A fellow Tattler? But can't speak up here? How lame of them.
It's important to remember too that anyone anywhere can impersonate anyone...the foxes and their abundant procreation was a great example. It's easy enough to use a similar username somewhere else or use similar phraseology to someone here just to target someone or throw suspicion elsewhere. I just try to focus on a sentiment and whether I agree with it or not rather than getting bogged down by who said what and where. Factor in sarcasm, that's enough for me to try to parse never mind trying to figure out if the person has a persona here too! The paranoia can hurt our community so I just won't engage in it or make accusations against other Tattlers which are impossible to refute yet so unfair if wrong. I'll ignore anyone that doesn't ring true rather than make an overt accusation, that approach sits best for me.
Many people have a genuine interest in cancer posters, and hers just doesn’t tick the boxes. I don’t suppose she has the slightest intention of making her channel informative in terms of her operation and recovery. This is frustrating as it’s the sole reason she now has a large following, but I bet her future videos will be more of the same old bollocks.
Not only has she no intention, but in one of her last videos before surgery (along with her earlier mentions to try to "clear the air"), she was very direct and made very explicit her intention of not discussing her cancer anymore following her surgery. I am certain it is very annoying to her that everyone keeps asking her about her cancer and surgery update given this announcement which appears to have gone largely ignored. If we had any doubt, her Christmas video and the one announcing she was going home were completely lacking in any substantive health information at all, so she is very clear by action as well that she does not care to update all her concerned subs. It's cruel, really. But she couldn't be any clearer.
I think she
wants to talk about what she got for Christmas and do an entire 'show and tell' of her recuperation attire and gonk companions. She just cannot figure out how to transition the masses to her preferred surface-level content while restricting the demands on her to give up the details on what the surgery entailed and what she's now dealing with.
In some respects she's toying with us, she could have asked Nat not to publically acknowledge any contact and she did not have to make a public comment on Nat's IG. She knew it would draw attention. Just like she said she was taking time off from social media, yet she dragged out the vlogmas and now these few insubstantial pieces to keep people hanging on. Push me, pull me. It's no wonder we're all discombobulated and having a hard time completely disengaging. It's no wonder she's inspired the ugliness in some, our frustration is maxed out.
But she definitely does not want her newfound notoriety to be associated with cancer or the status of her gastrointestinal, urinary and sexual systems, there is no confusion left about that even if she continues to use clickbait *CANCER* and dramatic images in her video previews. I don't know how much clearer she could be given her stated announcement and ensuing silence, that her "online diary" will not contain this information. As mentioned earlier and to quote Dr. Maya Angelou: "
when people show you who they are, believe them the first time." If nothing else, Tiffany has been consistent about who she is throughout her entire vlogging career. It has just taken many of us some time to believe it and not think more of her than what's actually and genuinely there. It's been a bit difficult to accept the reality of her controlling narrative when we had such high hopes initially of supporting her along in her journey.
Of course, she could prove me wrong tomorrow with whatever video is queued up and set to roll out. But, I for one, will not be waiting on the edge of my seat for it nor expecting this air-fryed leopard to change her spots.