Catching up with reading here, honestly I don't even know where to start
First why would you continuously broadcast that you can't remember tit when you keep going on about making CoRe meMoRiEs, maybe if you didn't take 60 vacations a fking year then you'd actually remember the vacations, I remember just about ALL of mine because ALL were special, I can still remember the exact dates I flew out to America for the very first time an that was in 2012, I still remember the first time I ever stepped foot in magic Kingdom, I also remember other special moments in my life like the call to say I had a neice an god daughter, her first words, her first steps, the first time she went a tricycle, all of these are actual CORE MEMORIES, an I certainly wouldn't be calling something a core memorie if I didn't remember tit about it
Also the fact J is mentioning choking hazards means he must hear that A LOT, at this stage if he's still choking on things then it's time to get him seem too, we already have mentioned his speech is terrible but he probably has lazy muscles in his mouth which is why his speech is bad plus still choking on things, an also sausages like say HOT DOGS are also a choking hazard, like others have said it makes no sense to take certain things off him an give him other things that are just as much a risk
An lastly the whole "impressing other parents" like WHY, you are not there to "impress" you are there for your CHILD, I can almost guarantee NOBODY gave a tit because their focus would be on their own kid, I personally do not give one fk about other parents, I couldn't care less what they are doing or handing out, if am there for my neice then that's all am caring about, they honestly have some sort of mental issues with the obsession with flexing to impress an winning things, they both need some serious therapy