is created.

16th November 2021 - says the vaccine injured are taking up all the spaces in mental health wards, nurses were whispering to her in the corridors that she’s put her life on hold for her Mum. Mother is going to nursing home.

22nd November 2021 - takes money from GoFundMe account.

10th December 2021 - is selling Sparkle Girl and there’s so much interest!

19th December 2021 - posts that Mums health is declining rapidly and sister and herself have to clear out her apartment.

22nd November 2021 - says depression is a phase. Posts that her Mum is in a ‘mental institution’ for her vaccine injury.

6th December 2021 - has launched a ‘divine mission statement workbook’ it involves soul contracts! It allows you to be magnetic!

8th December 2021 - tells story that Nursing home Manager is bullying her Mum into getting second vaccination.

Sister posts story of her Mother who looks healthy and not ‘declining rapidly’ as Liela claims.

10th December 2021 - big post about ‘bringing the fury’ and feminine energy against vaccines. Rise up! Lions!

Is selling SparkleGirl.

12th December 2021 - spoke to the manager of her Mums nursing home who promises not to bully anyone again! She’s now informed with Liela’s wisdom!

Medical professional says they see similarities of Cluster B personality.

Liela posts about her daily manifesto and being of service. Posters remember Liela’s kindness fondly including:

Last month badmouthing a fish and chip owner for not serving her and told followers to make fake orders and not pick them up.
Yelling at a charity shop volunteer about fake flowers.
Abusing hospital staff.

20th December 2021 - deleted all posts and has now changed her personal page into Golde Jewels! Has decided since the ‘relentless’ trolling she’s received that she will now only post about business matters. No Ever, no personal life, just bUsInEsS now! Her safety is at risk! Psychologists are worried for her safety!

Our of 36k followers only 32 people like her first post.

28th December 2021 - ‘she will be back’ posters say. Another year finishes with an account delete and rebrand, no relationship breakdown for Christmas 2021 though unlike the past three years.

Where is Georgia?
Where is the GoFundMe money?

https://m.aliexpress.com/item/33060002042.html?spm=a2g0n.productlist.0.0.7b3861ferPBXfU&browser_id=227fec7558214539a3716b97aaa74818&aff_trace_key=66cc4de8e6f1480cb0a9ac23c76f9563-1621570149034-00171-7M7IEmQnY&aff_platform=msite&m_page_id=nrp3gbjwlkycaq7j17aaca0321677067d1e157111a&gclid=&_imgsrc_=ae01.alicdn.com%2Fkf%2FHTB1uPXjXNn1gK0jSZKPq6xvUXXaK.jpg_640x640Q90.jpg

 

[shortpoppysyndrome]

No no no, I stupidly thought Tarah would wait a hot minute before introducing her daughter to yet another man Now she’s making him her ‘dad’. Ever already HAS a dad. Stop romanticising the nuclear family, it’s disgusting. View attachment 1241208

Another one to file in the things ever did not say folder. Although I am sure this lie line has been rolled out with all the previous “lovers” so maybe ever did say it, she’s figured out how to play the game to get her mother’s attention/affection.

 

[GeorgieBox]

Gosh I knew she'd do it but it's pretty much the same narrative as last time. I wish someone had screenshots of when she declared her love for all those previous men. Poor Ever we know she didn't say that it's another one to put in the vault. I'm sure she played out those same thing with Watto. Those pics of her I'm not body shaming but she's huge. The new guy looks creepy to me something about him that screams stage 5 clinger so we'll see how this goes. Living near her I've never seen this guy around could possibly be new to town or even foreign he gives those vibes of intense European lover

Did someone say screenshots? I think the point is not shaming someone for having a partner or finding a new relationship but her language around all these guys is the same. She’s desperate to have the family unit and just inserts any guy in there with the over familiarity and love bombing. Her desperation to write and curate her life like a beige Instagram grid is transparent. She can’t just date a guy, it’s all “it was you” / stars aligned and rom com language. Poor Ever.

 

[aussieanonforlyf]

“The government is corrupt”. I’m not sure that is what anyone is saying. Most of the charmingly referred to ‘feminazis’ (much love and light is our Tarah) are far more educated than she will ever in a million billion years be. Does she realise the Supreme Court in the USA is a different country. Also, that is is not actually a branch of the government? That this decision on Roe v Wade, if it comes down, will be a fundemental shift in the way human rights are treated in the USA and the precedent it sets has the potential of a flow on effect for decades to come? That same sex marriage, indeed the right to BE homosexual could be under threat within years in many states in America? Yeah - just like the horrific people who asked you to take a safe and tested vaccine to protect yourself and your vulnerable community. To help not kill more than the 3000 people that have already died in Australia.

lei-lei- you are a dreadful human being. You are also just the stupidest person on the internet. I don’t even feel any anger to you anymore as no one is listening bar us lot - and we do it for the entertainment. Sideshow Leila!

 

[WellAndWealthyBossBabe]

Hey guuuuuuuyyyyyyyssssss, all of you have been asking why I’m moving on from my highly successful concept store GOLDÈ when it’s made me soooooooo much money in the 5 seconds I have owned it and been the biggest boss babe, feminine warrior you have ever known. I paid my rent with that amazing income! It meant I could rent a house is a regional town! Boss Babe Vibes!! Well the truth is, transparency always, I have seen another business model that I would like to copy, to…you know, feel more aligned with and that has better energetix. It’s someone else’s idea but I think I can copy it and put it out there in a much lower quality way. Currently thinking of a new name for it…something tizzy, something piss elegant.

 

[skinnypiccolo]

It’s been a minute.
Even her content is predictable and beige! I give Dion 8 weeks max, there will be love bombing, inappropriate shots of Ever, more shots of Dion, I’m a warrior princess hear me roar, biznezzz is soooo good you guyz, I’m booked out but I’ll make a special allowance for struggling mums left pregnant, omg I might be pregnant, we lost our baby, Dion didn’t serve me, he doesn’t have enough toxic masculinity for me. Feet, bizness, beige. Rinse and repeat.

 

[emmygluewho]

I think Ever’s reaction to the cameras is a result of Leila’s monetising of her. She thinks that is what she has to do as that is what she has been required to do in the past.

I also think that commenting on Tarah’s weight or appearance eg “pig snout” is not cool. There is SO MUCH else to snark on: her parenting, her woo messages, her general inability to sustain a persona etc

I disagree.

She posts an image that is completely incorrect?! Tells Women to find their inner fire and confidence blah blah blah.

Has 'Filter Free February' blasts people for using filters and BOOM using them.

Annnnnd it's all bullshit. She is a lying deceitful mole. With shit teeth and a fat ass.

Her scamming dogshit personality is the cherry on top.

 

[throwawayorwillistay]

Blink twice if you need help, Noah.

 

[J0J0]

The filter dropped out
No wonder she always looks different in the wild.

 

[DaisyNZ]

2018 recap

TW - miscarriage and child abuse

The year starts off quiet for Liela. Other than sharing her vision board of her dream wedding and posting many sponsored vacuum cleaner posts it’s all relatively calm.

Content sounds pretty dull including how to wipe down a table and how to use bath salts. Snooze.

Regular trips for botox, filler, fresh nails while complaining about having ‘no time to herself’ as she’s always looking after Ever. Being a single Mum is HARD and it’s so expensive!

Liela announces that Ever the After is done in March as it was ‘too much work’ and ‘no longer fun’.

Side note - my computer crashed and I lost the page so I cannot confirm the timeline however Ever became very unwell due to a septic infection from a cut on her foot. After being in hospital Liela then films Ever dance barefoot in a dirty bar in Byron Bay less than a week later and dumps Ever to go to ‘work function’ the night after she comes out of hospital.

May 15th 2018 - held a live on the topic of ‘happiness’. During this live:

Said to Ever who was ‘interrupting her’ - ‘do you want smacks?’
Said ‘toddlers, I wish I could punch them in the face and it was legal’
‘The other day in the shops I wanted to KO her, I never would though’.
Starts yelling during live at a commenter who told her to cuddle Ever as she just wants some love and then called them a f*ckwit.
Said ‘I just hate it when she touches me past 7pm, this is my time’.
She also disclosed she is no longer friends with any of her previous girlfriends/housemate because they are fake, negative b*tches.
Ever touched her hand and she aggressively shoved her off and said ‘stop touching me please’.

This live was held in Evers room when Ever is meant to be sleeping so of course Ever is wondering what’s she’s doing and interested in her Mum chatting into her phone?!

Sad that people in live were encouraging her by saying she’s a great mother and they also hit their children. Actual WTF?!

Much talk about this live and concern for Ever. It sounds dreadful and very heart breaking.

Liela was aggressive to anyone commenting on her behaviour and told them ‘why don’t you f*cking come and look after her if you have so many opinions, I wish you could’.

Several teachers expressing great concern at what they witnessed.

May 16th 2018 - Leila sets account to private after talking about bullies.

May 17th 2018 - sets account back to public.

May 23rd 2018 - films herself driving down winding roads with Ever in back of vehicle.

May 26th 2018 - Ever is with sister again (this has been very frequent throughout 2018). Sister seems to have Ever at least once a week and many comments on how happy Ever looks with her cousins compared to having a sad wee face when with her Mum

She’s posting various men in the background of images however hasn’t seemed to manifested a long term boyfriend.

May 28th 2018 - Liela announced she is having a miscarriage. She was pregnant to someone she has been spending time with for a few months.

Much confusion about this as Liela was drinking and partying in Brisbane two nights earlier on Instagram.

Liela announces that she doesn’t believe in contraception and was using an ‘app’ then later she is allergic to latex but ignores mentions of latex free condoms.

May 29th 2018 - Liela is drinking wine and swimming in hotel pool (I think she is in Byron Bay not clear on this).

Coincidentally her ex bestie Carly just gave birth to her second child over the weekend.

Tells followers her Mum had to take Ever so she could miscarry privately however is posting about it all over social media.

Apparently the guy is an old friend and of the situation leads to a relationship it would be great but if not she is soooooooo fine with it too because she’s super chill. Lol.

Confusion around conflicting stories from Liela including three days earlier talking about hitting clubs, videos of drinking and partying two days earlier and six days earlier talking about the next time she gets pregnant. Also confusion around miscarrying while in a pool as tampons are not to be worn during miscarrying due to the increased risk of TSS. Also wearing white shorts and earlier a white skirt which is an interesting clothing decision.

Holds live, says she had pregnancy symptoms so took test with sister (six weeks earlier). At scan foetus wasn’t found and then when bloods were drawn her levels were dropping.

June 1st 2018 - hold another live to answer questions. When asked if she knew she was pregnant when she went out drinking she said yes without hesitation. Confirms she would have terminated this pregnancy. She is grateful for the miscarriage.

Confirms she has been pregnant four times with two terminations and one miscarriage.

Is going out this weekend to celebrate with sister and friend who is ten years younger than her.

Has donated eggs previously apparently.


Timeline of the last week:

Fri/Sat - out in Brisbane partying.

Mon - Fri - miscarrying while partying and relaxing in hotel pool with wine and needing endone.

Fri - no longer needs endone and time to celebrate!

(Unsure what endone is my apologies so may be abbreviated for something else?)

June 8th 2018 - is now a model! Plenty of shopping, facials and threading. Off on a business trip and flashes new man even though he’s requested privacy.

June 9th 2018 - sisters kids all have gastro but Liela still drops Ever off for child care. One of the children is so unwell they had to go on drip in hospital. Sister is a trooper and just gets on with it.

June 10th 2018 - Ever has gastro.

June 12th 2018 - during live promoting ASN she tells followers to ‘DM her for which products are best for depression or weight loss’.

June 14th 2018 - posts birthing video montage including close up vagina/crowning shots for Evers birthday. Liela made montage including many shots of Evers Dad. Ever looked happy which is the main thing.

June 26th 2018 - Evers Dad is back in the picture.

July 2018 - Liela and her sister are going to renovate campervans!

Things seem to settle down and it’s ground hog day of facials, fillers, it’s hard being a single Mum, $600 lamps and washing machine breakdowns. Ever is having sleep issues and Liela is frequently locking her in her room while she screams.

August 9th 2018 - while on a live in the afternoon Liela threatens to belt her 2 year old and shut her out of the house. Tells everyone she wants to punch her in the face and ‘if you were a single mother you wouldn’t judge’.

Tries to justify her rage because she hasn’t slept in ‘months’.

August 10th 2018 - new day, new live. Announces she never wanted to be a Mum. She hates being a Mum. Regrets it and misses her old life as she’s done so much she could write a book. She was hit with straps and thongs as a kid and she turned out okay (that’s clearly very debatable) so she will keep hitting Ever.

Announces they are calling their van refurbishing company ‘Tallow’ like, beef fat?

August 12th 2018 - writes post about ‘Mom shaming’ and justifies her desire to throat punch Ever. Says ‘you parent how you were parented’.

Side note - My heart breaks for Ever and I despise Liela more than previously which I did not think was possible. This is so seriously f#caked up. I have no words.

New live on sleep tips! They include:

Homeopathic melatonin
Doterra oils!
Chiropractor



August 15th 2018 - has adopted a cat which pees all over her bed as he is not desexed. I have to wonder…where is he now?! Where is the rabbit? What does she do with these animals?

August 26th 2018 - after much backlash and limiting comments on her posts Liela is now acting like a sweet, soft, spiritual mother. Has joined dating site.

September 2nd 2018 - Neighbour was involved in DV and Liela ran next door to tell the guy to leave. What a hero!

It’s Fathers Day (September 2nd 2018) and suddenly Liela has a family emergency!

Later that evening holds a live and it turns out she got a business loan for her car under her old business name ($10k) and the repayments for the car have now added up to $30k and the broker is saying they will take the car back. Strange this is all happening on a Sunday however apparently often debt collectors will turn up on the weekend of their notices and phone calls are ignored as better chance of people being home.

September 10th 2018 - three lives throughout the day about a man she was seeing who was been cheating on her. Apparently they have been on again/off again for several years? Internet sleuths found his account and it’s very clear he was with another woman as many photos posted of them together. (This is a different man from the recent miscarriage I think but unsure?) clearly Liela would have known he was dating this other woman all along. Calls her a ‘hoe’ and ‘ugly’ and ‘desperate’.

Starts to speak about a man in Sydney who is hot but married.

Mentions her Mum dates a ‘phile’ when she was a young teenager and it makes her wary of men.

September 13th 2018 - Liela’s bad moods continue as she posted a story wiping marmite off her bar stools while Evers face is bright red from crying.

September 19th 2018 - in a live Liela tells followers she has colour induced anxiety and has been given Valium and stillnox which she has stashed around the house.

She says that ‘if you haven’t called your kid an asshole or threatened violence then you’re lying’ and she hates parents that don’t admit that they do, because everyone does apparently. One follower commented that she wanted to slap her daughter the day prior. (Seriously WTF). She locks Ever in her room when she’s naughty and lets her scream.

Apparently stillnox isn’t prescribed to people with children as it’s a heavy duty sedative.


September 25th 2018 - a psychic has told her she will be the next Bachelorette!

September 27th 2018 - films Ever sobbing with a hoarse voice. Liela says she is ‘so tired and exhausted’ and then posts photo with an overflow of breasts.

September 30th 2018 - in live tells Ever to leave her alone.

October 3rd 2018 - a new dog has appeared and previous dog seems to have disappeared?

October 5th 2018 - declares in live that she will always be one of the women to uplift others and sprinkle love and reassurance…..then starts talking about sl*ts and jealous cows. Lol

Sister has Ever again and many mentions of how happy Ever looks when she is in sisters care.

October 10th 2018 - rescue dog has diarrhoea poor thing. (Will be from stress of a new environment). Sister has Ever again. Follower asks if Ever is okay with new big dog and Liela appears not to have thought about that and says she’s fiiiiiiiiine! She has had the dog a few days and it won’t hurt Ever.

Same day but now she may have a new man!

Sister is minding Ever weekly.

Liela wants a three day a week job.


October 12th 2018 - sister has Ever again and appears exhausted. Liela is flashing new man on the gram.

New man introduced to Ever and is tickling her.

Mentions of last BF filmed in bed with Ever.

Discussion around low engagement on posts.

October 15th 2018 - Liela posts about infant loss and then domestic violence as she is a survivor of this.


October 16th 2018 - an account called Daddy Fashion Stylists has been calling out fake mommy bloggers over the past few days and now has posted a video of Liela. She is going off in his comments and he has shut her down. Liela hasn’t responded but is encouraging her fan girls to attack.

Video sounds hilarious! Was a video of her previous live when she says ‘and for those who said where was I when Ever was asking for cuddles…well where the f#CK were your kids’ and then it cut to a rap of ‘where the f*CK were your kids’ and then slowed right down. I wish this still existed?

Liela heavily critiqued for leaving her child screaming and crying by followers of Daddy Fashion Stylist and her own followers.

October 19th 2018 - films Ever hitting the foster dog with a stick. Left Ever with the dog and dog bit her. Ever is crying but Liela continues live.

October 20th 2018 - has left Ever with new man.

Deactivates Instagram account that evening.

October 21st 2018 - reactivates account and is filming herself with new man and his kids.

Later that night does live. Ever isn’t sleeping so she went away and locked her in her room.

Says she has a new job as content creator but does not specify who with.

October 25th 2018 - somehow scores new jaguar? Films herself in car singing along to rap music with the n word.
DFS reposts story where Liela raps the n word.

New man is called Dan. Posting videos of them in bed.

October 27th 2018 - Posts story about her Mother having cancer.

November 1st 2018 - films Ever hitting her and telling her to ‘go away’.

November 17th 2018 - posts new boyfriends kids in paid sponsored posts.

Someone asks about her book! Apparently she was half way through when her computer died and she lost it ALL! It can’t be retrieved.

Turns out Jag was a test drive. Now loaning an Audi.

December 8th 2018 - shares photo of boyfriend naked on bathroom floor while intoxicated.

December 15th 2018 - complains about BF’s children.

December 25th 2018 - shares Christmas Eve with BF and kids.

December 31st 2018 - deletes all photos of BF. No longer following each other on Instagram.

Happy 2019! Will touch on early NY in regards to break up and make new recap for full year.

1st January - evening live. Dan ‘wasn’t her person, it didn’t feel right, I’m looking for my forever’. They had been together 7 months.

Timeline doesn’t quite fit as she posted in October about having seen him for ‘a few weeks’.

One user has found her Pinterest board. 690 pins for wedding board and Mamalife board has 2 pins.

January 4th 2019 - is launching her own make up line!

 

[DaisyNZ]

Saving this little fake gem for the 2022 recap

 

[So many of you have asked]

Right! Now she ‘rarely drinks’ and is allergic to alcohol. Yet 3 weeks ago she was saying she keeps hunting down the coasts best amaretto sours. Make up your mind Lie-la

Yep…Must of also been hard walking around and going on some of those rides when you have a degenerative back condition and a hip/knee that’s prone to dislocating

 

[Slaykay]

I feel like shits about to get good, Leilani running on endorphins and thinks she’s king shit so is back on the holy than thou ant vac bullshit. These wellness warriors are insufferable the mandates aren’t being squashed because the vacc doesn’t work or because “you won”. It’s because majority of the population went and did the right thing and thought about others.
Shes firing in all cylinders because her “man” “love of her life” is also anti vacc, it’s probably the only reason we haven’t seen bother men in awhile is they were vacc members of the community and not interested in this lounatic absolute dribble.
It’s interesting to see the swing back to photography, Devine mission statement obviously wasn’t bringing in those dollars. Apparently she does a lot of branding shoot’s she doesn’t doesn’t share .
She needs a bloody reality check she just seems to get more and more out of touch.

 

[timtams]

It’s also pretty common for kids in this situation to be confused and not really know how they’re feeling. So potentially she gets upset and says she doesn’t want to go but it’s the actual transition she finds hard, or Liela has told her that she is going to the beach and Ever doesn’t want to miss out, or she’s confused because she gets mixed messages from Liela in terms of whether she gets a warm loving response or a horrible abusive response, or she’s upset about other stuff that’s too hard to understand (eg being shipped around to 4 different schools by age 6, having a gaslighting mentally unwell mother, being introduced to millions of different “partners” etc) so she blames it on not wanting to go to dads because that’s a tangible thing and makes Liela give her some kind of response. It could be anything, children are still trying to make sense of the world and often will explain a strong emotion as being because of something that it actually has no relevance too. Especially when she’s been punished for having emotions as a very young child (locked in her room for being upset).


Any half decent child psych would’ve talked to her about this. I hope she really did see one for Ever’s sake, but I suspect it’s all part of Liela’s narrative of being a great parent.

I can 100% imagine Ever being a bit upset, and Liela being like “oh you don’t want to go to your dads, you don’t like going to daddy’s do you?” Etc. Rather than a more appropriate way like “You seem a bit upset. What’s happened to make you feel that way?” Or “I know you miss me when you’re at dads, I miss you too. Remember, you have fun at daddy’s too, and daddy loves you very much and loves spending time with you. How about when you get back we have some special time together drawing?”