On the privilege point - not only is her grandfather a KNIGHT, her uncles include a Grammy winner and a Brown University professor who studied at OXFORD (coincidence?)
To me it’s quite simple - would Grace have been accepted into her Oxford without her upbringing? Absolutely not.
She has mediocre grades, but was surrounded by people both at school and home who had been through the process and could coach her through the “perfect” interview. At great expense to her parents, she was taught at both the Royal Academy of Music and multiple private schools, including the best private school in the UK for girls (where 44% got accepted to Oxbridge this year) and at Salisbury Cathedral where she was a chorister. She was rejected for her original choice (was it PPE?) and was only accepted for music ON THE CONDITION that she join her college choir. Everything that her parents provided her set her up for that Oxford acceptance. The odds were completely stacked in her favour.
Second - would she have been so successful if it wasn’t for Oxford? Absolutely not. Granted, Oxford didn’t help her career in the traditional sense, but it made her stand out as an influencer. Every YT video would be”What I Eat in a Day at Oxford” or “Day in the Life at Oxford”. Even the location tags in her Insta posts were Oxford.
Yes, her initial following came before uni but it was only when she went to uni that she blew up. It wasn’t just the fitness content, it was the fact she was something people hadn’t seen before - a ripped white girl living in a mansion in Kensington and attending one of the best universities in the world. It was completely aspirational - people didn’t follow Grace, they wanted to BE Grace.
So yes, not everybody in Grace’s position has built huge companies. But almost everybody in Grace’s position would have gone on to be hugely successful, and if they hadn’t they would have had to have done something significantly wrong.
Has she ever in her life acknowledged her true privilege, beyond being white and having been to private school (she never specifies which by the way)? Never. It’s not just the fact that she’s white, it’s everything I’ve said above plus more, but to admit that would make Grace seem far less impressive than she is.
Not only does she not acknowledge her true privilege, but she actively downplays it-
- Claims she could only attend Oxford due to choral scholarship. In reality was worth just a couple hundred a year and she quit after the first term.
- Claims she was almost kicked out of university because she couldn’t afford her student loan. It was a student finance error that was quickly resolved.
- Once said she lives in “Wiltshire” to seem relatable, failing to mention she only lived there as part of Salisbury Cathedral’s boarding school that cost tens of thousands a year (this was primary school by the way)
Its damaging, dishonest and honestly just annoying to read lol