That's so good. This is a great thread and actually we are all learning a lot.Speaking generally, I think they WOULD read this thread because it would buoy their belief system that the world is against them and be evidence of their victimisation yet again. It supports a person's narcissism and how unfair the world is towards them. You notice in the 99.99% of positive comments on her channel, all she "sees" or responds to is the 0.01% that are negative or the 0.00001% within those that were critical of Matt.
This place would act as a confirmation bias to how biased/ jealous/ bullying / unfair the world is against her.
I have to thank all the Tattlers on here; as a result, at my specialist appointment today, I thought of him like a mechanic "looking under the hood" and I didn't mince words or symptoms, but, embarrassment be damned, I just laid it all out there for his consideration.
I feel it was one of the most honest and thorough medical appointments I've ever had. I have never been more forthcoming. Thank you to all who have participated in the discussion about doctor/patient relationships and how we have a responsibility ourselves to help them help us by putting aside any delicate sensitivities and just giving them the full picture!
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That's so good. This is a great thread and actually we are all learning a lot.
On the "so annoyed" video, someone dropped a bomb of truth in the comments. I hope it doesn't get deleted.
Yes, finally a sensible comment! I just checked and it is still there, now it’s been up for 5 hours. I hope too that it doesn’t get “blocked, deleted, tic tic tic”!
Yes, I just went back to check. Tiffany and Amma are both wearing the “We Got This” t-shirts.
I hadn't even noticed this, shocking.Sirens blaring? Her mother drove her didn't she?
If anything like me yes. I know we are not all the same but hear me out. Old me (prior to therapy) would read it because I have control issues and need to know everything ring said about me and either a: have a tantrum/rant about the situation not be able to control my emotions and refuse to see people point of view and see it as one big attack on me. Lots of victim mentality and all these thousands of people are the bad guys. Or b: disassociate with my head in the sand lalalalala, this is a coping mechanism I have due to past trauma. It’s like watching your life unfold before you’re eyes but it’s not happening to you. Almost like watching a movie about your own life.
I suspect that wearing the merch to the hospital is as much about superstition as it as about promotion. The vlogging equivalent of not stepping on the cracks in the pavement. Maybe I’m just being naïve though.
Yes, her mother drove her. It was pretty frantic, Tiffany sounded like she felt awful, and Amma looked so worried. I think the video was called “Rushing into Hospital”.
And her voice was so breathless as if she were urgently conveying an emergent play by play dramatic crisis as it was unfolding as Amma gripped the steering wheel and rushed her in.
I think, if it were me, I'd probably create a random incognito username and join in here, only because I would find it irritating that people were making pronouncements about me, especially if I felt completely misrepresented in what I meant or who I was. Lol, I'd probably want to be a participant in that dialogue.
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I agree with whomever said that if you stifle speech, it will inevitably find another venue. It feels very personal to have your voice muted, especially polite (but alternative) viewpoints and those sincerely seeking clarity. There was a very noticeable shift in tone.Update: that comment now has been tagged by one of her followers; Block, delete,
I think there is a reason so many of us, en masse and at the exact same moment in time of Tiffany's videotaped journey, all felt absolutely perplexed and frustrated, that we suddenly didn't really understand exactly what was going on and a wall had been placed between us and the candid answers we were seeking. Then, when the people voicing their confusion began to be muffled, a search for another venue to sort out our collective angst emerged. It was very organic wasn't it how it unfolded as a whole, yet individually.
That's hilarious.Update: that comment now has been tagged by one of her followers; Block, delete,
Who are these sad people??
Probably those that were telling on other children in kindergarten ("Ma'm, Kevin didn't spoiled the table with his hot chocolate, he wasn't careful, bad Kevin! Please send him to the naughty corner!"
I agree. I feel very strongly about free speech. I don’t like censorship. As long as it’s polite and sincere, we should be able discuss anything. I’m so happy that I found this thread! Thank you to the commenter who posted it.
She hurt herself by deleting us, preventing discussion, and refusing to answer any of the civilized legit questions people were asking, tick tick tick. Imagine...all that content engagement...poof
Correct, she was puking (had a bucket at hand) and in pain, but still could wearing the merch shirt. Oscar worthy performance
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I can't imagine filming myself, vomiting, while my heartbroken mum drove me to hospital. How callousCorrect, she was puking (had a bucket at hand) and in pain, but still could wearing the merch shirt. Oscar worthy performance
People are just really confused by her cancer, has she ever talked openly about the surgery? She keeps saying it’s huge, or hectic, but no more as far as I’m aware? Why can’t she sit down and draw a diagram showing where her cancer is, explain the surgery and how life changing it will be. Nat Woodward did. You are either vlogging bout your cancer or not. She could educate so many other people on this, especially young people. I can’t get over the fact she acts about 15 and seems incapable of doing anything.
Yes indeed, the education and support she could afford others who sadly receive similar diagnoses would / could be invaluable.
This specific cancer has become increasingly prevalent (in modern times) amongst a much younger population.
To share one’s story with the world is indeed courageous, very specifically when your journey can offer some support and insight to others dealing with a similar crisis at such a young age, but to share your story with the world to gain financial remuneration with a total disregard of offering honest pertinent information is cold and calculating.
PET SCAN AT HOSPITAL *cancer*
On bed upstairs watching NETflix, getting ready to go to hospital for PET scan. Feel better after ranting in her "podcast", which she's uploaded on YT. Not allowed to eat or drink before PET scan. Such a nice break from hospital visits. CT scans are easy for her. Hates MRI scans. PET scans are ok, but she really does not like it, as not allowed to see children. Conclusion: she does not like any scans.
Amma is driving her, in red tshirt, and she in marine we got this sweatshirt. Standard merch for hospital visits. Link provided if you want one. Hot flushes still, cold, temperature is all over. No blood test yet for meno problem. So hungry since dinner. Excited to go home and eat leftover from last night's dinner made by Matt. No snacks for car ride because Matt is not here. Thinking about food. Talking about her c. diff hospital stay where she couldn't eat as well. PET scan, tick, tick, tick. Found parking spot right at the back of hospital.
Have a book with her to read after they inject radioactive dye and need to wait for an hour before scan. T.V. is working. She needs to keep her mind occupied. It's difficult to block things out, but she just has to do it. This life isn't going to be forever. I feel like I cannot get upset. It's still hard whenever I come to the hospital, in this room. Amma went to her sister's place to hang out for an hour to spend time with her niece and nephew, and then will come back to pick her up when the scan's done. Just took her blue ring off, always reminds her of We Got This blue heart. Switched on T.V., and as a treat, she watched Miracle on 34th Street, even though Halloween is not over, and she does not celebrate Halloween anyway. She will think about Christmas even though it's October. So sleepy. What's your fav Christmas movie?
Going to carpark to find Amma after scan. She cried while she went inside the machine. Couldn't stop her tears or wipe them with her hands which had to be up in the machine. Wanted MacDonalds chips (or fries in the U.S.) as a little treat. So hungry. Sis made her a little sandwich, which she ate in car. Yummy. Vegan cheese with cucumbers and spicy sauce. Sis also gave her crisps. Decided to leave Macdonald's trip for another scan the next day.
Back home, and will finish some editing. Amma made her a cuppa tea. Also having a slice of little cake. Her darling is home, chilling in kitchen. Some netflix show she watched was hectic, but she couldn't stop watching it.
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On bed upstairs watching NETflix, getting ready to go to hospital for PET scan. Feel better after ranting in her "podcast", which she's uploaded on YT. Not allowed to eat or drink before PET scan. Such a nice break from hospital visits. CT scans are easy for her. Hates MRI scans. PET scans are ok, but she really does not like it, as not allowed to see children. Conclusion: she does not like any scans.
Amma is driving her, in red tshirt, and she in marine we got this sweatshirt. Standard merch for hospital visits. Link provided if you want one. Hot flushes still, cold, temperature is all over. No blood test yet for meno problem. So hungry since dinner. Excited to go home and eat leftover from last night's dinner made by Matt. No snacks for car ride because Matt is not here. Thinking about food. Talking about her c. diff hospital stay where she couldn't eat as well. PET scan, tick, tick, tick. Found parking spot right at the back of hospital.
Have a book with her to read after they inject radioactive dye and need to wait for an hour before scan. T.V. is working. She needs to keep her mind occupied. It's difficult to block things out, but she just has to do it. This life isn't going to be forever. I feel like I cannot get upset. It's still hard whenever I come to the hospital, in this room. Amma went to her sister's place to hang out for an hour to spend time with her niece and nephew, and then will come back to pick her up when the scan's done. Just took her blue ring off, always reminds her of We Got This blue heart. Switched on T.V., and as a treat, she watched Miracle on 34th Street, even though Halloween is not over, and she does not celebrate Halloween anyway. She will think about Christmas even though it's October. So sleepy. What's your fav Christmas movie?
Going to carpark to find Amma after scan. She cried while she went inside the machine. Couldn't stop her tears or wipe them with her hands which had to be up in the machine. Wanted MacDonalds chips (or fries in the U.S.) as a little treat. So hungry. Sis made her a little sandwich, which she ate in car. Yummy. Vegan cheese with cucumbers and spicy sauce. Sis also gave her crisps. Decided to leave Macdonald's trip for another scan the next day.
Back home, and will finish some editing. Amma made her a cuppa tea. Also having a slice of little cake. Her darling is home, chilling in kitchen. Some netflix show she watched was hectic, but she couldn't stop watching it.
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[Tiffany in a cheery voice]:"We got this and we're doing this again!"
*Tiffany stares off into space sadly*
Toxic positivity is mentally torturing this poor woman. "We got this" has become a cult-like mantra that she repeats to snap herself out of moments when she acknowledges the reality of her situation. It's almost like she's hypnotized herself and "we got this" are the magic words to keep her under the spell of obliviousness
*Tiffany stares off into space sadly*
Toxic positivity is mentally torturing this poor woman. "We got this" has become a cult-like mantra that she repeats to snap herself out of moments when she acknowledges the reality of her situation. It's almost like she's hypnotized herself and "we got this" are the magic words to keep her under the spell of obliviousness
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