Im 39 with no kids and no desire for them. Honestly, I dont believe he is with her for the right reason's like most of you have stated. I WOULD never date a man with 1 kid, let alone 3. I lightly dated a man who had twins with an active mother and a full time nanny, and I still couldnt handle it. When I wanted to go on vaca's, dinner's, out etc we had to always schedule it around the kids. I cared for him deeply and really wished it could work, but when you are accustomed to silence, peace and freedom no one can take that away from you. I commend all you amazing mama's in here! I couldnt be selfless enough in this lifetime to have kids.