WhatABore
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I agree with previous comments that it's just her fighting for power.So tonight I asked her to pick 5 books, she went to bed at 7:15pn with her books. Out of the 5 we got through 2 cos she was tired, by 7:30pm she said she wanted some raisins.. ok.. then she ate 2 of them, then 7:40pm she’s screaming cos she wants some cereal. NO chance. I said if you’re hungry have your raisins, she’s purposely delaying bedtime. No drama over books, just pretending to be hungry! MORE tears from her and kicking off over pointless stuff, need to rant! I’ve had enough! It’s so hard on my own at times
It'll take time but you just have to be firm with the routine.
Stick the the same amount of books every night. Same time for things.
I personally wouldn't have accommodated the raisins either. Especially knowing its a delay tactic.
Once it's bed time, it's bed time, we do the same routine and nothing else