Exactly this, I’ve just had my first and I seriously thought (not my other halves Doing) that I wanted to get back to my pre baby weight if not less, however since she’s been born, I’ve been lucky enough (to some, not all) to go back to my pre baby weight most of all cause of breast feeding, but my god, I am EATING, every Tom dick and Harry out there, but I look at myself completely differently, I’m so proud of my mum Tum, my tiger stripes, my saggy bum, these things I never thought I’d ever love. And now I look in the mirror with less disgust and more PRIDE, I’m also Lucky my husband also sees that in me too xx