@DaisyNZ I have a lot of screenies from the time her mum went to hospital in 2020 and how it escalated… to add to your impeccable recaps.
Thank you! I just wrapped up 2019 and thankfully it was a seemingly calmer year for Ever, mainly as she seemed to spend the majority of it at her sisters
2019 - New Year and I hope a new Liela as 2018 was a lot.
TW - sexual assault, DV.
4th January 2019 - announces that she is creating a make up line!
7th January 2019 - iLiela is heading off on a trip and very excited. Holds a two hour live where she says she loves co-parenting and having adventures with Ever as Mum and Dad. Says if she didn’t have Ever she would definitely be living in in a terrace in inner Sydney.
Many lives about being a single Mum and no one understanding how hard it is.
New live with tips about how to work from home. Hot tip! Be home before 2pm so you can reply to emails.
January 16th 2019 - posts photos of ex friends then did live chastising someone for posting photos from 2009 and mentioning they did drugs at that time. Said how irresponsible it is to share that to their followers then says ‘I spent my twenties high’.
January 18th 2019 - during live mentions Ever is away for the weekend and ‘she doesn’t miss her one bit’. Rants about mothers who call themselves solo Mums when their partners go away (she has been talking about this for around a week now by the thread, about someone called Lyree Kyree).
January 19th 2019 - talks about her make up line, one commenter recognises the primer she is saying she created as from another brand which is already developed.
January 23rd 2019 - announces she would like to live off the grid.
January 24th 2019 - posts about having no support from anyone when she went to hospital with gastro! She’s a single Mum! The photo she posts with this caption from hospital has her Mother in the background lol.
Turns out she called her sister at 1.30am who did indeed answer, race to her house and sat with her until the ambulance arrives so as usual had great support from her sister. Ever was already at her sisters that night also.
One commenter mentions that several weeks earlier Elle had a gallstone attack while Leila was doing a live. When a follower asked Leila if Elle was okay she snapped ‘she’s fine, she’s waiting for an ambulance and there’s nothing I can do anyway’.
Liela is starting a new business! When asked about campervan she says it’s in the garage unfinished but will sell it. Make up line no longer happening.
Liela is now saying she had a possible heart attack! As this can be confirmed with a blood test it appears to be untrue.
^^^this is all the same day.
January 29th 2019 - drinking mock tails and asking where the nicest maternity dresses are these days. Someone craving attention?
Wants to get breast implants removed.
January 31st 2019 - posting photos holding her stomach.
February 1st 2019 - posts a ‘I miss you’ post for Ever and says Ever uses the f bomb frequently. She loves Ever ‘wildley’
February 5th 2019 - starts podcast! No one has listened yet so no further details.
February 8th 2019 - Liela has cut finger! Says she is ‘bleeding out’. Screaming (but has time to set up a live about this accident) and says it’s SO HARD being a single Mum with no one to look after her when she hurts herself.
February 9th 2019 - says nasty things to a pregnant woman at the beach who found her dog when it ran away and blames it on the Moon. Laughs about how she called the unborn child terrible names. Very proud of her actions and repeatedly said she went into full crazy girl mode. Ever was there as well.
February 10th 2019 - during a live days she is not vibing with the toddler personality and they are clashing. She’s disinterested and disconnected from Ever at the moment as she isn’t getting enough sleep. She is irritated that Ever asks questions (Ever is two). Says she and Scott have the same ‘gentle’ approach to parenting and she hasn’t had ANY time for herself lately.
One commenter notes that she had the night to herself the weekend prior.
February 13th 2019 - Sister has Ever again.
Told followers she had booked a fancy Valentines Day lunch for her and Ever however no posts.
February 14th 2019 - She has a new business - maternity photography and dress hire! Seems to be following the same business venture as Coven and Co one follower notes.
February 19th 2019 - wants to go on MAFS. (If this happens I will send these notes to Megan Pusetto).
Says Ever has temperature of 43 degrees and has taken her to a cafe for lunch and the park for a milkshake. Liela says Ever had febrile convulsions during night.
Within an hour all mentions of Ever being unwell are deleted.
When followers comment on her posts she said ‘she can handle the temperature and convulsions due to her first aid training’.
February 24th 2019 - during live told Ever to ‘piss off’ five times.
Someone has listened to her podcast! It’s about being left pregnant! The next episode is going to be about ‘the rise’.
She asked fans to leave reviews and cried troll when she received a negative one.
February 26th 2019 - has the flu so is getting on a flight. She knows a man is staring at her, zooms in on him in the live but he’s very far away and not looking in her direction.
Ever told the taxi driver he smells like a poopey nappy which Liela thinks is hilarious.
Liela’s business now has a website and is a carbon copy of Coven and Co.
Has photo shoot in maternity dresses. By standers in the way of her images are photographed and slagged off on her stories. Photo shoot is at one of Sydney’s business cafes and tourist attractions but no one else is allowed there okay?!
More posts about being a single mother.
March 4th 2019 - Liela has the flu again so is off to read a book in a cafe and then is going shopping.
March 5th 2019 - in one of her stories Ever hits Liela. Liela calls her a b*tch. Story is deleted within 20 minutes when she is called out.
March 10th 2019 - says in a live when Ever has a ‘meltdown she locks her in her room and holds the door closed’.
March 11th 2019 - promotes herbs for a ‘calm parenting style like her’.
March 16th 2019 - a new low. Compares the Christchurch terror attack her to her own trolling.
March 18th 2019 - has a colonic and now can’t stop vomiting or doing number twos. Then posts an hour long ramble in a car park.
March 21st 2019 - declares she wants to be more ethnic with her cooking so adds parsley and a ton of crab meat to the fry pan.
Says she wants to take a step back from Instagram and then posts 40 stories and a long post about her daughters bad behaviour the next day.
March 22nd 2019 - Says doctor has discussed secondary infertility with her despite Liela recently becoming pregnant and miscarrying.
Later films Ever who is clearly distraught and crying while laughing at her.
March 24th 2019 - Liela fell over and dislocated her knee!
March 27th 2019 - proudly shares with her followers that she’s had another go at a stranger after they spoke to her for driving onto the footpath.
Has a live about another child hitting Ever at daycare. Says she wanted to go over and drop kick the boy but her sister held her back. She won’t socialise with low grade people anymore. The staff tried to calm her down as she caused a huge scene.
March 30th 2019 - has live as feels triggered that Ever won’t have a beautiful birthing video to watch when she’s older. Despite this, she’s amazed at what she has achieved even though she was left pregnant she has her dream kitchen table and Ever has a jools pram.
April 1st 2019 - Audi must have dropped her as an ambassador as she removed it from her profile description and untagged Audi centre GC in her latest post.
April 17th 2019 - posted a ten minute video of her new gifted mop while ever is in bath tub in another room.
Her foster dog has gone missing.
April 19th 2019 - blames Ever for forgetting her shoes and yells at her.
April 21st 2019 - Holds angry rage live. A follower commented that if Ever was vomiting she shouldn’t be at the shops as she’s infectious! Liela went off, called the person vile, revolting, disgusting and a d*ckhead. She’s a single mother and doesn’t have anyone to leave Ever with, she deals with trolls daily but the trolls are especially active at Easter (??!!) she doesn’t have time for this!
Trolls are contacting the businesses she’s working for. Be warned! She’s going to troll the trolls! What this entails is her going to their Facebook pages and writing mean comments about their children.
Seriously.
Deactivates Instagram.
April 21st 2019….later that night.
Activates Instagram again. Live on being alone, having no support (but mentions her sister picking up Ever when she wasn’t coping two nights earlier). Seemingly obsessed with talking about how her life would be easier in a partnership. Says she hasn’t had a night out for TWO YEARS! She has Ever every second of every day!
April 23rd 2019 - posts a full day of beauty treatments. Ever is not with her.
April 27th 2019 - deletes Instagram again.
Oh no, apparently she’s been hacked! Suddenly has 4000 new followers though?
Changes name from Ever the Daring to Leila Stead. Suddenly has a new logo. Says her PR company are onto it.
In latest post writes ‘this is me as a new mum circa 2015’ deletes comments from followers saying Ever was born in 2016?
Finally credited her sister for her photos. Says she will teach Elle all she knows but Elle was a photographer first!
May 10th 2019 - went to public bathroom and left Ever outside waiting for her.
May 18th 2019 - posts the birth video again.
A blur of ‘I’m a single mum and it’s hard work, I have no support’ posts.
June 16th 2019 - celebrates three years of motherhood with some drinks. She’s done it with NO SUPPORT, all by herself and deserves it! No friends seem to be at the party, just family.
June 20th 2019 - holds live, Ever is crying in the background. Says ‘she’s out there and I don’t have the energy for it. I don’t have the fuse for it. No one understands my life as a single mother’.
Ever came up to her during live and said ‘I love you Mummy’ Liela responds with ‘love you too, space would be nice’ and pushes her off.
Shortly angrily ends the live as someone comments that she is clearly triggered.
Back on live - someone has said something that has p*seed her off, no one understands how hard it is for a single mother. She says Evers Dad is not rich and she has no financial support and she’s going to move far away soon.
Later the same day the sisters unfollow each other.
Liela posts about comments Ever has made about death which sounds either very concerning or a complete fabrication.
June 21st 2019 - 6am photo shoot with newborn on the beach in the middle of winter. When McDonalds gets her order wrong Liela says ‘I hope this isn’t a sign that the newborn is going to be a d*ckhead’.
Fight with sister has been confirmed as Elle is going through a lot and took it out on Liela according to Liela.
June 24th 2019 - back following sister so must need a babysitter.
June 25th 2019 - sister is looking after Ever as Leila needs an extra night away from her. Friday to Tuesday.
July 3rd 2019 - held live as someone has stolen her identity and she has a Telstra account under her name. Ever is in background screaming and crying while banging something. Liela says she has locked herself in her room so she can ‘get this live done’.
Another live. Telstra called security on her and she was escorted out of the store. Ever was with her also. Was treated poorly as she’s a single mother.
July 5th 2019 - Tilly didn’t like cat so gave it away.
July 8th 2019 - visiting surgeon for removal of breast implants.
It’s Liela’s birthday soon and she wants a spa day, two parties and a ritual.
Liela has a woman’s circle (3 friends) where everyone has to say something nice about her for her birthday. So spiritual. Does not spend any part of her birthday with Ever.
July 26th 2019 - Liela has the flu again. Discusses the birth photography session she recently had and implies she was more helpful than medical staff.
In live days she was accused of calling an aboriginal girl the n word at school but she would never use that word because she’s Samoan. She then refused to go to ‘racist counselling’.
She says she is constantly being hassled in the street because she’s famous.
Says she once was bashed at school, said to ‘ask Elle’ and then quickly said ‘no, don’t’.
Sister still has Ever five days later.
August 1st 2019 - sister has Ever for a sleep over again.
Leila is now claiming that gluten causes schizophrenia and mental illness and she’s a better mother not eating bread. Then makes a big bowl of regular pasta for dinner but says as noodles are thinner it will be okay.
August 2nd 2019 - during live days she was a high risk mother and social workers would check on her every second day following a suicide attempt.
August 7th 2019 - was catfished by a man online and sent him nudes. He also asked for photos of Ever which she sent him. Says she was being ‘groomed’ in live. Compares her situation to rape victims and being raped.
August 8th 2019 - has accused friend who lived with her of stealing money from her and her clients. Turns out friend is also doing photography and was prior to Leila deciding it was her career so no actual money was stolen.
Announces in live that she was engaged previously.
August 12th 2019 - won’t be posting Ever much online as she was cat fished.
One hour later Ever is on her stories again wearing a full face of makeup.
August 26th 2019 - back to dating. Posts men's accounts from Tinder shaming them.
August 29th 2019 - had to send Ever to her sisters to deal with her Mums illness. No mention of how her Mum is, just poor Liela, poor poor Liela.
September 4th 2019 - sister is unwell and has gone to hospital in an ambulance. Liela takes Ever to a strawberry festival.
September 7th 2019 - posts video of Ever singing out ‘everybody what the f*ck’.
September 10th 2019 - Liela has joined an MLM! Arbonne. Calling out for strong businesswoman to join her on this incredible journey to financial freedom! #gIrLbOsS
Previous night in a live said she had a blood test and some numbers came up. It’s a tumour but ‘not cancer guys! I had a full mood test that detects all cancers’ (what about cervical cancer?)
She says that cancer doesn’t grow in an alkaline environment she says which is amazing as she’s SELLING an alkaline product. What a coincidence!
Arbonne gig lasts six days.
October 5th 2019 - posts photos of Ever in her underwear.
October 25th 2019 - posts her wish for Ever to choose a man and father of her child wisely. In photo Liela is wearing an engagement ring and wedding band.
November 9th 2019 - posts new man. New man appears to also be in an MLM as Instagram full of product spiels. They are meant to be! He also posts long talks ‘wisdom’ whilst driving and looking at the camera.
December 16th 2019 - Liela lost two photography clients as her computer crashed and she lost the photos. Instead of being apologetic she talks about how she’s so proud of herself and how wonderful she is.
December 20th 2019 - unfollows the BF on Instagram and vice versa.
Looks another relationship has bit the dust and so has 2019!