I'm still catching up and i'm on page 15 lol.
But I just watched her current stories up right now and how is she so proud of herself for having 'both boys at home alone'?
Is it an achievement? I don't get what her obsession about when she looks after her own kids 'alone'?
I could understand more if they were difficult or were high needs, had medical conditions etc.
But from what we have been shown, they are two regular kids. In fact M seems like a good baby. F seems a bit full on but my opinion on that is it's to get her attention.
I have a 3 year old, and I can understand and empathise with how much work they are. And I can't imagine having a baby aswell right now.
But I work full time. I work lots of late afternoons, nights, and weekends. My daughter has JUST come out the other end of waking up at 4am since February. I also just earn a regular full time wage and my job is very mentally taxing. (Youth Work) And I also have zero support outside of my partner who also works full time hours. I know all situations are different, i'm not saying im worse off or better off that her situation.
(But kind of I am) because she has a high disposable income to get a nanny or a cleaner, 2 sisters that seem to love her kids, parents that are together and seem supportive, Kurts family, she has extended family like that pink cousin that seem supportive. She works from home. F could literally be in daycare full time. M could even be in daycare 1-2 days a week now.
And she is super proud of herself for having one night on her own with 2 kids???? I truly don't get it, what is the deal? What am I missing?
Mums have been doing this for centuries. Not to mention single mums, FIFO mums, or mums with genuinely unsupportive partners, mums with no additional family. Some mums are stay at home mums parenting extremely difficult children or children with complex needs on their own all day and all night with no respite, mums in DV relationships that cannot get out.
She truly pisses me off.
But hey at lease she is sooooo proud of herself for parenting her two kids alone for one night in 6 months.
EDITED TO ADD- I just caught up and I can see i am not the only one intensely triggered by that bullshit story.