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FatNoMorePat

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This is my first time posting, I’ve been lurking for sooo long (too long to even know exactly when it started!) but I used to love watching Sofa’s stories and bought a lot of cleaning products because of her. I was pregnant and actually do have anxiety, so I found her totally relatable. I have slowly seen a different side to her, I’ll admit it has taken longer than it probably should have, but I think I believed everything I was reading here, I just didn’t want to. Hope that makes sense guyzzzz! For months I have been looking on this site as soon as I’ve seen her stories because I love seeing other people’s opinions, especially when I’ve doubted things she’s said and done.

I have 3 young children and have cried when my house has been a mess. It makes me feel out of control and I know now it’s because of the people I followed on Insta showing their perfectly clean homes. Now I’m trying to avoid seeing them and just enjoying my kids, clutter and all!

I couldn’t get my head around her not including Ronnie in the gender reveal, that was a massive moment that I couldn’t justify in my head why she would do that. Ever since then, I just haven’t felt the same. Everyday I am realising that she really is just a saleswoman and is manipulating so many vulnerable people. When I watched her stories just now when she said she bought both olive trees I actually said “of course you fucking did!” I think I’ve finally crossed over to the Tattle side 🙌🏻 I hope you’ll have me! Thanks for reading and sorry it’s a bit long!
 
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notanothergrammer

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This needs to stop now. Absolute Fuckwits the lot of them! And this may be an unpopular opinion but I think the Cains need to get that baby off social media and spend what time they have left with her in private. The longer it goes on the more these cretins are encouraged to harass them and I truly believe that's what it amounts to. Having said that and as much as my heart bleeds for the family he is a fame chaser and it will probably benefit him staying on social media for as long as they can.
Not unpopular absolutely agree. I am in no way denying their pain and grief is not real but the life is slowly draining from that little girl and showing it off on insta is not the way to go. she needs all the energy she can get to fight this, they are self serving their own interests by dancing about with a baby that clearly needs rest!. She hadn't actually eaten in 2 weeks and the last thing they should be doing is up and dancing and partying with her trying to get some sort of normal baby physical reaction from her almost like they're forcing her or trying to get her to 'do something and force a smile when clearly she does not thave the physical strength to do so. They need to get off social media, watching that child slowly deteriorate with bruises and her parents showing her bleeding nose. I have palliative nurses here in my city that are friends in NHS England that are angry at the way the parents and family are handling this and at how this has become a circus and Hinch has been part and parcel to that. Of all the millions of messages of support they get daily the parents quickly shared SS and Hinches shout outs and them being first to comment on any posts. Children are not billboards for your fandom. That is a sick child at the end of her life that does not need to be dancing around every five minutes and playing pretend,clearly tired and weak she clearly needs to rest this is end of life care, you have to think about what she needs not trying to play normal with her and overact on insta to serve you as a parent and your grief right now, making her do things she isn't strong enough for, as a parent I'm sure you want to keep her around as long as possible, all this play,dancing and hooha for insta is making her use up what little energy she has, it's not about them, even the illustrations of her head hanging tubes and half conscious, surely nobody wants those pictures to remind them of their child?? that not making memories its all just wrong to me, she is still alive and it's about her not them, definitely not hinch and not anyone else. It's really making me very uncomfortable now. the whole thing.
 
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Instaflop

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I reckon the tree will grow too big for the pot so she will have no choice but to move to a bigger house with a proper garden so she can plant it outside
 
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Earnshawbaby79

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She has serious issues...
"I want a tree"
"I'm getting a tree"
No research whatsoever... How long will it be before it will be
"It's grown so much so I've given it away to the tree people, we are definitely NOT tree people"... Or in other words "we have killed the tree"
Or... Knowing her she will rip the branches off and attempt to "make" another heart 😳
 
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Christie25

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Had to come on to address the “ready made milk in cartons in case milk doesn’t come through straight away.” COMPLETE misconception that she’s spreading. Milk doesn’t come through straight away, it takes at least 3-5 days of colostrum feeding anyway. She’s just added fuel to a terrible fire that breastfeeding counsellors and supporters, midwives and the NHS are fighting to deal with. The only way your milk with come in is if you feed feed feed to stimulate your body to make the milk. By topping up with formula milk so early on, it’s even more unlikely that your milk will come in 🤦🏻‍♀️

I’m not trying to start a breast v formula debate, it’s everyone’s individual choice but she’s just spread a really dangerous fact.
 
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GrumpyKat

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As someone who has lost a baby let me tell you this.
It's not influencer lifestyle it's grieving, praying, hoping, doing everything you can possibly do to keep the memory alive.
Yes that little girl is tired bit guess what she's not going to be here forever and as far as I can see she's not in unbearable pain!
My biggest regret is having all my memories in a hospital and not one picture with our baby and her family...
There is not right or wrong way to experience a loss of a child, so let's not judge people who are experiencing something you'd pray was a nightmare..
I doubt very much they sit there of a nighttime and think ooo I got 100k likes today but Wow my baby is going to live forever in memories!!..

I like being on here but sometimes ya'll take it too far.
I disagree, I'm the parent of a special needs child and while she's clever and amazing she may never be able to give consent to being posted on social media so that's why I never share pics with her online unless her face can't be seen.
The little girls rights are more important than whatever the parents may feel, there is no reason to be posting all those videos, blast music and have the whole family sing to her in the middle of the night. It's sickening and shouldn't be shared online. She looks sick, exhausted and tired and I honestly don't care what the parents may feel because there is no reason in the world to post your dying child on social media. I recently had a close friends young relative die from a rare disease and they managed without social media and so do thousands of other parents.
I've only found out about baby A because of Hinch and while it is sad and makes me cry I know how many other kids are in similar positions yet not given the same level of care because their parents aren't big on social media and I despise that. This child is clearly getting better care because of her famous parents while she should just be made feel comfortable and not have those videos of her posted online. No dignity whatsoever. There is no excuse for any mother to be broadcasting publicly while your child is clearly dying infront of everyone's eyes. No excuse whatsoever. It's some real time morbid reality show just no no no no no.
I honestly don't care what the parents may feel because 5 years down the road they'll likely regret this and probably wish they would've kept it to themselves. I feel heartbroken for the child but it's gone too far and they are the reason I hate social media and influencers and everyone else posting for content and for everyone excusing them just think again who is speaking out for the poor girl???

Imagine she was 20 years old, would you feel the same way?? Just because she's a baby the whole world gets to watch this morbid reality feed seeing a child pass away in real time?? It's never okay to use your child on social media and especially not when they're about to pass away, I'm disgusted!
 
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Cassy Role

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So she’s putting a real olive tree indoors because she’s seen people do it on Instagram but her plants outdoors are plastic?? 🤯

So backwards.

Also carting shit around a garden centre whilst heavily pregnant and under doctors orders to rest?? So in effect she’s putting her unborn child’s life at risk double fold through Covid and her own health issue... All the while posting almost obsessively about a poorly baby...

I used to watch her to laugh at her fuck ups and her tangling herself up in her own lies but her bullshit is just next level recently. She’s not right. How can strangers on the internet see it but not those closest to her?
 
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motherofdonkeys

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Since she likes to name everything, I wonder if it'll be a natural birth, will the baby pop out of Veronica the vagina? Will Paul the perineum hold out? Will the baby be joined by Percy poo :poop: exiting from Annabel the anus? Will the body parts be labelled? Oooohhhhh, it's so exciting, the anticipation :m
 
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evilqueenxox

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Omg guysszzzzzz just got back from my Tesco food shop and mrs hinch now has her own range of olives! Can you believe that in just a short while her trees have grown enough olives to colab with Tesco. Due to the trees being in the grey castle they are infact GREY olives. Limited edition guyssszzzzz 💗
 
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HinchesSousChef

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@HinchesSousChef i have no idea what you do as a job but if it’s not along the lines of detective/spy/police investigations you’ve seriously missed a trick 🤣
I always wanted to work in police but instead i was a behaviour specialist /English teacher in secondary schools. Behaviour specialists spend more time than you think trying to work out who is guilty of doing something naughty (even if it’s as pathetic as who nicked so and so’s trainers from the PE block).
I’m just a nosey person really 😂😂
 
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Cady1954

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Anyone else just find this wrong? This is what sofa is causing. View attachment 532088
This needs to stop now. Absolute Fuckwits the lot of them! And this may be an unpopular opinion but I think the Cains need to get that baby off social media and spend what time they have left with her in private. The longer it goes on the more these cretins are encouraged to harass them and I truly believe that's what it amounts to. Having said that and as much as my heart bleeds for the family he is a fame chaser and it will probably benefit him staying on social media for as long as they can.
 
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Fluffy20

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They also had the entire extended family over that I saw on Ashleys stories. That's breaking covid rules as we can't have visitors inside yet. If that poor child gets covid that will absolutely kill her quickly.
She’s been given days to live. I’m sorry, but if my 8 month old baby was dying I wouldn’t give a fuck about COVID rules, I would just want my family to spend as much time with her as possible.
 
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gggg_o

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Zoph, as someone who is half Italian so spent a lot of my childhood in the Mediterranean, that tree will not thrive indoors. Olive trees are supposed to be outside and are fruit bearing trees. They’re not for decoration. Also with all those chemicals sprayed around I’m counting down the days until it dies like the fish
 
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R. Phalange

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A £60 changing bag, unnecessary plastic shoe bags and plastic labels for the woman who was saying how important it was that her Tesco range was sustainable just a few days ago 🤣🤣
 
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