Saoirseandmama #2

[butterflybilly]

I can’t even imagine the pain of losing a child. I genuinely think it has to be the worst pain for a parent & loved ones. It’s so unfair. I just don’t agree with the social media side of it. Why can’t people take time to heal in the real world.

Ive lost my mam, and literally thought i would die without her, UNTIL, a few years later, i lost my only child in a terrible road crash.....Honestly, it is the worst thing in the world, the pain is EXCRUTIATING! For me i suppose, because i was there and saw EVERYTHING, the trauma, the nightmares, the what ifs, and "why didnt I" took over for years.....I couldnt walk, hardly wash myself, even breathing was exhausting, i can never ever explain the exhaustion, like my body was shutting down. For us, even though it was in the papers etc at the time (my family members are well known sports people) they put in photos of the crashed vehicles, and us walking behind the hearse, which was disgusting to look at months afterwards.
We kept our grief private, and i wouldnt dream of sharing those photos after my child died. I know everyone is different in grief, but i want my child to be remembered for how he lived, not how he died....

 

[AH HERE]

Myself and my husband cried watching the news last night. Mamas eulogy was so sad. I just keep thinking of them waking up this morning to the reality of it all. That she will never be in there house again and all the firsts they are about to face etc. I don’t agree with a lot of her insta posting but I’m not made of stone I’m heartbroken for them all

 

[Lucydowl]

I don’t think tattle is for you

Anyone half normal would think it’s totally inappropriate to post a posed picture of your very young child at a family grave for strangers to view. What’s next ?? posting videos of her crying. It’s unthinkable. social media platforms should not allow it but you’d hope anyway most responsible adults wouldn’t think it acceptable. I’ve heard absolutely nobody say it’s right, in fact most say the opposite.

 

[boozysuzy]

To record the hearse carrying your beautiful daughter to her resting place for what can be seen now as "content" is hard to take it to be honest.

 

[Hunzosrus]

That's fucked up! We have moved on from mourn porn to grief tourists. Complete strangers travelling long distances to see the grave of a child they didn't even know offline. That's crazy, absolutely insane.

I'm sorry now, but she was not a National treasure. A beautiful child inside and out by all accounts, but not a treasure to the whole Nation.

 

[Clau]

Everyone deals with grief differently. When we buried our little girl I hadn’t my phone on me.
I can’t criticise the mum as she’s in so much pain and it’s still raw and no doubt numb and finding it hard to even believe. It’ll be 2.5 years next month since we had to say goodbye to our precious girl and it’s something we will never get over

 

[Ellegee]

The picture of FR standing over the grave broke my heart can’t imagine what they are all going through ! So numb

It’s broken me too but I really think it should be kept private. Farrah Rose is far too young to consent & no one knows how her grief will affect her as she gets older. If she knows such painful memories have been shared with thousands so soon after loosing her sister, it could have terrible consequences

 

[Ladydee]

Omg the latest reel with all the different moments , I’m sorry but that is a step to far now she needs to be taken off instagram by her family and let grieve in private

 

[Lucydowl]

Omg the latest reel with all the different moments , I’m sorry but that is a step to far now she needs to be taken off instagram by her family and let grieve in private

She actually had her phone out filming for instagram following her child’s hearse.Jesus that’s unthinkable disrespectful. I’d be so inconsolable I’d be hardly able to walk Talk or function let alone plan instagram future stories. It makes one sick

 

[Lucydowl]

What’s the purpose of posting such a beautiful private family moment with young children involved on public forum of strangers at the same time requesting privacy for the funeral etc., quite rightly. Dignity is privacy.

 

[CCeye]

She's a Hun she's using the death to increase her engagement! she knows what she's doing

Just watching her today she has a video up of her picking songs for the funeral....2 weeks before Saoirse passed away. Sorry now can't get my head around that one. And she keeps looking at the phone while she is recording herself?? She is not doing herself any favours with all these posts. Theres not a day goes by now without her posting something. Thank god I have never been in her situation but I find her whole carry on beyond bizarre.

 

[youramuppet]

I feel they were Catapulted into the Limelight after the Toy Show. And im sure the parents were told from the beginning how long beautiful Saoirse may or may not have left. So alot of Childhood Cancer Charities supported them and treated them to once in a lifetime trip, gifts etc , which they all deserved. I also think the Mam used Instagram as a way to document and save memories, photos and Videos of her beautiful Girl and family for the little time she would have, so they would have somewhere to look back at.
Yea the Mam did a few, very few Ads, Collabs , but it may have been an escape for her, god knows the stress shes been under and it was a way to escape for a few mins for herself. The Dad was working so he had there to escape to Daily. She is nothing like the other Instahuns..

This is my opinion, im heartbroken for them all.
And if you read my posts on other Instahuns , im not one to hold back.

 

[Clau]

We released balloons at our little girl’s funeral, in aid of a wonderful charity and we wanted colour to represent our little girl’s colourful character, we didn’t think of the consequences to the environment at that stage!
Coming from experience I wouldn’t comment on the funeral, completely the family’s decision and they’re not even aware of what’s going on, won’t hit them for ages

 

[whocarez]

I think you are being unnecessarily unkind! It is her page, she can post whatever photos or videos she likes. If she wants to show a shot in the distance of her small child visiting her sisters grave that’s her business . If you feel so strongly that you do not agree with what a grieving mother does and does not post there is an unfollow and block button on her page profile!

I don't think she is. She's still invading her daughters privacy for views.
Showing a picture of a grave is outright weird and there's only one reason for it... Engagement!

The video of them all at the beach did not need to be posted either unless she was looking for more engagement. Nothing is private

 

[Ellegee]

Sharing Saoirse at her most vulnerable is wrong. Sharing Farrah Rose & her final moments with her sister is wrong. This woman is fame hungry. It’s absolutely awful what they are going through but it needs to be kept private.

 

[Ladydee]

Was thinking the same thing, she’s there picking out funeral songs for her daughter who was still alive at the time and thought o wait I’ll record this process now for future content ?!?! The mind bloody boggles with her at this stage, she is in need of serious mental help

 

[Ellegee]

10 people have shared todays reel. Who on earth would want to share a dying childs last moments? That’s just sick.

 

[Heidi88]

The recording of the coffin in the hearse is in bad taste. I can understand wanting as many videos of Saoirse alive as possible so they have them to watch over. But those personal moments near the end should be kept private.

I wonder what Farah Rose will think in 10 or 15 years time that recordings of her at her sisters grave and last selfies etc were shown to 130k plus people. Het privacy needs to be respected.

 

[bellawella22]

The latest story about the dates of S&FR being conceived.


That’s too much.

 

[butterflybilly]

The thing is people move on. Strangers didn’t know S or love her like mama thinks they did. Of course everyone wished the best for her but we aren’t actually grieving her. People are addicted to mourn porn as horrible as it sounds & that’s what her account is now. In time I believe like the others she will look back & regret the sharing of things that shouldn’t be shared

I agree, people are addicted to that type of thing.... after my child died the amount of people who added me on SM was huge.
People in my village who id known for years, but not friends, suddenly wanted to be my friend.... and even more weird, the amount of new requests my child got, after passing