Tiff doesn’t mention Matt's trip to Ireland to avoid drawing more attention to the fact that Tiffany didn't accompany him there. Who knows if Matt's family watches her videos or not! Tiffany seems depressed a bit and said she had trouble starting her day(s). Also, I don't believe she really likes work, but she says she does so she appears industrious. The amount of preparation and self-pep talk she does the day before going to work almost seems like she is trying to convince herself she likes working: taking grapes for a snack at work, saying she has to be going to sleep at 22h despite showing her audience a book she would rather be reading at that time, while never mentioning ever preparing a sandwich for Matt given that he seems to be working more days than she is. I think she would rather not work, but she isn't the homemaker type either since cooking seems like a chore for her: She mostly describes easy recipes and clearly enjoys getting prepared meals from her mom, who seems to be an excellent cook.
The same with her life coach course, saying out loud she really really enjoys it, but she fails to sit down and write her essays that need to be done. In her position I would never take such a course, if she's really interested in psychology, read some books without the pressure of taking exams and writing essays.
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The cream home home is def bought by her alone. If he put his money in the home home he would be involved with her tiny bits of renovations. She said he's not, she said I "could" ask Matt if I wanted. So why don't you involve him, when you work so well together thinking the same about everything etc...
He reminds me of a friend of mine. She's 46 now, no kids, no house of her own, not married. She lives with a guy who has his own house, he refuses to get married and now she's too old for kids. I talked to her last friday, and she has regrets about how it all turned out. Matt is going the same path, tiffany "thinks" only about herself, making sure she is safe and secure with money and properties and his position in all this is not her problem.