I put my 2 year old to bed at 7 after picking him up from nursery at 5 because regardless of the time I put him to bed he wakes up at 5 and I want him to get a good nights sleep, does that make me a bad mum? Childrenās routines often canāt be dictated by the parent, they do as they please. TRUST ME Iād love to keep him up until 8 if that meant he would sleep last 5.
Also her getting āevery weekend offā is because she has him all week, maybe John wants it that way? The idea that she is supposed to spend every weekend with her child is so weird when he has another parent as well.
Iām not saying people canāt shame her, people can do as they please, Iām just questioning why people are so obsessed with that one point when the alternative is her sitting at home waiting for her child to get back. It takes 2 to make a child and she already has him well over 50% of the time.