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Venuslurker
Chatty Member
I don't get it! Does she think having a wank is edgy? We all do it! Why is she always going on about it?
Lalalala1212
Active member
Her post tonight has made me come here to vent - she’s literally had a weeks holiday paid for by her mum, a free luxury cruise with her boyfriend and still she’s moaning and hard done by.
I am married but my husband has his own business and works all the hours god sends, I work when the kids are all school and on weekends I am solo parenting 90 per cent of the time - she’s really has her kids a lot less than most parents and she’s constantly moaning when she does. Also how damaging for her girls when they’re older to see how much their mum moaned about spending time with them on a public forum.
Finally - and this is no comment on anyone else on food vouchers, but I find it hard to marry her comment that the kids have been fed all summer on food vouchers with the public spending on botox / nails / clothes etc.
I am married but my husband has his own business and works all the hours god sends, I work when the kids are all school and on weekends I am solo parenting 90 per cent of the time - she’s really has her kids a lot less than most parents and she’s constantly moaning when she does. Also how damaging for her girls when they’re older to see how much their mum moaned about spending time with them on a public forum.
Finally - and this is no comment on anyone else on food vouchers, but I find it hard to marry her comment that the kids have been fed all summer on food vouchers with the public spending on botox / nails / clothes etc.
Roarquaver
Active member
Jewellery beg!
Before I came to tattle I never realised that was why so many influencers asked for recommendations and I'm so glad my eyes have been opened!
Have none of them ever heard of Google
Before I came to tattle I never realised that was why so many influencers asked for recommendations and I'm so glad my eyes have been opened!
Have none of them ever heard of Google
Venuslurker
Chatty Member
The power imbalance isn't the same though. I'm not a massive fan of hers but I very much doubt that a hormonal woman lunging towards him whilst holding a baby (if that's what it was) was exactly threatening to him. Certainly not as threatening as a man lunging towards a woman. You can't apply the same rules to both genders IMO.
electric_boots
Well-known member
*poooof* and the Nanettes were gone
Am I the only one to think that it’s a bit weird to film yourself while you’re on your own, laughing at a film…? Certainly calculated, because you would have had to have laughed at that bit of the film first, then thought ‘oh, this would make good content’, and then wound the film back, and then watched it again, while filming yourself, but watching yourself, to make sure that you’d filmed it properly…? It reminds me of the numerous times that she’s filmed herself crying…if I’m really upset, my first thought isn’t ‘Hang on, I should film this…There’s thousands of people who will want to see it”. It just all seems so…..manipulative.
I don’t know what to think of Anna. She’s funny, and definitely has a way with words. But I worry that she’s someone who demonstrates signs of narcissistic personality disorder. Or more specifically a covert (or vulnerable) narcissist. I think quite a number of people do on Instagram, it’s in the nature of the format. You’d have to be narcissistic to some kind of degree to believe that your life was worthy of interest. But some of her actions and words push it into the realms of NPD. If you look up the traits, she demonstrates a number on a fairly regular basis. She has a deep need for excessive attention and admiration. She totally uses her profile to extract validation from us followers; the regular posts that place her as a victim to get all those ‘You go, hun’ type replies etc.
I think she’s deleted the post now, but I remember her basically bragging about assaulting the father of her kids when he came home from work and wanted a beer (even if he was being totally inconsiderate and insensitive, her actions were not really warranted behaviour). Uncontrollable anger like this, is very common from narcissists. Similarly she still criticises him on her stories, with no forum for him to represent himself, which is typical of a narcissistic post-relationship smear campaign. The way she slags her mum, and shows all her healing books on narcissistic abuse, but still expects support from her? And unfortunately the children of narcissists often become narcissists too, having never learned empathy, and stuck with the emotional range of an entitled teenager.
And also the addiction to porn and sex, that need for instant gratification and the constant search for validation and supply through all the men she’s slept with. Not to mention the victimhood…her situation isn’t her fault…it’s her mum’s fault…or it’s the ex’s fault, because he wants to work (or something, even though she could work, seeing as one kid is at school, and the other is in day care…or am I missing something…?)….oh no I forgot, it’s the patriarchy’s fault, because no other woman or mother in this country has ever got a good job, or had a successful career etc.
Anyway, look up NPD. It's worth it just to inform yourself that you're not in a relationship with someone with it. Because it won't end well, it never does
I don’t know what to think of Anna. She’s funny, and definitely has a way with words. But I worry that she’s someone who demonstrates signs of narcissistic personality disorder. Or more specifically a covert (or vulnerable) narcissist. I think quite a number of people do on Instagram, it’s in the nature of the format. You’d have to be narcissistic to some kind of degree to believe that your life was worthy of interest. But some of her actions and words push it into the realms of NPD. If you look up the traits, she demonstrates a number on a fairly regular basis. She has a deep need for excessive attention and admiration. She totally uses her profile to extract validation from us followers; the regular posts that place her as a victim to get all those ‘You go, hun’ type replies etc.
I think she’s deleted the post now, but I remember her basically bragging about assaulting the father of her kids when he came home from work and wanted a beer (even if he was being totally inconsiderate and insensitive, her actions were not really warranted behaviour). Uncontrollable anger like this, is very common from narcissists. Similarly she still criticises him on her stories, with no forum for him to represent himself, which is typical of a narcissistic post-relationship smear campaign. The way she slags her mum, and shows all her healing books on narcissistic abuse, but still expects support from her? And unfortunately the children of narcissists often become narcissists too, having never learned empathy, and stuck with the emotional range of an entitled teenager.
And also the addiction to porn and sex, that need for instant gratification and the constant search for validation and supply through all the men she’s slept with. Not to mention the victimhood…her situation isn’t her fault…it’s her mum’s fault…or it’s the ex’s fault, because he wants to work (or something, even though she could work, seeing as one kid is at school, and the other is in day care…or am I missing something…?)….oh no I forgot, it’s the patriarchy’s fault, because no other woman or mother in this country has ever got a good job, or had a successful career etc.
Anyway, look up NPD. It's worth it just to inform yourself that you're not in a relationship with someone with it. Because it won't end well, it never does
Coffeefirst19
Chatty Member
Wtf! Who actually thinks…. Ahhh I know, I’ll stick my dildo on the bathroom wall and get a video for Instagram of me in the bath and have it accidentally fall down on me….
weird! Grow up Anna! Cringey AF!!!!!
weird! Grow up Anna! Cringey AF!!!!!
electric_boots
Well-known member
I'm reluctant to comment on this because I've never made a secret of the fact that I know her ex. So I'll keep it neutral. But like someone said above, you'd never blame a woman for leaving a situation where she felt unsafe so it's totally unfair to judge him for 'dumping her with a newborn' when nobody (not even me) knows what was going on in that relationship, I do know that it wasn't an isolated incident but so what if it was? When they broke up she did a post (which is still there) saying that neither of them had been happy for a while but they hoped the new baby would paper over the cracks. Does that sound like a happy environment for any of them? The trouble is now, she gets to play the 'dumped with a newborn' card for the rest of time and he carries the label of 'man who dumped a woman with a newborn' with no way to defend himself and no consideration for the situation or how bloody horrible it must have been to make that decision.
, didn’t realise it was this offensive 
Bubblemamaa22
Chatty Member
We've come a long way from bailiffs at the door to a solo jolly to London on the *train* to buy clothes in Oxfam Selfridges.
Where the pre-loved t-shirts you can buy online are £35 so I don't imagine dresses are cheaper.
Where the pre-loved t-shirts you can buy online are £35 so I don't imagine dresses are cheaper.
TrulyScrumptious
Well-known member
I love her I think she is witty very droll and I'd like her to post more if I'm honest
Ah I like Anna and am sad this thread isn’t more positive.
She’s funny and relatable. I’m not likely to buy any crap anyone on insta is flogging but I’m pleased she’s got an agent and is much more deserving of freebies than other grabby insta wankers.
The fringe is awful tho, and she does look like MOD.
She’s funny and relatable. I’m not likely to buy any crap anyone on insta is flogging but I’m pleased she’s got an agent and is much more deserving of freebies than other grabby insta wankers.
The fringe is awful tho, and she does look like MOD.
Onecandream
Well-known member
I don’t see a problem with tablets in a restaurant either. I’d rather my child be entertained whilst waiting for the food to arrive. It’s quite difficult for young ones to just sit still confined on a chair. Always turn them off whilst eating tho
Onecandream
Well-known member
This is so so so so true! I don’t understand how she can get her childcare paid and get paid to do sweet fuck all. Then post photos of a dirty house and a mountain of washing up, what does she actually do!!?? How nice it must be to produce children and not have to look after them and not pay for that childcare yourself! Bizarre!!
I reckon the reason she doesn’t want to get a job is because what she will earn will just be deducted in benefits, also council tax support etc would stop, she’d probably be no better off or very little and she’s weighed that up with the fact she’ll be extra busy and won’t cope etc and thought fuck it I’ll just stay as I am. But then cos it makes her look like a lazy fucker she decides to blame it on her ex (and the patriarchy) as to why she can’t work so she doesn’t appear to be a bum. Most ppl who earn from Instagram actually have jobs FIRST and do Instagram as extra, then may leave their job if things progress enough. Anna’s way of thinking equates to my 8 yr old saying he wants to be a YouTuber when he’s older so he doesn’t need a job, thinks he will drive a Lamborghini and live in America.
Get a grip woman!
Also I reckon 90% of working families use some sort of childcare. Isn’t that what it’s for??
