Do you really envy that lifestyle though? She does nothing meaningful, nothing that has any purpose. It seems like the kind of job that would be fun for a week and then you realise it’s empty and shallow, it seems like an incredibly unfulfilling life to just have to reply to emails occasionally and decide what workout you’re going to do that day. It genuinely wouldn’t be something I’d want to do at all. Depends what makes you tick I suppose!I know a lot of people don’t envy her life but I mean, anyone would be jealous of the fact that she literally does nothing but send emails and gets gifted a skincare line. We are days from her “launch” and she’s done barely anything concrete to promote it and yet she continues to get praise from her followers for working so hard. So to suggest Joe is jealous of her success, hell yeah, anyone would be. Doesn’t necessarily mean he was resentful.
Completely agree. It's the kind of thing where, back when I was 15 maybe I would have thought this was an enviable lifestyle. But now, 10 years later, I have gained enough maturity to know that I would in fact be incredibly unhappy and unfulfilled living a life like hers. Sure I'd love to have more time to myself and more money to spend on leisurely/self-care activities, but at the end of the day I know my life has a true purpose, I'm doing something that matters, and I can honestly say I'm proud of what I do. If I had her life, I wouldn't be able to feel proud of what I do, I wouldn't be truly comfortable talking about my job to people (people outside of her social media following) -- and that to me makes all the money/time/resources she gets not worth it at all.Do you really envy that lifestyle though? She does nothing meaningful, nothing that has any purpose. It seems like the kind of job that would be fun for a week and then you realise it’s empty and shallow, it seems like an incredibly unfulfilling life to just have to reply to emails occasionally and decide what workout you’re going to do that day. It genuinely wouldn’t be something I’d want to do at all. Depends what makes you tick I suppose!
I suppose that’s my point, though. I, like a lot of people, don’t envy her life because I am quite fulfilled, but am I jealous of how little of her stress-free job she has to do while making tons of money? Insanely.Do you really envy that lifestyle though? She does nothing meaningful, nothing that has any purpose. It seems like the kind of job that would be fun for a week and then you realise it’s empty and shallow, it seems like an incredibly unfulfilling life to just have to reply to emails occasionally and decide what workout you’re going to do that day. It genuinely wouldn’t be something I’d want to do at all. Depends what makes you tick I suppose!
I think she’s just trying to be respectful and although he broke up with her, a lot has changed for him as well this year. I think it has to be a difficult time for him just in a different way to Niomi.I just remembered that she said to give Joe space as 'he's also going through this really difficult period' - could it have been a mutual break up? Most people probably won't say that about someone who dumped them. Just a guess.
I agree with your whole post but this really hits the nail on the head. She must be embarrassed talking about her job because it was quite obvious how she feels about being called an influencer in the recent video even though she very much is an influencer. And to be honest I’d be embarrassed telling people I do that too.but at the end of the day I know my life has a true purpose, I'm doing something that matters, and I can honestly say I'm proud of what I do. If I had her life, I wouldn't be able to feel proud of what I do, I wouldn't be truly comfortable talking about my job to people (people outside of her social media following) -- and that to me makes all the money/time/resources she gets not worth it at all.
Yeah I get you re the money thing. But then she doesn’t even need it because she gets everything free anyway, so what’s the point having it if you don’t need it reallyI suppose that’s my point, though. I, like a lot of people, don’t envy her life because I am quite fulfilled, but am I jealous of how little of her stress-free job she has to do while making tons of money? Insanely.
She has total control over the narrative because he has posted nothing and seems like he’s not interested in doing otherwise. Very easy for her to make out like it was some kind of mutual thing in that scenarioI also reckon she wants to make it seem more mutual then what it really was. To post a video about asking your best mate to be your bridesmaid a couple of weeks before a break up is enough in itself to prove this wasn’t a mutual decision.
But why would Joe be jealous of that when he already has tons of money himself? He owns an apartment whereas she doesn't. He has more than enough money in the bank, and so does his family, such that he doesn't have to worry about anything (he hasn't worked for the past 8 months and he's clearly totally fine!). And he's already established in the exact career he wants to be in? I can see why others might envy her position, but him? Nope, I don't see that.I suppose that’s my point, though. I, like a lot of people, don’t envy her life because I am quite fulfilled, but am I jealous of how little of her stress-free job she has to do while making tons of money? Insanely.
I mean it obviously depends what you want in life but yeah her life does sound boring. All she does is reply to a few emails, go for a workout, meet her friends for brunch...she’s living the life of a retired person and she’s not even 30 years oldYoung, gorgeous, single, financially independent, living in a highly sought after area with time to do all the things you like, go lovely places and wear nice things. Yes, sounds utterly terrible and dull!
He probably got sick from frequently flying back and forth from india. Airports and planes are full of recycled air and notorious for spreading illnesses.Guys, I think the person who posted about Niomi being very controlling and hiding food from Joe is onto something. I specifically remember one packing video with an instance of hiding stuff (food) from Joe, I thought at the time, oh how strange I'd never have done something like that. (I specifically tellmy partner where some products are so we don't overbuy stuff and don't waste food etc.)
Here's the clip: 12 to 16 min
It also shows how inconsistent Niomi is with her views and believes, she goes on about beeswax, not buying too much stuff etc. and then there is this massive basket of weird bottles of supplements she doesn't even take. Also notice the comment Joe makes of him being sick a lot. The diet (presumably forced) did not do him any good, his immunity must have been very low.
Somewhere bigger probably funded by her bf/husband.OT but where has London Chatter moved to?
Omg ! Can’t agree more ! I thought the same when I read that .What is this idea of “moving across the world FOR him” though? I see this a lot here and I don’t get it. Moving was a joint decision and Niomi insisted she wanted it very much and was happy to go. Sometimes, as it did for them, one half of a couple gets a work opportunity and you move or you don’t. It’s hardly like Niomi was titled and gave up her crown for Joe or something lol.
Also even if she wasn’t happy to go, it’s not healthy for one half of the couple to hold up the decision to move as a ‘I did this FOR you so you better do xyz’, that gets toxic very quick. You decide to move, then you are all in and in it together. Not “well I did this undesirable thing for you so you better figure out the moving”.
Btw, did you notice how carefully she worded yhe entire vlog. Not once mentionned Joe or we or anything about 'before', it's like she was born yesterday and here we go... No wonder some of her viewers are confusef as hell...I wonder if the second delivery of stuff she referenced is stuff from Joe’s flat. He may have boxed it for her and arranged pickup so they don’t have to have contact.