Hi all,
I just wanted to present my theory of what happened based on what I've read in these threads, her Instagram posts and YouTube videos. It's essentially creative writing because it's all based on speculation but let me know what you think.
So it's possible Joe just lost his job because of COVID but I think it's also possible he was pressured to quit his job by Niomi and possibly both their families so that they were back in the UK closer to them. I can see Niomi wanting to be back on UK soil during such a uncertain time. If he quit, maybe it was at a bad time, maybe it was just before the IPL was moved Dubai or he sacrificed moving with the team to go with Niomi's wishes to be in the UK. I think Joe has or at least feels he has sacrificed a career opportunity for himself and he feels like he did it for Niomi. (I am not putting her for this, if I were in her shoes, I personally would want to go back home too)
We have been seeing news of the IPL moving to Dubai in this thread, so maybe this is what has brought on these negative thoughts for Joe when he sees it on his LinkedIn or on the news or even former colleagues. He regrets leaving the role after months of being unemployed and stuck at home. After seeing news IPL start up again without rehiring him, he regrets his decision and associates this bad decision with Niomi and didn't want to be with her anymore.
At the same time, maybe there was tension with Freddie in the same house, and he he used that as an excuse to suggest she take a break and go to her parents to get some rest and self care(maybe even suggested he would join her in a few days)
01/08 - The last post that Joe liked and it's a post of her going back home to Sussex. I feel like Niomi is the kind of girl who maybe expects Joe to like her photos and asks questions when he doesn't give it a like. He's keeping her happy until she's out of their apartment
I feel like by this point, he's brought up issues in their relationship and his feeling of regret about moving back from India. Maybe she points out that she made sacrifices to move to India for his job. It's possible he brought up her career and that he doesn't really consider it a proper job/career like the one he had.
03/08 - Niomi uploads a video 'Honest chat about "INFLUENCERS"' which looks like it's filmed in Joes flat. I remember she was trying to say shes not like other influencers and saying that her intention is not to sell her audience anything. This is completely incorrect, she is constantly naming brands and as many people on the old thread (
https://tattle.life/threads/niomi-s...e-to-put-joes-fennel-teabag-back.7260/page-13) brought up, she purposely put in lots of ads on the video. What she was saying made no sense because almost every video she is promoting products and she had ad revenue from youtube too and she even talks about her skin care line shes's releasing. Her main source of income is from promoting products from other brands. Is she in denial or delusional about what she does for a living? Is she blatantly lying and just being a phony? I think Joe watched this and may have called her out on this and this caused major offense to her.
This is when she takes a few days off and uploads post on 06/08 two posts on 07/08 and an IGTV on 08/08 without Joe liking them. Maybe she saw so many posts go unliked by him, she initiates a conversation with him and they get into their final fight before she posts about taking a break from social media on 09/08 which I am assuming is the day they broke off the engagement. I think their relationship is over then or within a few days from that.
I agree with what other people are saying, I feel like Joe has said something to her that was really offensive to her. I think he doesnt respect what she does anymore and has only recently realised this and told her his opinion. I feel like it would be very traumatic for the love of your life to tell you that what your doing and have been doing for over 6 years is wrong and then break up with you (especially when they were with you and in her posts and videos for ~4 years).
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