I think LAT (Living Apart Together) is the way to go in these situations. You're in a committed relationship, but haven't blended your lives. There seems to be a lot of pressure on people to live together after a certain point. I'm not sure I'd be in a rush to do that again.
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I think when theres young kids involved people should definitely keep their romatic life and their home life separate.
I know women who have guys they've met through online dating sleep over, with the kids in the house. Kids then jumping into bed in the morning with a strange man there.
How can you know the man you're moving in is not a peddelo?
My sister married her first boyfriend. They met at school and started dating at 17. (They didn't marry till their mid 20s I should add!) However, he left her for another woman and walked out on her and their children. I might sound biased, but she's friendly, hard working, didn't let herself go, etc - so it's not like she gave him a reason to walk out either.
We all thought he was great and never thought he'd do anything like that. Which made me feel like we never truly know someone; no matter how long they've been around.
Sorry to be depressing!
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Oh yeah anyone one can turn into a twatt. But at least if you know them from young you know their past. If you meet some random in his 30s he could have been in prison for diddling kids for all you know. Or could have beaten his first wife. Or could really like Queen!
Derry Girls is just okay.
Well, true. I suppose you feel a bit better if you meet long term friends of theirs.
Yes definitely, always be suspicious of parters that keep you outside their friendship and family circles. Or worse don't have any.
Just found this thread and can't believe anyone would be so fickle.
. I've had my sofa nearly 30 years and am just deciding to replace. Although I do like silver/grey crushed velvet (don't judge me). I've had my tumble dryer since 1979 and still use it. 
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In terms of women's sports I think there a few stars who rise up and are genuinely as interesting to watch as the men. But there's just not as many who come through to break the barrier.
100% this! My ex told me his neighbours didn’t like him but he had no idea why… turns out it was because he left his ex wife beaten and half naked on the front lawn for them to take in! Also never seemed to mention any friends but we met just before covid so thought it was due to lockdown etc… turns out he’d been sleeping with his best mates wife for 5 years
Only ever see her on shows with other comedians. Obvious she's only ever on these shows to fulfil a quota and tick the boxes. Same as Shappi 'I'm Iranian' Khorsandi.
Good God, TV execs can't just leave comedy to talented comedians...think about the uproar from the woke (who probably don't find Rosie Jones funny either).
I've yet to find anyone who does actually like her comedy.
All inclusive holidays are the worst kind of holiday.
I think they're fine if you just want to chill by the pool and not worry about paying for food and drink. I've done them and enjoyed it but the most memorable trips are definitely those where I explored local places and hardly spent time in the hotel
this is exactly my favourite type of holiday! To be honest I couldn’t care where I am in the world as long as the food is nice, the pool cold and the weather hot! (Im not a total philistine I’ve done the culture thing separately!). Although the last one was in Dubai where all inclusive obviously has a different meaning when you’re only allowed 3 of the 10 cocktails on the menu
Nutella is gross. 🫥
As is peanut butter.
ETA: gross not great
ETA: gross not great
Yes it's nice sometimes. Though after lockdown I'm keen to explore places, enough of being stuck in one placethis is exactly my favourite type of holiday! To be honest I couldn’t care where I am in the world as long as the food is nice, the pool cold and the weather hot! (Im not a total philistine I’ve done the culture thing separately!). Although the last one was in Dubai where all inclusive obviously has a different meaning when you’re only allowed 3 of the 10 cocktails on the menu
Would not go to Dubai if they paid me though
Lotus biscoff is horrible 
i won’t be going again! Second time there, first was quite a few years ago and it’s definitely been ruined since then!Yes it's nice sometimes. Though after lockdown I'm keen to explore places, enough of being stuck in one place
Would not go to Dubai if they paid me though
I bloody love mine!Botox is brilliant
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