Thank you, you completely get how I feelI completely get this. It makes you feel a bit used and like they don’t have any interest in you outside of what they want / when they want it. It’s not nice. Have you told him how this makes you feel?
I attempted to start the conversation, I said to him that I feel that he sometimes is a bit inconsiderate and he responded by saying he sees himself as mostly empathetic. He didn't really ask why I felt this way, but then again I understand that nobody like to be criticised.
I also think that he seems to be unable to focus on multiple things at the same time - I also find this challenging.
But a romantic interest is always at the forefront of my mind, so I personally would not freeze / slow contact in this way.